Musings of Master's Slut

Musings of my own. I am collared by my Master, who I have been with for 8 years. I post NSFW, so this is a 18 or older blog. I may also post some fandom related or personal things from time to time.

[masters-dirty-slut]

I love being reminded by him that he owns me. That I am his property. It makes my heart sing. 

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Phone cut curfew

He knows I have a tendency to play on my phone and not get enough sleep.. so phone is not allowed to be played on after 10:30.. which is now.. so good night !

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Did not want to go to the gym today at all.. then as I was completely convinced I was going straight home.. I knew He would want me to go. He owns me and it's my responsibility to take care of myself for Him.. and so I texted him and he told me I would feel better if I went.. and he was right.. as always.

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i can’t stop thinking about you touching me right now

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[masters-dirty-slut]

Thankful

I am so thankful for how caring Master is. I've been on the same birth control pill for about two years now and I've noticed I'm "off" during the week I don't take a pill.. this last week I was a complete disaster and so I broke down and talked to my doctor about what I should do.. Master 100% was interested in what I was going to do. I'm overweight so we are very careful on what I go on since the risk factors increase when you're bigger.. this post doesn't have a point other then to say that I'm so happy and thankful for how wonderful he is.

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NSFW Asks

1:When did you lose your virginity?

2: Rough sex or soft sex?

3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?

4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?

5: Favourite sex position?

6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?

7: Have you ever had any one night stands?

8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?

9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?

10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?

11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?

12: How often do you have sex?

13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?

14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?

16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?

17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?

18: Are you into dressing up for sex?

19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?

20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?

21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?

22: Do you/would you use sex toys?

23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?

24: Would you have sex with your best friend?

25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)

26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?

27: Early morning sex or late night sex?

28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex?

29: Favourite body part on the same sex?

30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:

31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:

32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]

33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:

34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:

35: Worst possible time to get horny:

36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?

37: How much fapping is too much fapping:

38: Best sexual complement you ever got:

39: Favorite foreplay activities:

40: What do you wear to bed?

41: When was the first time you masturbated:

42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?

43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?

44: Have/would you ever have sex in public?

45: Have/would you ever had a threesome?

46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?

47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?

48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not)

49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?

50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?

51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?

52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?

53: Do you watch porn?

54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?

55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”?

56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair?

57: If you could give yourself head, would you?

58: Booty or Boobs?

59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)

60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do?

61: have you ever watched someone masturbate?

62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate?

63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed?

64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate)

65. What is your bra/penis size?

66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus?

67. When was the last time you masturbated?

68. When was the last time you had sex?

69. When was the last time you watched porn?

70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do?

71. Guys:Circumsized?

72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched?

73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched?

74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation?

75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr?

76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream?

77. Which wet dream was your favorite?

78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with?

79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with?

80. Favorite sexual position? 

81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?

82. Are you into any BDSM?

83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why?

84. Do you like dirty talk?

85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation?

86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what?

87. What kind of porn do you like to watch?

88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them?

89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them?

90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them?

91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial?

[samus-armistead-deactivated2015]

Go ahead! Only a favor…can you send me the ask with the number please, its hard remember all 😅 ask only with number i will not answer 😉

[anime-hentai-rp-deactivated2018]

Please send more asks I like doing this

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But if you like to go ahead and massage me 😘

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Why not?

[not-your-average-dom]

Send me some to answer 😋

[mrjcb]

Protect her. Lead her. Guard her.

It doesn’t matter if you’re five-foot-six or six-foot-five. It doesn’t matter if you’re skinny or fat. It doesn’t matter if you’ve got $1 or $1 million – there is a circle on the ground around where you stand. This is your land and your kingdom. Own it.

She should know that the moment she steps into your circle, she’s safe. She’s yours. When you touch her she can feel it, so touch her often. Direct her. Guide her. Lead her.

Put your protective hand on her back and let her feel the safety of belonging to you. When going through a doorway or into a building, or crossing the street, she’s constantly under your protection and guidance.

Grab her wrist and lead her where you want her to go. Physically move her body. Clear the path in front of her.

Tenderly put your hand on her cheek and look into her eyes. Tell her that she’s yours.

It doesn’t matter who’s around. Stop, look at her, and place your hand on the side of her neck. Give her a moment of total peace and solitude of knowing that she’s yours, no matter where you are and no matter what’s going on.

When you’re sitting next to each other, put your hand on her thigh. Grab her wrist and squeeze it tenderly. Hold the palm of her hand in yours and let her feel the warmth of your guardianship.

Inspect her body. Move close to her and brush her hair out of her face or loop it behind her ear. Look at her. Check her out. Stroke her cheek softly with your thumb.

Grab her hand and kiss it. Reassure her. Kiss her on her forehead. Kiss her on her cheek. Show her that you’re always watching.

Firmly grab a fist-full of her hair and look into her eyes, then look down at her lips. Rub her lip with your finger and gaze at her.

You don’t have to be in the bedroom to make love to her entire body. Show her that she belongs to you and that being at your side is her rightful place.

It’s difficult for us as men to comprehend what this really means to our ladies in their deepest cores, and it’s easy for us to underappreciate the magnitude of it. I’d love to hear input and different perspectives on this. And please feel free to add to this list with what makes you feel safe, whole, and protected.

[subbieblackgrl]

Say no

Part of why I was drawn to D/s is that I like the idea of being held accountable for my actions and having guidines to follow. It makes me feel secure and cared for.

In my vanilla relationships, a seductive smile and my big brown eyes were enough to sway my man’s decision about something. Pouting or crying was the key to getting my way. My emotions determined the action. I was fully in control and it was off-putting.

I can remember a time when it was really late and I wanted to go out with friends. I was married at the time, so I asked my husband if it was cool. He said, “You can do whatever you want. Just check in so I know where you are and that you’re safe.” I hated that response. I didn’t want that to be my decision. I wanted it to be his. I wanted him to say no.

Now that I’m in a D/s reltionship, that power is no longer mine. When he tells me no, it’s for a reason (or not) and I am to be compliant. It can be that I’m told to put down the phone and get some rest. He might tell me to switch around my schedule. He might even tell me flat out no, and not give me a reason right away or at all. The fact that he feels no obligation to explain it to me not only speaks to our roles, but illustrates a high level of intimacy and trust.

So yes, there are things I can’t have and instances where I have gotten a upset when I didn’t get my way. But when he says no, I can’t help but enjoy the reminder than I’m not in charge. A tantrum can’t change that.

An “I said no, so do what you’re told” is not a problem. A bad little girl like me kinda likes it. 😉

[hellovagirl]

This.

[masters-dirty-slut]

This so much.

[masters-dirty-slut]

Sad day

My bruises are fading :(

[haveuseenmyhalo]

Write this Down

Dominance is not about control over a submissive. Dominance is about leading and the submissive following. These words have been said thousands of times by thousands of people. I suspect it will continue to be said for many years to come. Submissives do not seek people to control them. They seek a leader that proves time and time again that they are qualified to follow. Mistakes happen. Wrong decisions are made. It’s how you handle those decisions that make you reliable and trustworthy.

[necrofuturism]

REBLOG THIS if you think a healthy relationship can include BDSM.

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Lift her chin slowly, look her in the eye and tell her "do as you are told"

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Panties wet.

[masters-dirty-slut]

New things this week:

-Master now has a leash that connects to my collar, and can yank me around anywhere he pleases. -Yesterday was the beginning of my new chore list. -New rules have been made.. along with the punishments for some of them.. -Master made my tits some beautiful colors yesterday. I enjoyed every minute of it. 😍

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[masters-dirty-slut]

I have no words for how wonderful and amazing today has been and how lucky I am.

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Don’t go easy on me

When I don’t do the thing I say I will, when I sass at the wrong time, or when I do something only halfheartedly, please don’t go easy on me.

It’s easy to punish me when disobedience is blatant. When I break a rule knowingly and willingly, when I push too hard, or act petulantly, the path is clear. But what about when the waters are muddied? What about the grey area? What about the times when I ‘bend’ the rules, hiding behind pedantry and the letter of the law?

Those times are an opportunity to show me that you’re watching. They are a chance to create stability. To build a structure around me that will support me when I feel too weak to support myself.

There is no kindness in ‘letting it slide’, in a ‘first warning’, or a three strike policy. Submissives thrive on structure, on consistency, and on knowing what to expect. There is love to be found in the bondage of rules, and affection echoes every time you make it clear that the rules do not bend, I do.