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@masterdaddyhandler
this should be the most reblogged post on tumblr before it dies
We need to reblog this so much that the post breaks
Do not like
Keep. Reblogging.
i woke up and saw this and reblogged just for thin now any who back to sleep
So, anyone wanna move to discord and twitter with me?
….we should have realized this when it was presented to us
Whos next
😄😄😆😆 But nazis, racists, bigots, hate mongering, suicide promotion are ok. Sorry bastards. Age verification anyone?
tumblr.com: Allow NSFW content on Tumblr.
This petition may help, it was at over 279,000 signatures at the time of this post. Even if it doesn’t stop Tumblr, the more people who sign it shows other investors and platforms that this isn’t some niche market and people who want to post and enjoy sexual content and discussions are worth investing in.
Dear Tumblr: FUCK YOU!
I’m sick and tired of being told by preposterously moralistic individuals and corporations that I should be ashamed of being a sexualized human being, that my lifestyle is something that is shameful and ‘adult’. Apparently you can’t even say sexual without offending these ass holes, you have to say ‘adult’ because they are too immature to use the correct terms and need euphemisms.
My kinky lifestyle is not less valid than your collection of dolls or pictures of rainbow unicorns. And I’m sick of you acting like it is!
Tumblr announces they want “ A better, more positive Tumblr”, and say “we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward”. What the fuck does that even mean?
Firstly, you are calling Tumblr a community, not a business - if this is a community then why did you have all these conversations in private? Why not include the COMMUNITY? You could have run surveys and asked for input.
Secondly, as I said above where do you get the moral authority to tell me blogs about left wing politics and quirky houses are by definition better than those about humans being sexual? How dare you!
Yes, my Tumblr has many likes and posts that are pornographic, but it was also my attempt to demystify kink and Dominance/submission to others, to share my life and support others who are marginalized and shamed by moralist ass holes like you.
If you wanted separation, fine, you could have simply said all blogs with ‘adult’ content will be moved over to new .adultr.com domains or something like that. But no, you had secret conversations, and then dropped this on everyone with no warning, only two weeks to prepare, and right in the lead up to Christmas when most of us are busy with holiday preparations.
So, in summary Jeff D’Onofrio, FUCK YOU!
Reciprocity
The Doms who advertise they’re looking for a sub who should expect no reciprocity really bother me. They’re missing the whole point of power EXCHANGE. As a sub, if I’m serving you, it better damn well be a two way street. Said reciprocity just takes a different form. The reciprocity I look for, and respectfully expect, comes in the form of a personal connection and physical affection. Note that this does not have to mean sex. Sex is very much part of the relationship, but it’s not the only thing. And there will be nights where I’m simply not up to bottoming, but that doesn’t mean I don’t serve in other ways. Service comes in many forms. And that also doesn’t mean you can withhold cuddles and hugs simply because I’m too exhausted to bottom.
*steps off soap box*
Quick addition from a Master’s perspective - If as a Master you have never ordered one of your subs to stop serving you and take care of themselves for a while, you are either a bad Master or don’t have true submissives.
Reciprocity
The Doms who advertise they’re looking for a sub who should expect no reciprocity really bother me. They’re missing the whole point of power EXCHANGE. As a sub, if I’m serving you, it better damn well be a two way street. Said reciprocity just takes a different form. The reciprocity I look for, and respectfully expect, comes in the form of a personal connection and physical affection. Note that this does not have to mean sex. Sex is very much part of the relationship, but it’s not the only thing. And there will be nights where I’m simply not up to bottoming, but that doesn’t mean I don’t serve in other ways. Service comes in many forms. And that also doesn’t mean you can withhold cuddles and hugs simply because I’m too exhausted to bottom.
*steps off soap box*
Advice for Subs (Vetting Doms)
A lot of stuff on tumble is about how subs should make themselves submissive or how Doms should learn to dominate and control their subs. Much if it is more about jack off fantasy than actual real world advice.
As a sub you should never sacrifice your mental or physical safety, and unfortunately too many abusers or idiots who don’t know what they are doing will masquerade as real Masters and do real damage. This is far from sufficient, but three questions to ask to vet a potential Dom:
1. How did you learn to be a Dom? What experiences did you have or training did you receive?
2. What clubs/kink groups do you belong to or are known to?
3. What has happened with your prior subs? Why aren’t they with you anymore?
ANSWER GUIDE:
1 - Dominating another human being isn’t a joke. The Dom should be able to tell you about relevant experiences, like being a coach or in the military where they learned how to push people but within safe limits. And/Or the Dom should be able to tell you about training classes or mentorship within the BDSM community they had.
2 - Many clubs and groups are serious about consent and safety. They will call out abusers so many abusers will avoid them. Its not necessarily a deal breaker, but if a Dom tells you “I just do me own thing privately, I don’t need a group”, it should be a red flag.
3 - If a Dom tells you he is looking for a permanent, live in slave and has been a Master for 10+ years but none of his prior slaves have been good enough and none stayed with him more than a few months, that’s a big red flag. D/s relationships are like any other; at a certain point if this guy can’t get along with anyone else, its not all of them - something is wrong with him.
LASTLY - if a Dom tells you you don;t have the right to ask these kinds of questions, run the fuck away! You never forfeit your right to basic mental and physical safety.
Last Pup Nite, I helped out behind the bar! Tumblr won’t let me upload videos so I can’t show you my puppy dances behind the bar, but I can assure you that would would love them.
This puppy helped run the bar for us (Capital-PAH)! Alpha Pup Red is one of the cutest puppies I know.
Why am I here
I’ve enjoyed a lot of kinky Tumblr blogs but few actually do anything other than share pics and videos. Many blog descriptions say they are from Doms or subs into various things but they never write about those things or share with newbies how to get involved. I want this blog to help fill in that hole.
I still intend to share plenty of explicit content from other blogs and some from my own play, but more often then not with a comment about what is happening.
I am also open to questions from anyone interested in kink, BDSM, etc. I’m by no means an expert but have lived this lifestyle for approximately seven years, have owned my houseboy for nearly five years, attended numerous kink and D/s trainings, and have served as on the board, including as president for a Puppy Play club for the last year.
