How did you two meet?
Juicy here…this question is one that we get asked on a regular basis. How did these two sexy bears collide? Well…let me tell you!
It all started in December of 2016. It was actually Christmas Eve night. My family had a disagreement, which led to the whole family not getting together for the holiday. So what do I do? Get on Grindr of course! It was more of the same ole’ faces you see every day on their. However, much to my surprise it looked as if someone new had come along. It all began with a “hello”.
After talking back and forth for a couple of hours, we had to call it a night. After all, it was a big day the next day. That night, I just couldn’t get this new guy out of my head. He was relatively close to me, 12 miles to be exact. Here is more background information for you. Thick and I live in the country. We are roughly 45 minutes from the nearest city. So 12 miles, is pretty darn close.
The next morning I had to check and see if he was on Grindr. He wasn’t, but I had to send a message to tell him Merry Christmas, and that I hoped that we could chat again.
Later that night, we both had reconnected on their. We were able to pick right up where we left off. We had yet to share any pictures of each other, so tonight was the night for that. And I’m talking about face pictures, not cock or ass shots. We were able to keep a conversation going, and it didn’t lead to sexual talk. I just had to meet him!
These are the first pictures we shared with each other.
Thick
Juicy
We talked on Grindr for a total of 3 days. We then decided that we both wanted to meet in person. We met up on the 27th at a local pizzeria. I was so nervous. I arrived first, so I went on in and got us a booth. My eyes were glued on the front door waiting for him.
I still remember seeing him for the first time. He was taller than me (YAY), he was wearing a beanie, had an amazing beard, and his smile grabbed me right away. I stood up from the booth, and we both shook hands. And what a firm handshake he had. We both were not out at this point of our lives, and we both didn’t know if we ever wanted to be. Which for both of us was refreshing. Without sounding stereotypical, his voice was deep and exactly what I had hoped for. I ordered a beer and he had a rum and coke.
We sat at the booth for about 2 hours. Both of us had so many questions, and so many stories to share with each other. But there just wasn’t enough time to get it all in. We paid the waitress, and both went outside to our cars.
I don’t think either of us wanted to be the first, but he went for it. He lit up a cigarette. He said, “ I hope this doesn’t bother you.” And it didn’t, because I smoked too! We stood outside for a while longer and talked. He was so damn sexy I hated saying good bye. We gave each other another handshake and a slight hug. Nothing awkward, it was just enough. We both parted ways. I was heading home, and he was going to go hang out with a buddy.
On the way home, I was trying to figure out perfect dating etiquette. When do you text or call back? I gave it 45 minutes. I sent him a message on Grindr telling him how good it was to meet him, and that I hoped we could do it again. And I apologized if it seemed too soon. The reply came back almost instantly. He said how much of a good time he had as well, and couldn’t wait to do it again.
The best Christmas gift that year, was meeting him. The love of my life.
Congratulations you two. Looks like you have good chemistry together. Woof!