Jess

23 / UK / 🏳️‍🌈

[matter0ver--mind-blog]

You know what, this blog is not me right now. Maybe I’ll be back in a month or 2 with golden retrievers, sunflowers and lesbians.

✌🏻

[violentwavesofemotion-deactivat]

“I either want to be alone or with people I truly care about and love.”

— Zola Jesus, interviewed by Anca Macavei for Nasty Magazine c. July 2019

[lovelysuggestions]

don’t feel guilty for not being able to handle everything, for needing a break. you need to look after yourself, too. self care is not selfish.

[chambersdiane]

Okay so i just found out that karamo from queer eye got his high school girlfriend pregnant when he was 15 (the year before he came out) but she didn’t tell him and moved away and he never knew he had a child until she subpoenaed him 10 years later for child support. Instead of responding like the misogynists who complain endlessly about greedy women taking advantage, he immediately jumped into full time parenthood of not only his own son, but even adopted his bio son’s half brother and raised them both as his own. To top it all off, he only has nice things to say about the boys’ mother, crediting her with helping him learn how to be a father. Straight men take fuckin note 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[desidarling123]

Also she didn’t subpoena him, the state sent it out on her behalf. She didn’t know he was even summoned until her turned up on her doorstep. He has always spoken so well of her and says how all his anger dissolved when he realized she hadn’t ever wanted to burden him in the first place. (He did a talk at my local community college and told this story)

[itsbrysontiller]

I stopped explaining myself when I realized,

People only understand from their level of perception

[rm-drake-lines]

[thepersonalquotes]

[60st]

[compulsive]

[recaption]

[aidashakur]

communication fixes so many issues

[nourisshed]

sometimes u need a little alone time to re-build urself and remember who the fuck you are and that’s okay

[relatablepoetryandquotes]

“I wish wishing were enough, but it’s not. Sometimes you need a thing.” - David Arnold

[unforecasted-st0rm]

My therapist said to me today “you don’t have to forgive someone just because it’s convenient for someone else”…

[alexashayyy]

“Maybe she’s too good for me but I don’t fucking care . I want to take care of her like no one ever has .”

—

[your-lesbian-friend]

Find someone who sends you silly pictures because they know they are safe with you and will be appreciated no matter how ugly they think those pictures are. Find someone who calls you randomly because they want to tell you about a recent occasion or just to hear your voice. Find somone who compliments you and really means it, who shows effort and reassurance. Find someone who opens up to you and can bloom around you. Find someone who desires you, not just your body but also your soul. Find someone who is up to random ideas because they know that life is short and time is precious.

[terrysdiary]