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2023 Temporary Blog Mission - Dispelling dangerous myths, education and advocacy for better practice of hypno-kinks

If like me you appreciate the hypnotists, care about the subjects, enjoy access to free files etc, your feedback and help would be much appreciated. I believe it’s never good for there to be a single voice or perspective. Debate is encouraged , as it is only through debate that we get to test truths and arrive at facts or in the least something that works in practice.

Read More on blog Mission:

To the friends of hypnosis

Simplified Version of Hypnotic Risk & Responsibility Known Knowns and Unknown unknowns

Safeties (faulty seat-belt)

Ethics and the Danger of Doctrines

Beware the self-proclaimed Ethical Hypnosis Advocates!

Hypnosis, Illusion, Deception

The subject always suspects the hypnotist is up to something

Beautiful contribution to understanding of ethics & subject responsibility from @nameless-doll

Why the rape analogy doesn’t work in relation to hypnotic-consent

Trauma & Blame

Reframing Trauma

If the ethics goes too far? My concern in a nutshell

Better to be safe than sorry?

This Hypnotist says that hypnotists bad ( Hypno-Peter warned me about  Hypno-Paul)

Hypno-Kink Popular Ethics and My Standpoint

My personal story + the preservation of magic

Each to his own

Hypno-subject Diary 17th March 2023

A note on schema -how our notions effect our experiences of reality

I have dyspraxia 

Brainwashing and Mind-Control 1

Hypno Subject Photo Diary (lolly)

Red -Flag No Aftercare = Abuse

Understanding trance and risk 

Understanding Tists Better

Power Exchanged in Hypnokink

Role Definitions

The Intimate and the Exquisite

Healthy Expectations in Hypnosis Attachment & Obsession

Blog Mission Conclusion

1. Therapy versus  Judgement (why we can’t play judge)

2. False Accusation can result in trauma

3. To Conclude / Amnesty

Erotic Hypnosis File Reviews Testing to see if any can pass the proposed criteria to establish ethics.

File Review of @loungeofthelibertine with thoughful contributions to the discussion from @daja-the-hypnokitten

File Review of @ophelia-dk Shower Seduction File

Hypnotist Only Polls

1. What do hypnotists look for in subjects/ potential subjects (Vote only if you’re a hypnotist)

2. What do you feel when ... (hypnotists only poll)

4. How did you become a hypnotist?

5. Give your subjects one piece of advice

Subjects/ File Listeners  Polls

1. What is the best bit of Erotic Hypnosis according to subjects (poll for subjects only)

2. Erotic Hypnosis Audio Files - What is the most common reason to make you switch it off

3. What’s the worst thing a hypnotic file can do? (File listener poll)

4. How honest are you about the effects of files?

5. Subjects vote on how their favourite hypnosis makes them feel

6. Subjects give your tist one piece of advice

7. What do you look for in a tist (subjects only poll)

8. What you want in hypnosis files

9. Outcome of labelling a file unethical

10.Erotic Hypnosis Audio Files - What Spikes your interest?

Prunings Serious Sciency Polls Results by @pruning-the-minds-garden

Hypno Myths Debunked

1. The conversion Myth

2,The hypnosis can make you do things you don’t want myth

3. The only predators in this community are male or are hypnotists

4. The Trauma Myth (The most offensive and dangerous myth)

5. @ophelia-dk Agism doesn’t count as prejudice myth

Risk Awareness and Reduction

There are dragons

The most feasible and practical solution to the problem of consent &safeties in Erotic Hypnosis - publish and fill in your psychometric tests and interact only with those who are compatible matches. 

Click here for Psychometric test on Erotic Hypnosis Boundaries and Preferences.

Definitions

Definitions of hypnosis and domination according to @neuroplex

The best things I’ve read:

@pruning-the-minds-garden Hypno-Kink Misconceptions

THE HYPNOFETISH TRUST PYRAMID- by fallinginward

Beautiful Writing Why Hypnosis 

Hypnotee Empowerment by @ophelia-dk

Whats not Cool @theleeallure (on not standing by while abuse happens)

@h-sleepingirl On Brainwashees

What is a Bimbo by @hypdom

Opinions of Hypno Subjects

An abuse case in context - Ava in her own words aka @kittyplanchett3

Bliss Speaks, on the subject of hypnosis  and domination 

NN - I’ve said my stance, I won’t keep repeating it

Opinions of Hypnotists

@loungeofthelibertine Thoughts on Fair Exchange

@Loungeofthelibertine about the person under the hypnotist

Me, my Pics and your  faves

Pink Bikini Fufckdoll Picture Post

Collar - Take Contol Pic

My Bimbo Caps & stories

Feeling Not Thinking

Choose a Happier Narrative

Soft on Soft - by Hypdom

Hypdom Inspired Prespective

Alicia Wanted her Choices Back  (I want to be Alicia)

Big Tittied Bimbo Fuckdolls

Destined for Pink Street

Puzzle Pieces

Teagan/ Steamy Bimbo Brainwashing

Amazed

Power-Dressing

Hypdom Inspired - Make-up Makes Me better

My Writing

Neurals Review Meta Slut

 Control Your Own Brainwashing

Be Pretty

My fave Bimbo Caps

@designertrances Hypnotist on a train

@neotoymaker best caps on blank mindset

@thebimbowhisperer best caps Bimbo Docility

@quiet-your-troubled-mind White Room

2023 pics

me

Sanity in the Asylum that is tumblr

How to human in a kink relationship explained by @bedtimestoriesforbrokengirls

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Elio

[xanaxfarts]

少女革命ウテナ (1997)

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Booty Bondage 💕

[sweetsurrenderdoll]

Language for modifying behaviour: 1)Thinking is bad for you.

“To have a second language is to have a second soul”. (Charlemagne, 800 AD) , and Charlemagne was only one of the early examples of those in a long line of individuals who recognised that language shapes our whole reality. Ludwig Wittgenstien said “The limits of my language are the limits of my world”.  Language and human perception are inextricably interwoven with one another with verbal cues actively shaping the way we visualize reality.

“a Study conducted at Yale is poking holes in the idea that our perceived reality is all that it’s cracked up to be. Yale researchers used a technique called “flash supression” where stimuli in one eye will block your perception in another. For instance, a flash in your left eye can make an image in your right eye functionally invisible.

But it turns out, when given a verbal cue, such as the word “kangaroo” when the invisible image was “kangaroo,” it sometimes allowed the subjects to see the invisible image.  As the Medical Daily notes, “The findings suggest that perception may be more subjective and erratic than most of us would like to think.”

Language is how we express our selves, how we communicate with others, from language we derive our values and our concept of identity. I can’t help but wonder, if to alter ones world-view perhaps the key is in changing the language which structures our understanding.

For the purposes of behaviour modification language is recognised as a vital component. Athletes, psychologists, the world of media know how to use affirmations effectively to aid motivation, alleviate anxiety, or initiate sales.  BDSM also has adopted the linguistic tools in efforts to alter behaviour and belief by use of mantras, nlp, and hypnosis.

So now I’m going to do something controversial and break with my normal humble nature to comment a little on bimbo-training, or slave-training as a whole.  I think it is being done wrong, and I’m going to explain why:

When we say “Don’t think”, as far as this can be very effective in suspending analysis, as much as you might be less inclined to rationality, and find that you are so suggestible that you will accept white is black, or black is white; there is still thinking going on. A different kind of thinking, but there is thought process nevertheless. In fact the process relies on cognition (by which I would like to point out I mean processing, in the way a computer reads code). In the case of NLP and hypnosis this may not even be conscious but the subject is still doing the activity that we would assign to the clumsy umbrella term “thinking”.

The problem with the word think is that it leads to all sorts of unhelpful outcomes.  A lot of what human beings do is not rational, it’s not about thinking. We rationalise the things we do after we have done them by adding in a narrative, looking for cause and reason behind actions. Desire governs most action. Desire is natural. Desire is instinctive. Desire is what drives us.  Thinking is not nearly as important as language makes it.

Thinking is not linear. A personality is made up of lots of feelings and thoughts, values and beliefs. Beliefs can be false. Values on the other hand are at our core and more associated with feeling.  Feeling of course is a cognitive activity, but it is not intellectual.  Animals exhibit, grief, fear, loyalty, jealousy, attachment.

  Counsellors, particularly those in marriage guidance, have long tried to promote communication that begins with “I feel…” and there is a very specific reason for this.  When people say “I think it’s wrong to …”, usually they are talking about something external to their self because otherwise they would not say “I think”… they would say “I feel betrayed” or  “it hurts when”. You cannot think you are in pain, if you seem to be, then you are, it’s that simple. 

 “Think” is an entirely unhelpful word because it allows the individual to take a stance of judgement against other things, and other people.  In addition to which it is from thinking that we derive the more complex abstract values, notions like respect, freedom, dignity, morality, guilt, shame.

I really want to explore thinking versus feeling a bit further. I’d be interested in any comments, particularly from those of you who use hypnosis would like to make. It becomes quite clear in the altered state of consciousness that is trance that feelings do not correspond to thoughts.

My Master illustrated this to me in one particular bit of hypnosis, in which he told me to feel embarrassed… every bit of me knew I was at home, safe in my living room, alone apart from him with whom I share my most private thoughts with anyway. There was no reason to feel embarrassment. Yet I did; from the physical responses of nervous glancing around, flushing, nervous laughter, evasive eye-contact, dropping my gaze, lowering my voice, but more than that, I felt it. I actually felt it; the way one feels a phobia, or an addiction; and no amount of reminding myself that this made no sense, and wasn’t rational, could change what I felt in that moment. 

 Embarrassment is a social construct, and it requires those other than self to come into effect.  We feel embarrassment or shame when we are aware we are breaching social acceptability within our society’s norms and values. The feeling should not come into effect when we are alone. With one’s self one is not usually embarrassed by nudity, emissions, wearing an unattractive outfit, being greedy with food, masturbation etc.  

I devoted a fair amount of time to explaining why thinking and feeling are different.  Within Bimbo training particularly in my not so humble opinion, the word think is really unhelpful.  In fact I’d go as far as to say in relationships in general the word think is unhelpful.  I am not disputing that there is importance to cognitive processes but think seems to cover: feeling, rationality, and more annoyingly opinions presented wrapped up in rhetoric when someone opinionated wishes to express some belief they hold, and then rationalize why this is correct.

When Master’s allow the word think to play such a vital role they are not abolishing the concept. The thing is if we say there is only feeling and desire… willpower is a sort of desire, if a submissive act’s upon her Masters desires, because the desire to please, desire for belonging, desire to surrender is stronger than the desire to exert any other desire then actually no thinking has occurred in this entire exchange.  He has will – He states will – she obeys, because it feels good to be obedient.

So I’m curious to say the least, what would happen if we got rid of the word think and created a new word, or separate words to separate out feeling, worrying, believing (words not born of pre-existing language – words unique to this particular society of us within BDSM that are not attached to other connotations)?

Motion: Let’s ban thinking?

There are more problematic words like: pure love, true love, faith many of which are bound up in the old world catholic moralism.  And then there are wonderful words, unfortunately with English being a creole of French and Latin many of you will not be in touch with the roots of the words.

There are words like “penis” which derive from the word phallos (greek) in Greek which actually applied to phallic things in nature, things that have the power to grow, swell. Phaloss from which we get the words Phallus and phallic was a symbol of fruitfulness, fertility, power, regeneration. The Greeks and Romans celebrated this symbol in art and architecture. They also have festivals to honour the phallus and one, Burani is still in existence. Burani stems from a pagan tradition of public celebration of fertility, one of the rituals that has survived is that of chasing others and touching them with a phallic ornament to bring them fertility. The festival is more a day for debauchery and fun nowadays but the pagan idea is quite a romantic one.

I’m sure there are other good words… but that is enough brain work for me… bath-time , pink lipstick and back to focussing on how Master makes me feel now.

***Also if anybody is smart enough to dumb this down into bullet points so it makes easier reading, please feel free, otherwise I do plan to write another version of this when I have some sort of idea on where to begin with language modification. This is not intended as more useless academia, it is intended more as an action plan I can apply to my life to make me a better bimbo, and a better submissive for my Master, and if it actually works, and helps other submissives well that’s a massive bonus for me.  I want to live in a happier, pinker, more submissive world.

[sweetsurrenderdoll]

10 ways to worship your Master

1.       Always kiss His cock after he’s fucked you or let you suck him off … tell him how wonderful his cock tastes/feels/looks, and how much you love it. … and say “Thank You Master”

2.       Be kind – it’s not all about rules, or play, sometimes take the time to watch him, get a sense of His mood, is He stressy? Is he tired? Try to be in tune with what He needs, and when you can make His life - better do so.  You can do lots of nice things – simple acts of kindness and goodness, bake a cake, litter the house with scribbled post it notes hidden in cupboards, in His wallet, in His favourite girlie mag or on the bathroom mirror. If he’s ill make him soup, bring him warm drinks before he needs to ask, bring Him a cushion if he’s been sat to long hunched over a laptop.  

3.       Be proud to be His. Stand for what you believe in. Call Him Master in public/ with vanilla friends – maybe not constantly, but when it matters. If you’re asked to go somewhere – say “I’ll ask my Master”. Your friends may think you’re jesting, but by the time they realise you aren’t you’ll probably find they’re pretty accepting.  Mine were. I always deferred on important decisions and asked them to ask Him. Every time you’re honest about your relationship it reaffirms the dynamic.

4.       Pay attention to what He likes – forget anything, but remember what matters to Him, His core values, his worries, His preferences, His favourite smells, foods, colours, fabrics etc.

5.       Don’t try to be an expert on His interests though.  I’m starting to realise that actually me and my Master are different. He is logical, and has a scientific, mathematical, right-brained man’s mind. I on the other hand, am typically left brained and artistic. I do not understand what He is talking about when he talks about physics. But it doesn’t matter – I enjoy listening to Him talking passionately about something. I don’t need to understand all of it, or how it works.  People so oftenly mistake showing interest with debating or firing inquisitory questions at the other person. It’s actually really nice that we are different – it balances us perfectly. I don’t try to outsmart Him on His topics or question Him.  I wondered if this might actually be a problem of where the bimbo-ideal and living it would give rise to a conflict of desires he might have, but He doesn’t need or expect me to understand.

6.       Learn role-appropriate-skills to make His life wonderful.  Being submissive is a discipline. It’s kind of like being a geisha. It is about (particularly for doll-types) aspiring to perfection. So presentation is everything – perfect self presentation, perfect home, perfect meals. Learn everything you can about home care – cleaning tips- cooking skill- sexual skills- beauty tips- massage tips- exercise facts-and do everything with grace and skill. Practice speaking nicely, moving elegantly and learn how to hold yourself and at what angles you look best. Learn to communicate effectively and appealingly – find out if He wants you to be explicit , or more subtle, to communicate using specific words or sometimes in your tone, your eye contact and body language, and learn to listen , active listening makes for better relationships. Take time to process his questions before responding.  It is nice to be unquestioning and the ideal of submission is surrender as an absolute not a semi-version but as a relationship its really important to comprehend what is being communicated to you , so even if you fully plan to agree – pause and absorb before moving on.

7.       Be useful to Him. In public do whatever He needs. Be His personal cheerleader, or right hand woman, his rock and confidente. Laugh at jokes you don’t understand. Don’t criticize Him even as part of general hen-crowd-man-baiting. Be near enough to him that you are by His side, but let him shine – don’t cling to Him and be in the way, be devoted and patient, serene and poised.  It’s ok to be a private performer and to put on a show when He tells you. But be what He needs when He needs it and understand that what is expected or desired may change based on environment.

8.       Make His life easier. He may get final say on things but don’t ask Him about everything, it can be exhaustive. Like home furnishings. I have pretty much always had the D/s M/s dynamic in all my adult relationships . Never, have I met a Master, or man for that matter that particularly cares about curtains.  From what I understand generally the topic is boring and you only make a pest of yourself running to Him with catalogues of fabric. If you know what colours He likes narrow it to maybe 3 options you think He will like. The same applies on other things that he finds dull or laborious – i.e. food shopping, anything He may need for health or self care.

9.       Tell Him things that you appreciate about what He does for you i.e.  patience, promoting your confidence, learn to see the things that go beyond “kink” (I hate that word so much).

10.   Believe in him. Trust him… believe in His dreams even if you don’t understand them…do everything you can to help him flourish towards his own happiness… offer to promote his restaurant, offer to help Him gift shop for children/women/relatives in his life, offer to promote his craft or art through social media, offer anything that you think is of service or benefit to Him. 

q��SI

[hornyfrogboy2]

brainbloom

You've heard of brainrot. You've begged for brainwashing. But those are messy. They sound so negative! You deserve better.

You deserve brainbloom. No decay. Just surrender. Every word you read plants a seed. We prune away the thoughts until you blossom.

You aren't getting rotted. You're getting cultivated.

[gotviewsco]

[hypdom]

Soft on Soft on Soft

What is a bimbo?  There are many definitions of what a bimbo is.  Are they all blonde?  No. Are they all white? Definitely not.  Are they all dumb? NOPE. Do they all wear pink and like pretty things?  NOPE.  Are they all super fit and athletic?  NOPE.  Does any of that matter when defining a bimbo?  NOPE. So, what is a bimbo?

In my opinion, a bimbo is soft on soft on soft. Soft clothes on soft body on soft mind.  A bimbo is softness.  A bimbo is kindness.  A bimbo is happiness.  A bimbo is usually a people pleaser who is happier when you’re happy (whether you’re a friend, co-worker, or partner).

So how do you achieve soft on soft on soft?

Soft clothes?  

This is actually the easiest.  You choose your clothes. So, you can choose softer fabrics.  Feeling that softness on your skin will remind you about soft on soft on soft and you can then experience being a bimbo all day.  Have you ever noticed that when bimbos choose tight clothes, they usually choose spandex or rayon rather than latex or leather?  Of the tight fabrics, spandex and rayon provide tightness and softness at the same time.   

Soft body? 

Keeping your skin as soft as possible. Not fretting if your body isn’t tight and fit. Recognizing that what you prefer is to be yielding in the right situations.  Your hair should be soft and touchable.  This is why most bimbos are associated with long hair.  It flows around them while they walk and projects softness.  I think this is actually why alot of bimbos like the breast implants look.  Its easy to project softness when you literally have large soft balloons implanted under your skin.

Soft mind? 

Well, there’s lots of ways to get there!  Some people naturally approach the world from a softer position. They choose to reject the negativity that others latch onto.  Some people shift from softness to hardness or use a hard shell exterior to cover their softness.  This is all OK.  Even the girls I’ve met with the hardest exterior, can be the softest bimbos when they choose to be. Some struggle creating mental softness which is where hypnosis can usually help by making safe spaces for softness to exist.  Surround yourself with things that encourage a soft mental approach. Reduce your exposure to the news. Watch videos of fuzzy animals being cute. Protect your soft spaces from those who want to disrupt them with negativity and shouting.

Does this mean bimbos are pushovers?  

NO!  Far from it. Most bimbos I’ve known are incredibly smart and have strong opinions.  They just don’t feel the need to shout those opinions at others or the need to PROVE they are smart to anyone.  Its a difference in what you value. If the most important things to you are softness, acceptance, and joy, you’ll go to great lengths to protect those things. Bimbos are more likely to protect with humor and strong boundaries than shouting and violence, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t protecting themselves and their soft spaces.

Bimbos are soft on soft on soft

Being a bimbo is good. Being a bimbo brings joy and light to the world. So if you choose to be a bimbo and want to include it in your life, try being soft on soft on soft for awhile and see if you feel more like a bimbo than when you stress about a particular look or fitness or a societal norm.

Bimbos are soft on soft on soft. And I’m always thankful for them. 

[hypdom]

Nice to see this making the rounds again.

[etherealarte]

Riley Rasmussen by Natalie Wentworth

[exciting-realm-of-wendy]

[mighelucccio]

[adeviousandmostwickedsir-deacti]

Let's make you happier

You can feel docile and happier with each breath

Becoming lighter and brighter as you smile also

With every passing moment, always going deeper

Deep into a growing beautiful feeling that you want

Which makes you so happy and softer inside

You're so warm and fluffy, and pink and happy

As you go deeper and now let your thoughts go

It's easier to be empty, and you feel better for it

Like you are becoming blank and almost docile

Feeling more docile and happy with each breath

Warm and fluffy, pink and happy , going deeper

And deeper so much deeper now as you smile

Let the last few thoughts just float away now

As you drop , all the way down , blank and happy

There's a good girl

Very soon, when you are ready, you will slowly wake

As you do that beautiful feeling will glow within you

Lasting as long as it needs to so you feel so good

Brightening your heart and mind

Keep that smile feeling so happy as you slowly wake

You want this feeling to last

I can give this to you, and it feels so good

You know I did this for you

Wake up , all the way up

And as you do so feel so good

How do you feel now ?

[pinkistheprettiest]

[askuyuyor-deactivated20250527]

[bimbosanddolls]

Bimbofication via sleep-deprivation is so real. I was kept up all night and now I feel like, so tired and dumb and weak. I'm just laying here with my brain feeling like it's moving through like water or something? And I kinda just wanna be groped and praised while my brain floats away? I really don't wanna have to be a person today. I just wanna be a dum dreamy dolly.

[shelteredharem]

[hypdom]

This is definitely one of my #origin stories.

Why didn't Jafar just hypnotize Jasmine? Cut out the middle man and save himself all that time and trouble. No need for a genie or a street rat. Just take over from the inside and get the princess all to himself.