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THE 10 BEST POSITIONS FOR ANAL

All you faithful readers know I’m a big fan of knocking on a girl’s back door. It feels great. It’s naughty. What’s not to like about it?

Nothing… for the guy.

For the girl, anal can often be traumatic. I’ve posted a bunch of times on how to prepare for anal sex. You can type “anal” in my search bar and get a ton of info. But let me highlight some things:

Anal sex requires preparation to keep it from being messy.

Anal sex requires relaxation and trust. If the girl isn’t relaxed… if she tenses up… that’s when it hurts.

Anal sex requires a lot of lube. LOTS of lube.

Anal sex requires you to begin small. A finger in the ass. Then two fingers. Then your cock.

Anal sex requires you to start slow. Slide it in and pump with short, slow strokes.

Anal sex requires foreplay. Because again, a woman needs to be really relaxed and into it before her ass will open.

What I haven’t written about in much detail is good positions for anal. I’ve said, “If it hurts, try the woman on top.” But beyond that, nothing much. That changes with this post.

I want to share with you ten positions that can be great for anal. They’re great for a variety of reasons: intimacy, pleasure for him, pleasure for her, comfort, etc. I’ll spell out the benefits of each one. They are listed in no particular order. But if you read the articles about preparing for anal that I have written and then learn these ten positions, I guarantee you that you can comfortably (and erotically!) add this very enjoyable aspect to your sex life.

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THE REVERSE COWGIRL RUMP RIDER

He lies on his back, legs together. She straddles him, facing away and bounces with his dong-a-long in her bonk-a-donk.

This position is great for her, not only because it lets her control how deep and fast her ass is being fucked, but also because it provides a great angle. He’s going straight in, with a slight upward press. Should be comfortable.

It’s a great position for him because of the view - her bulbous back pillows being split by his love meat.

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THE SPHINCTER SPOON

The key to this spooning technique is that the girl pulls her legs up close to her chest, maybe using her arms behind her knees to hold them. When the legs are pulled up like that, the external spincter muscle (i.e. the asshole) loosens some.

When the guy slides in, he goes as deep as possible. But motion is limited.

This position is all about intimacy. There is a ton of body contact. He can whisper in her ear or kiss her neck. Guys, you also can play with her nipples or even reach between her legs and rub gently.

This is a great starter position for the first anal of the night, precisely because there isn’t much motion. It lets her slowly relax her booty.

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THE SUPER SODOMY SIDE SLIDE

In this position, the girl lies facedown, then pulls one leg up some. So her one leg is straight down. With her other leg, she’s pulled her knee up close to even with her waist. This tilts her slightly onto her side. The guy then straddles the one leg that is straight down. He spreads her cheeks, and slides in.

What makes this position great for her is how relaxing it is. He can rub her back while he’s fucking her ass. It also doesn’t allow for very deep penetration.

For him there are two pleasures. First, as he pumps, his scrotum is going to be rubbing against the smooth skin on the back of her leg. It feels amazing. Secondly, each time he thrusts in, her one butt cheek - the one of the leg that is straight out - is going to hit him right in what is sometimes called the “inguinal canal” area, where the guy’s leg meets his torso. The firm but soft tush pressing in there… fuck! Feel so good!

Guys, an added little treat for her… She she first gets in this position, get down there, slide a finger in her vajayjay, palm facing down, curling the finger slightly. That will place your fingertip on her g-spot. While you work the finger in and out, let your tongue press on her asshole, just causing it to spread a little. She’ll love it.

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THE DALLYING IN HER DERRIERE

This is a lovely, slow, lazy way to pump her rump. You are on her side. She is on her back, with her legs hitched over you. She can keep them together or spread them apart, depending on what she finds more comfortable.

This is also a very intimate position, as it allows you to see each other’s faces. Motion is limited, as her legs hooked over him prevent him from pumping too hard. He can play with her chest or her clit. She can reach down and rub his balls while he fucks her.

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THE ASS-N-CLITTY

Another variation of women-on top. The girl straddles the guy, cowgirl style, facing him, her knees wide apart. She puts his hotdog in her buns, then leans back, using her hands for support. And she bounces and bounces and bounces.

The plus for her is that she gets to control tempo and depth. And again, it’s a great angle - straight up her dark tunnel.

In addition, in that position her guy has clear access to her clitty-cat. He can pet it. Guys, in this position, I recommend using your thumb. Lick it so it’s slick. Then press it down on top of her clit and roll it, like a pea bring rolled under your finger.

Or you can take a finger and curl it in, making a “come here” motion. That puts your finger on her g-spot. Again, roll it around like a pea under your fingertip.

For guys, not only do you have an amazing view, but it actually is a very tight fit. With her knees apart like that, her glute muscles get pushed together. Thus, your shaft is cradled in soft butt cheek. Feels amazing.

True story. I have had a girlfriend squirt all over my abs in this position while I was in her ass.

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THE CATHOLIC BIRTH CONTROL

You wouldn’t think missionary position would be great for anal, but it really, really is. However, you probably need to have her hips tilted up. You can do this simply by placing a few pillows under her hips.

This is another position aimed at intimacy. The couple can kiss and caress even as he’s tapping her tushie.

This position also allows for only shallow penetration, thus it’s great for a girl who, try as she might, believes she can only take the tip. It’s also great for a guy who is well endowed, as maybe only the first two or three inches will get in.

Guys, be careful in this position. It’s easy to slip out. And what can really hurt a girl is when you slip out and then don’t aim carefully when you slide back in. It forces her anus to stretch in funny ways! No bueno.

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THE HERO, POOTER-POUNDER STYLE

In the kamasutra, “the Hero” position is woman on her back, with her legs pulled up to the degree that her pelvis tilts up. This can be done a variety of ways. She can grab under he knees and pull them back. He can grab her ankles and push them back. The point is, her legs are in the air, spread apart, and her hips are tilted up. This gives him a straight shot to her pooter-palace!

After six positions which were more gentle, we now get to the ones which will be a bit harder. Thus, it requires a bit more experience. These are anal positions you might try after you have being doing one of the first six for awhile. So your rump is all relaxed and ready for a good ramming. ;)

For the girls, the fun part of this position is that as well as any of them, you have access to your sugared almond. While your man drills your dumper, rub that thing like you are a DJ and it’s god-damned New Years Eve. You might cum.

Guys, you need to understand that with her hips tilted and legs spread, you could go really, really deep. That’s great, if she says it’s great. If not, then this is a position where you have to exercise self control and only use the first four inches or so.

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THE DOGGY IN THE DONK

I don’t want to exaggerate here, so I’ll say it carefully. This is the biggest fantasy of every man on earth. There is nothing like getting a hot girl face down, ass up, and smashing her onion.

What does this give to the guys? The best site on earth. When you can see your cock sliding in and out, wedged between those breathtaking cheeks… when that booty meet shakes with each thrust, a slight ripple working through each one… wow. I have a tear in my eye just thinking about it.

In addition to the view, if the girl has warmed up to anal and can handle it, this is the position in which the guy can go his hardest. The angle of his cock in her ass, especially if she puts her chest down on the bed, is such that it is a very, very smooth fit. Her rectum is in its natural position. So he can grab her hips and pound away.

For the girl, doggystyle anal can be either heaven or purgatory. He’s going to be deep in your ass. But in this position, he stimulates some of the nerves that are actually located in the vaginal wall. If a girl is going to cum during anal, this position will probably be it. While the guy is reaming her from behind, she’ll reach down and play with her clit. If she can cum this way, it will be so intense her back might break.

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THE BEST LAP DANCE EVER

This is yet another woman on top position. The man sits in a chair. Guys, use a kitchen chair, not a big ass recliner. It gives you more range of motion. The woman come and sits on his lap, with his man-meat in her moneymaker.

There are two variations to this. The woman can put her legs between his legs. If she does this, she can put her hands on his knees and bounce. Or the woman can put her legs outside his. Unless she has really long legs, she might not be able to bounce as well. But she can grind and rock. It’s a amazing sensation when you grind in that position, ladies! It’s like you are trying to break our cock off inside your can.

Guys, if she goes with her legs outside yours, why not reach around and flick her on-off switch lightly. It’s ether that your you make it rain!

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THE 3AM AT DANIEL’S HOUSE

This is a variation on doggystyle - doing it while standing, with the woman bent over something. It’s one of my favorites, hence the name. (Back off! When you get your own blog, you can name sex positions after yourself too!)

It’s a really comfortable position for the woman. She’s braced on a chair or couch. She might even be able to rest on it. A variation is if she picks up one leg and rests her knee on the object. A good example of that is a bathroom counter. She leans over it and puts one knee up on it while I explore her third-entry.

It’s great for the guy for the same reason doggystyle is. It’s a nice view. He can grab the hips and go hard. Because it’s a comfortable position, it’s also great for prolonged anal. There’s no need to pound out your nut in 30 seconds. Get her in this position and spend a good 20 minutes working her bubble over.

This position can also be very pleasurable for the woman too. There is a muscle cluster that starts in your lower back, runs through the glutes, and down the back of the legs to the heel. That’s why if you walk funny in a bad shoe, it can hurt your back. It’s the longest muscle cluster in the human body. When a girl is bent over like this, that muscle cluster is tight. And so as she tenses her anus slightly (which is natural to do as your ass is being fucked), she’ll feel that through her entire lower body. And guys, if you can reach around and play with her clit and make her cum in this position, she can collapse. The shudder it sends through her legs literally floors her.

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And there you have it, faithful readers. Is this every anal position I know. Please! I’m Daniel Fucking Davis. This is the tip of the iceberg. But hopefully if you like these, you can put your own spins and variances on them, and have plenty of variety to your hot, hot booty sex!

Now, if you like this, please reblog! Cause let’s face it. This is good advice.

Credit for all the illustrations goes to wewomen.com. They have their own take on “best of” positions. I just used their illustrations, which I thought were cute!

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THE 10 BEST POSITIONS FOR ANAL

All you faithful readers know I’m a big fan of knocking on a girl’s back door. It feels great. It’s naughty. What’s not to like about it?

Nothing… for the guy.

Anal sex requires preparation to keep it from being messy.

Anal sex requires relaxation and trust. If the girl isn’t relaxed… if she tenses up… that’s when it hurts.

Anal sex requires a lot of lube. LOTS of lube.

Anal sex requires you to begin small. A finger in the ass. Then two fingers. Then your cock.

Anal sex requires you to start slow. Slide it in and pump with short, slow strokes.

Anal sex requires foreplay. Because again, a woman needs to be really relaxed and into it before her ass will open.

What I haven’t written about in much detail is good positions for anal. I’ve said, “If it hurts, try the woman on top.” But beyond that, nothing much. That changes with this post.

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THE REVERSE COWGIRL RUMP RIDER

He lies on his back, legs together. She straddles him, facing away and bounces with his dong-a-long in her bonk-a-donk.

It’s a great position for him because of the view - her bulbous back pillows being split by his love meat.

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THE SPHINCTER SPOON

When the guy slides in, he goes as deep as possible. But motion is limited.

This is a great starter position for the first anal of the night, precisely because there isn’t much motion. It lets her slowly relax her booty.

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THE SUPER SODOMY SIDE SLIDE

What makes this position great for her is how relaxing it is. He can rub her back while he’s fucking her ass. It also doesn’t allow for very deep penetration.

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THE DALLYING IN HER DERRIERE

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THE ASS-N-CLITTY

The plus for her is that she gets to control tempo and depth. And again, it’s a great angle - straight up her dark tunnel.

Or you can take a finger and curl it in, making a “come here” motion. That puts your finger on her g-spot. Again, roll it around like a pea under your fingertip.

True story. I have had a girlfriend squirt all over my abs in this position while I was in her ass.

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THE CATHOLIC BIRTH CONTROL

This is another position aimed at intimacy. The couple can kiss and caress even as he’s tapping her tushie.

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THE HERO, POOTER-POUNDER STYLE

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THE DOGGY IN THE DONK

I don’t want to exaggerate here, so I’ll say it carefully. This is the biggest fantasy of every man on earth. There is nothing like getting a hot girl face down, ass up, and smashing her onion.

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THE BEST LAP DANCE EVER

Guys, if she goes with her legs outside yours, why not reach around and flick her on-off switch lightly. It’s ether that your you make it rain!

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THE 3AM AT DANIEL’S HOUSE

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Now, if you like this, please reblog! Cause let’s face it. This is good advice.

Credit for all the illustrations goes to wewomen.com. They have their own take on “best of” positions. I just used their illustrations, which I thought were cute!

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Begging advice

Okay! Here are some suggestions and tips for you people who struggle with begging as part of dirty talk or play. Hope some of these help you grow as a kinkster or help you get more comfortable with this aspect of dirty talk.

1. Eye contact: Eye contact is super fucking important. Don’t close your eyes. Don’t look away. Make eye contact. Look at me. That’s it. Look at the person you are begging for.

2. Tone of your voice matters: The tone of your voice really matters. Are you going for a more sultry slower type of begging? A more primal and animalistic breathy type of begging? Do you want your tone to come across as subby and needy, or possibly desperate for your partner? Or more assertive and demanding? Try to experiment and explore with the tone of your voice. Maybe by practicing in front of a mirror or recording your voice before-hand if you are not comfortable practicing with your partner. But be mindful with not speaking too soft or too loud. Don’t speak too slow or too fast.

3. End your sentence with their title or name: always always always end the begging sentence with the name or title of your partner. It adds so much to the begging itself and makes it come across far more intense and needy. So for example “Please let me Sir.” “Fuck me deeper inside my little pussy, Daddy.” “Don’t stop. Don’t stop Master. Please please don’t stop sir.”

4. Make it filthy: just saying “please do X sir.” Is like ordering a meal without salt and spices. Try to make the begging hotter and more flavorful by using more dirty words or filthier sentences. Filthy words, names or dirty talk thrown in the begging will make it far more exciting to listen to. Like for example: “Please ruin this drenched little pussy sir.” Instead of “Please fuck me sir.”

5. Be specific and add detail: kinda like demonstrated with point 4. Details matter. Describe in detail what you need and want. Specify exactly what they can or should do to you. Don’t say “touch me please” instead specify exactly what body part you want to get touched or how. “Touch my ass however you like sir.” Details make the begging sound so much hotter

6. Use your body to emphasize the begging: use your body in whatever way possible to add to the naughtiness of the begging. It will make your words oh so much naughtier and impactful. Like for example wrap your arms or legs around them when begging for their load while getting fucked. Caress their knees and open your mouth to stick our your drool dripping tongue after begging for oral. Caress their body. Spread your legs. Kneel. Little actions like this while begging will add to the “begging scene” as kinda visual emphasizer or boost. Like if a sub is begging for me to use her lips for my pleasure and she then opens her mouth and sticks out her tongue. That will drive me extra crazy. So don’t forget begging isn’t only about what you say or how you say it. But also about how you physically and visually support the begging via different subtle acts.

7. “Please”: Always add a please in it. This one makes sense right? But sometimes people will forget that saying please will just make the begging sound so much more genuine and needy.

8. Express how you feel or how your partner makes you feel: begging isn’t always just about you asking your partner for them to do something or give you something. It’s also all the “talk” surrounding it. It’s the fluff around it that makes the begging even hotter. “You drive me crazy sir. I can’t. I can’t. Please touch my little pussy Daddy.” Or “Look. I’m so fucking wet, you made me so horny.. can you please please do..X”

9. Thank them: once you’ve begged. Once you’ve pleaded. And they have given you whatever you begged for. Thank them. Again and again. Thank them. The begging doesn’t stop the moment you get it. Finish this little begging situation by desperately thanking them over and over again and see them feel powerful and in control.

10. Their body. Not yours: little extra bonus suggestion. But this one is very person specific and relationship specific. Some people might hate it, I love it personally. So when you are begging for them to touch or fuck you (or a specific body part of yours), instead of referring to your body as your own refer to it as their body. It makes the begging so much more primal, possessive and connected in my opinion. So instead of “Please fill my drippy pussy Daddy.” Smile, spread your legs and say “ Please fill your(or this pussy of yours) drippy pussy Daddy.”

11. Begging reasons: this one is more-so something to think about when you are begging, maybe it might also influence the tone you are using when you initiate the begging. So what is the reason for you to beg? Is it for your pleasure or your partners? Is it to avoid punishment or receive pleasure? Is it begging so they make you feel good or begging to be allowed to make them feel good. Think about your begging reasons and honestly also just talk to your partner about what they prefer and like. Every person is different obviously and it might just be handy to talk to your partner about what they like.

12. Begging position: Besides what you say to beg it is also important to think about how to beg (physically). How will you stand or kneel? Legs open, mouth open after having said your words or will you bend over and just turn around to look back? Think about different positions that would look or be hot to try before you actually start begging. And that will make the begging scenario so much hotter and fun.

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Repeat these mantras to become a good girl:

I’m fuckmeat

I need to edge

I’m a cockhole

I’m a cocksleeve

I’m a dumb cunt

I need to please men

I’m just a set of holes

I need to do what I’m told

my opinion doesn’t count

I have to dress like a whore

my pleasure doesn’t matter

my cunt controls my thoughts

my little brain is not made for thinking

my purpose in life is to be pumped full of cum

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Edging and repeating

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How to Treat a Whore

🌹 throw me around and slap me when I fight back to make me feel helpless

🌹 grope me in public

🌹 slut shame me while you rape me

🌹 choke and gag me with your cock and fuck my face

🌹 get me drunk, get me alone and abuse my body

🌹 slap my cunt while you pound my asshole until your cum is dripping out of me

🌹 when we’re driving around pull my tits out of my shirt so you can grope me and people can see

🌹 brag about how hard you raped me, how you used my holes and made me cry and how wet I got while you railed my ass to everyone

🌹 remind me I’ll never be anything but a hole to rape

🌹 choke me while you fuck my holes

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My favorite ways to put disobient girls in their place;

A firm slap followed by a stern “Excuse me”?

Bending her over mid sentence for inspection. It’s hard to sass when you’re exposed like that.

Grabbing a fistful of her hair, forcing her head up to meet my gaze, and saying “mind your manners”.

Pulling her over my lap for a quick, but hard spanking. It should be under 2 minutes, but intense enough to remind her it could go a *lot* longer.

Making her kneel beside you while you’re finishing something up. Stuffing her panties in her mouth and warning her not to drop them is an added bonus.

Cuffing her hands behind her then exposing her tits. Reminding her that she’s eye candy needs to drop the attitude.

Yanking her pants to her knees, grabbing a tight hold of her neck, and marching her to the corner. Make her hold whatever position you prefer once she’s there, but her struggling to keep up and the look on her face while you remind her who’s in charge and what you’re going to do to her for misbehaving is perfect.

Making her strip naked for a spanking. Pull her over your lap, and make her sit there for a while before you actually begin. Spank her, make her get on her knees and apologize, then pull her back over your lap to finish the spanking. That keeps her off balance and submissive.

Grabbing her cheeks with one hand, forcing her mouth open, spitting inside it, closing her mouth, forcefully telling her to swallow, then sweetly asking “what were you saying”?

Lastly; Roughly pull her over your lap like you’re going to spank her, but don’t. Instead, play with her pretty little pussy. Edge her. Get her close to orgasm, then put her on her knees. Inform her that only good girls get to cum, and sense she can’t behave, she doesn’t get to cum. Use her mouth for the rest of the night, whenever you want. She’ll be soaked, with only the promise that maybe in the morning, you’ll let her her. That attitude fixes itself, every time.

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these are humiliating and demeaning...and 100% effective

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Cunt Translator

Not sure what your cunt is trying to tell you? Use this as a guide!*

“Yes” = Yes

“No” = Yes

“Please no” = Yes, but slap me first

“I’m not in the mood tonight” = Hold me down and force it in

“I have a boyfriend/husband” = Give me bruises to hide from him

“Stop” = Harder

“Please stop” = Spit on me

“That hurts” = Keep going

“Be gentle” = Hit me harder

“I can’t breathe” = Choke me harder

“I’ll suck your cock” = Force it down my throat

“I don’t swallow” = Slap me until I agree to swallow, then spit in my mouth

“Play with my clit” = Slap my cunt

“Fuck my cunt” = Fuck my ass

“I don’t do anal” = My ass is very tight

“No it won’t fit” = Force it in

“No please it hurts” = Don’t use lube

“Be more respectful” = Step on my face while you fuck my asshole

“I’m a classy girl” = I love ass to mouth

“I’m about to cum” = Don’t let me cum yet, I haven’t earned it

And some body language cues:

Wears lingerie and/or heels = Fuck me

Wears any other clothes = Hit me for wearing clothes, then fuck me

Gets on her knees = Skull fuck me

Gets on all fours = Fuck my ass

Gets on her back = Slap my cunt then fuck my ass

Smiles = Fuck my throat until I pass out

Cries = Fuck my ass harder

Whimpers = Slap my tits

Screams = Gag me, preferably with your cock

Tries to run away = Tie me up then slap and fuck me even harder

*Assuming limits and safe words have been established.

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Dating Tips for us women cunts

you are expected to suck and fuck on the first date, anal is always a great first date option.

Groping is a huge commitment, be sure to use your manners and say thank You.

you are not nearly as important as He is, default to His wants and needs.

How you look is just as important as how you act. Make an effort to always look great for Him. Always be courteous and polite. Default to His preferences.

If you’re going out for dinner, ask Him to order your meal for you.

He guides and controls the conversation and activities you both do together.

Laugh at His jokes. He’s sharing part of Himself with you.

Don’t eat until He says you can begin eating.

Remember, He leads and you should always follow His lead. you are inferior to Him.

Take notes of the things He likes and dislikes.

Do your best to incorporate everything He likes into what you do, wear, say, think, etc.

Also, cull anything He dislikes. He shouldn’t have to say it twice.

Conform to His wants, needs, and desires.

you want Him to like you, right?

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Your Life as a New Pet

Blackmail dice game.

Today's Blackmail game doesn't have photo rolls. At the end of all the rolls you'll do a little photoshoot of all that you'll be expected to do while under your doms control.

First Roll: Outfit

Underwear only

Just panties

Just a shirt

Bra and Short Skirt

Naked

Naked with a tail

Second Roll: Animal

This is the animal you'll act like

1-2: Bunny

3-4: Puppy

5: Kitten

6: Horse

Third Roll: Light Info

First name

Your phone number

Last name

Friend's contact

Your address

All of the above

Fourth Roll: Medium Info

Links to your social media accounts

Your boss's email

Your parent's email

3 friends' contacts

Everything about you

All of the above

Fifth Roll: Hard info

Your login to your Facebook/Twitter

Your Tumblr login

You're entire family's contacts (including significant other)

Your SSN

Your snapchat's login

All of the above

Sixth Roll: What you're allowed to do

Whatever isn't rolled on you are no longer allowed to do

Use the toilet

Drink from a cup

Eat normally

Wear clothes in the house

Touch yourself

Make decisions

Last roll: Duration

1 week

2 weeks

4 weeks

3 months

6 months

1 year

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Blackmail Dice Game

Roll 1 starter info

First name

Darkest fantasy

3 Tumblr's you're embarrassed you follow

Last name

Most embarrassing thing you've done

All of the above

Roll 2 starter photo

Fully dressed with face

Fully dressed no face

Full body in your underwear

A photo of you in your sexiest outfit

A photo of you in nothing but a thong

All of the above

Roll 3 More info

Full name

House number

Your phone number

What city you live in

Your address

All of the above

Roll 4 additional photos

Underwear only showing face

Ass pic cheeks spread

Full body naked no face

Topless with face

Full body naked with face

All of the above

Roll 5 harder information

Where you work

A friend's email

A parent's email

2 friends contacts

Your Facebook login

All of the above

Roll 6 A better look at you

Full nude with face

3 full nudes

A full nude outside

Full nude with your name written on your chest

A photo of a dildo in your ass

All of the above

Roll 7 Duration of Blackmail

1 day

2 days

1 week

2 weeks

1 month

As long as the blackmailer wants.

This isn't 100% the original you all use to know and love because my memory isn't perfect, but it is a loving tribute of the game where it all started.

-Freakshowentertainment

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Roll For Pain

We have had a request for a spanking game so here we go. If your little sub was acting up this is will be a good game to play to keep things fun and to teach them a lesson.

Roll 1: Tool

Hand

Paddle

Belt

Wooden spoon

Reed

Wet Hand

Roll 2: Ammount of Spanks

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101 ideas to make Your slave feel Owned (i.e. loved)

One of the main factors for subs or slaves in feeling truly Owned, is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of their Master’s control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of her submission, the deeper it becomes….and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas You might want to try… And no matter what rules You decide to make Your own, please….be consistent. If You are unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules You make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master/Mistress who ignores her transgressions and does not exert Their Dominance.

1. Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.

2. When she has broken a rule, talk to her as You punish….and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.

3. Make her take her shoes off every day as soon as she enters Your house.

4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.

5. Have her call You each day at a specified time, no excuses.

6. Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her kneel before You and ask to accompany You upon the furniture.

8. Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to Your specifications.

9. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have her display herself whenever You come into the room…..legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position You take, she is to be sure Your view is unobstructed

10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for You besides Master…..such as “my Love” etc.

11. Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when You feel like it….interrupting whatever she was doing.

12. Chose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.

13. Have her crawl to bed each night.

14. Bring her a stuffed animal each time You go out of town.

15. Choose her clothing each day.

16. Have her get Your daily wardrobe ready for You the night before….laid out, ironed etc.

17. After punishment, have her kiss Your boots and thank You for loving her enough to correct her.

18. Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.

19. Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).

20. Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).

21. Get her branded.

22. Respect, but push her limits.

23. Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. grin This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.

24. Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.

25. Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.

26. Supervise her workout routine.

27. Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.

28. Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.

29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.

30. Giver her a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain - 1000 words”

31. Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission.

32. Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.

33. Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do….even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.

34. When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.

35. Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.

36. On occasion, share her.

37. When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.

38. Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times.

39. Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.

40. Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.

41. For transgressions: have her write Your name on the bottom of her foot and tell her to remember she is walking on You with each step. (This is harder to do that You might think….)

42. Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare…..

43. Give her reading assignments.

44. Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.

45. Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed

46. Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.

47. Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.

48. Call her Your slut, Your pet, etc.

49. Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.

50. Work with her, having her do the things on the list (if possible), so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.

51. Sometimes, pamper her…..wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as You turn her and move her about.

52. Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.

53. Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.

54. For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime. (ouch)

55. Praise her dedication when she has pleased You well.

56. Instruct her that she is never to touch Your body without permission.

57. Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in You….to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.

58. Some days allow her no clothing whatsoever (when practical).

59. For transgressions: deny her play. No pain for you, bad girl….hehehe.

60. In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm…..give her sex, but she can’t cum.

61. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week. She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure You give as silently as possible.

62. Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, etc.

63. Giver her a writing assignment: “The definition of Obedience - 1000 words”

64. Have her wear a toe ring.

65. Tell her one morning that she must cum for You 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

66. Have her wear nipple clamps under her clothing out to dinner.

67. On Your birthday, let her receive Your spankings.

68. Spend time training her how to move gracefully to please You.

69. For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.

70. Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

71. Speak about her as if she were not present.

72. For transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week…..letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve You in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please You when it is over and she is in her place again.

73. Defend her honor to those who would disrespect Your prized possession.

74. Pet her often.

75. Make her be webMistress for Your huge site, DallasBDSM. hehehehe

76. Whenever possible (i.e. no young-uns about), have her sleep in a cage.

77. Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to Your liking.

78. Teach her things….expand her knowledge…..in a patient Fatherly way.

79. When You are away, call her and have her masturbate for You.

80. If You choose to play with others, make sure Your slave knows who is first in Your heart…..and that some things are just for her.

81. Remember her birthday.

82. Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.

83. Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day…..and make sure it is done by day’s end.

84. Teach her patience.

85. Videotape Your sessions and watch them together.

86. On long trips, have her wear double dildo latex underwear.

87. Hand feed her chocolate.

88. Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside, or the buckles buckled. Inspect them periodically.

89. Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book….let her slip for a while…thinking You are not noticing…..then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.

90. Tickle her just because You can.

91. Have her be perfectly still and quiet while You bring her extreme pleasure…..when she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.

92. Keep her locked in her collar when You are home. You place it on her…..having her kneel. Wear the key to the lock around Your neck.

93. When possible, have her cook and serve Your dinner wearing nothing but an apron and collar.

94. Buy her a Polaroid camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for You in certain outfits or positions, etc.

95. Remember to kiss and caress away her tears.

96. Don’t be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are Yours as well.

97. Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.

98. Caress her, whisper into her ear that You love her, nibble on her belly, lick her thighs and make love to her until she cries.

99. Have her fall asleep with Your cock in her mouth and tell her You expect it to be there when You awake.

100. Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.

101. Master’s word is the last word.

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102. Make sure that she is safe at all times….when with You and when You are apart (to the best of Your ability). Keep her vehicle in good working order, make sure she has emergency money and a cell phone to call for help if needed.

103. Be consistent.

104. Take the time to talk to her…..learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use Your knowledge.

105. When You go out of town, forbid her to shave her sex. Shave her Yourself when You return.

106. Specify exactly how she will address You in private and in public.

107. If You are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as “this slave” or “this girl” etc.

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Things to make your sub feel owned.

Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.

When she has broken a rule, talk to her as you punish and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.

If your submissive does not respond to a command ask her first “Are you fighting me?” Check she has understood what is being asked, re-explain and the give her the full command again.

Make her take her take her clothes off every day as soon as she enters your house, apart from a collar: If she is not wearing make her kneel for you to fasten it .

Dress her when it suits you, or leave her instructions on what she is to wear.

A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.

Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

Whenever possible, have her kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.

Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to your specifications.

Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever you come into the room — legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, she is to be sure your view is unobstructed

When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for you besides Master, such as “my love” etc.

Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever she was doing.

Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.

Hand feed her from time to time

Have her crawl to bed each night.

Forbid her to touch herself when you are out of town

Choose her clothing each day.

Have her get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before.

After punishment, have her kiss your boots and thank you for loving her enough to correct her.

Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.

Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).

Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).

Get her branded.

Respect, but push her limits.

Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.

Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.

Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.

Supervise her workout routine.

Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.

.Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.

Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.

Pin the contract on you wall where she can see it

Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”

Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission

Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.

Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do….even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.

Forbid her to speak or look at you for several days and simply have her obey.

When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.

Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.

On occasion, share her, even if it is not sexually and in the form of servitude.

When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.

Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times or else send her for waxing to suit your preferences.

Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.

Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.

Have her keep a butt plug in at occasions, during sleep, or when you punish or use her.

Train her to sleep with her legs spread

Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.

Give her reading assignments.

Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.

Have her write a Diary to reflect on lessons she has learned.

Have her write a blog on her submissive journey

Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed

Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.

Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.

Call her your slut, your pet, toy etc

Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.

work with her, having her do the things on the list, so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.

Sometimes, pamper her — wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as you turn her and move her about.

Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.

Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.

For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime.

Praise her dedication when she has pleased you well.

Instruct her that she is never to touch your body without permission.

Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in you, to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.

For transgressions: deny her play.

For transgressions ignore her aide from using her, do not pet her, or talk to her, and forbid her to speak, move or touch you.

For Transgressions forbid her privileges i.e. food she likes, eating at the table, sitting on furniture, listening to music, watching television, use of phone/internet.

In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm. Give her sex, but she can’t cum.

. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week.She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure you give as silently as possible.

Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, sit etc.

Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Obedience – 1000 words”

Have her wear nipple clamps all day.

Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

Have her wear a butt plug under her clothing out to dinner.

On your birthday, let her receive your spankings.

Spend time training her how to move to please You.

For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.

Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

Speak about her as if she were not present.

For serious transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week, letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve you in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please you when it is over and she is in her place again.

Defend her honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.

Pet her often.

Ban her from using the word “no” in ordinary conversation and have her say “I would prefer not”, or “I do not think so”.

Fondle, pinch, grope, slap your submissive at random times when you are preoccupied, out somewhere or passing on a staircase, simply because she is yours and you can.

Modify her body – have her pump her lips daily (both sets!) to keep them plump, keep her corseted under clothes in public.

Make her be webmaster for your site

Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.

Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to your liking.

Teach her things, expand her knowledge, in a patient daddy way.

When you are apart, call her and have her masturbate for you.. If you choose to play with others, make sure your slave knows who is first in your heart and that some things are just for her.

Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.

Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day and make sure it is done by day’s end.

Have her clean keep the house sparkling with her body naked, her legs spread, or on her hands and knees where possible.

Teach her patience.

Videotape your play sessions and watch them together.

Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside. Inspect them periodically.

Have her kiss the hand/crop/whip that spanks her.

Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while thinking you are not noticing. Then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.

Have her be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her extreme pleasure. When she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.

Keep her locked in her collar when you are home. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.

When possible, have her cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but a collar.

Buy her a digital camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for you in certain outfits or positions, etc.

Don’t be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are yours as well.

Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.

Have her fall asleep between your legs, licking your cock and balls, and tell her you expect her to be there when you awake.

Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.

Keep her nails so long that she cannot touch herself

Master’s word is the last word.

Be consistent.

Take the time to talk to her, learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.

Specify exactly how she will address you in private and in public.

If you are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as “this slave”

Sometimes do not command her simply force her. Use force to hold her down or put her in the pose you want.

Give her a slave mantra … and ask her the same question with same answers every day to reinforce her understanding of her role and your expectation.

Repeat to her the facts/conditions of your contract and have her repeat them back to you. I.e. “You are my submissive, and I am your Master… I own…I am.., you are…. you will

Fuck her anywhere,This will show her you take what you want. You love her hole and what she’s offering . It doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom or on the couch. If she’s bent over in the laundry room, why not?

Make her asshole a fuck hole,Take her anally. It shows you want her body to be of your use, any hole and every hole. You’re physically telling her that body is yours, for your pleasure, and that what she has to offer is to be your fuck toy.

Cum on her face,Show her where you want to place your cum. she’s there to take your offering and she will love it. Many females will find this humiliating–her face is what she shows the world, and to have it in front of you serving as little more than a deposit will make her feel used. she will also have mixed feelings when she realizes how wet it makes her.

Objectify her,Measure her body parts, treat her like furniture and move her around like she’s a doll. she is your object.

Masturbate into her holes,Either with your hand and the tip into the hole or just mentally keeping in mind that you are using this hole to get yourself off. Again, she will feel used for your purpose, and she will love this treatment.

Ok i don’t know where any of this is originally from, if you do please let me know and i will credit. This may be two separate documents the last 5 or 6 points were in a diff font in my email.

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Thats what this slave slut whore was taught by an incredible Dom. Once HE was into the frumps head as it was then it was all over. The frump was quickly transformed into fuck flesh. Never been so alive!!!

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Always worth a reblog

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The more you know. Seriously aftercare though if you take anything away should be that part.

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I keep getting doms in my messages and I just have to say: I don’t think even half of you understand the type of commitment it takes to have a submissive.

A true d/s relationship requires high prioritization. A submissive is trusting you to care for their emotions while you are wielding power of them. This isn’t a dynamic for someone who just wants kinky sex. You need to learn your submissive’s triggers, their trauma, their blindspots, and their nonverbal cues that they are past the point of being able to safe word. It’s not just about pleasure and getting off. You need to be prepared to reassure your submissive that they’re valuable to you as a person. Sometimes you’ll need to know that they need this when they might not know themself. Because to be a dominant is a power role. That power can easily become unbalanced and easily become abusive if you’re not constantly communicating and being conscious of the impact of your words and actions.

To any subs reading this: you deserve a dom who is educated about d/s and truly cares for you as a person. Have high standards. It can suck not to have a dom, but it’s so much more damaging to yourself and your future relationships to have a bad dom than it’s worth.

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