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We try to hide our feelings but we forget our eyes speak.

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Verily with hardship comes ease with hardship there is relief. (Qs 94:5-6)

I used to think it meant: after hardship comes ease. In other words, I thought life was made up of good times and bad times. After the bad times, come the good times.

The ayah is saying WITH hardship comes ease. The ease is at the same time as the hardship. This means that nothing in this life is ever all bad (or all good). In every bad situation we’re in, there is always something to be grateful for. With hardship, Allah also gives us the strength and patience to bear it

- Reclaim your heart, Yasmin Mogahed

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How to Succeed in Life

1. Know what you want to get out of life … as you won’t reach your goals if you don’t where you’re going.

2. Make a list of all things that you’re grateful for … as it will change your attitude, your feelings and your mood.

3. Count to 10 before responding (or even worse, reacting) … as you don’t want to live with a series of regrets.

4. Track your progress so you know how you’re doing on your journey, and can make adjustments if you find you get off course.

5. Take care of yourself or you’ll end up burnt out – and you’ll lose the motivation to try, and persevere.

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Geng marhaban kiah sepat timah lenggang dah start cuti 💃 . #vsco #vscocam #maknehmeknadkakfaa #gendutimut #emangbisa #haha #midtermbreak (at Plaza Tol Jelapang)

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" Berpersatuan ni macam bercinta , ada kala gaduh , ada kala benci , merajuk , tp at last kahwin jugak dapat anak " - Asyraaf Halim . Dan pd ketika ini kaknen menanges mengenangkan susah payah kaknen membesarkan anak anak tanpa bapa mereka ada disisi . Eh ?! Haha . Alhamdulillah dpt galas tnggungjwb sesi 15/16 dgn senangnya . Gudluck next para mtk & exco-ians Ibank . Apa yang penting konsep redha & wasatiyyah jgn dilupa . HAHAHA . When the darkness rolls in , I'll be there through thick and thin 🌹 . #vsco #vscocam #majlispembubaran #AGM #Ibank #uitmkedah #unityisthebestpolicy (at Journey Through Life)

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5 Ways to Beat Loneliness

We all experience bouts of loneliness at times. It is common during times of flux and change (such as starting university or breaking up with someone). But it can also overwhelm us when we’re with a group of friends, so we feel disconnected … as if we don’t belong. So what can we do to keep loneliness at bay?

1. First, don’t isolate yourself – When you’re feeling lonely it is hard to go out and be with others who seem to be OK, and don’t really notice how lonely you feel. But putting up a wall and withdrawing from your friends will only intensify that sense of loneliness, and will further undermine your self-esteem.

2. Second, keep yourself busy – Do things that you normally enjoy with others. For example, listening to a band or maybe going to watch a game … or you could always try something that’s new, but interests you! That would allow you to connect in a non-threatening way … as it takes the focus off talking, and off you.

3. Third, be kind to yourself - It’s likely that you regularly beat yourself up, criticise yourself and are unrealistic in the kinds of expectations that you have for yourself. So what, if it goes wrong? You can always try again – just learn what you can from the experience. And notice your successes and the times when it goes well. It’s likely that this happens a lot more than you think!

4. Fourth, recognise that we ALL battle loneliness at times - You’re not some kind of freak – it’s actually quite normal. It something we’ve all known and understand.

5. Fifth, talk to someone you like and trust – It can really help to talk about your feelings with a family member, a friend or counsellor. It relieves some of the painful sense of isolation – and help to get your life back in perspective again.

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Trust me . Letih bersiapkan anak anak utk perbarisan sukan fakulti lebih bahagia daripada letih memaksa diri menghabiskan baca journal . Even nak habiskan 1 journal pun rasa dia mcm boleh pergi KL berhenti rumah mak mertua kat Kodiang jap calit kuah rojak then sambung balik perjalanan . Some things are worth the wait . Nak sambung master tak agak agak ? Heh 😥😑 . #vsco #vscocam #ngomelsendiri #mazniztabah #7down3moretogo #ibank #tb #feskim2016 #safuitmkedah #moodrepubliktinggalkenangan (at Kedah)

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How to be Confident Without Being Arrogant

1. Be approachable – Someone who’s standoffish, or likes to keep their distance, tends to make others feel uncomfortable. But if you come across as warm, and have open body language, you’ll help other people to feel much more at ease.

2. Be natural and genuine – We can tell if other people are being insincere, or if their compliments are false, or if they’re trying to impress. But if you work on being natural, and revealing your true self, you will seem like a “real person” who doesn’t wear a mask.

3. Be modest, and be willing to share the praise with others – Give other people credit for the things that they do well, and notice their hard work, and their personal contribution.

4. Listen carefully to others, and ask for their advice – We appreciate when others want to learn from our experience, or they ask us what we think, or they want to know our views. But a proud know-it-all never asks for others’ input. They’re convinced that they are right, and others’ viewpoints do not matter.

5. Admit your mistakes and your areas of weakness – It makes you seem more human, and much more likeable, as we all make mistakes and are conscious of our flaws.

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Is it time to let go?

Here are ten signs that show it’s time to let go:

1. Someone expects you to be someone you’re not – Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not.

2. A person’s actions don’t match their words – Don’t listen to what people say; watch what they do. Your true friends will slowly reveal themselves over time.

3. You catch yourself forcing someone to love you – We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about – freedom. And the end of love is not the end of life. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait.

4. An intimate relationship is based strictly on physical attraction – Being beautiful outwardly shouldn’t be what defines you. Tue love see into the depth of your heart, and values the person you are inside. It loves all the things that make you unique. People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.

5. Someone continuously breaks your trust – Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person you’ll automatically get one of two results - a friend for life or a lesson for life. Either way there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do.

6. Someone continuously overlooks your worth – When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. Sometimes it’s better to let go of someone and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly.

7. You are never given a chance to speak your mind – Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it. Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others.

8. You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance. Know when to close the account.

9. You truly dislike your current situation, routine, job, etc. – The best thing you can do in life is follow your heart. Take risks. Don’t just make the safe and easy choices because you’re afraid of what might happen. If you do, nothing will ever happen.

10. You catch yourself obsessing over, and living in, the past – What matters most is not the first, but the final chapter of your life. That unveils the details of how well you wrote your story. So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences. Source: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/04/02/10-signs-its-time-to-let-go/ (Abridged)

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Erti hidup pada memberi .

Jaga hubungan dengan manusia , jaga hubungan dengan Allah swt . Yess . Rasa kecil . Rasa dipandang sebelah mata . Why mazniz why . Mampukah aku ? Allahualam 😭😭😭

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Puan Hjh. Maznah Awang . Redha mu redha Allah , Murka mu murka Allah 😭 . #vsco #vscocam #mama #doaseorangibu (at Plaza Tol Ipoh (U))

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Sehebat hebat super mario pecahkan batu tapi mati bila terlanggar kura kura Bayangkan kita ? #VSCO #VSCOcam #daifuad #daitv3 #readyphysicallyandmentally #sisover #kah #selamatmalam

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Jangan mendukung membabi buta 🐽 . Hihi goodmorning . #VSCO #VSCOcam #abebensartwork #positivevibes (at MIM's Kitchen)

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"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya.." (Al - Baqarah : 286) *may Allah ease everything* #VSCO #VSCOcam #4thpaper #sis #sisterhood #imisshomie (at CikNah Residence 🏡)

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26 Jun 2015 bersamaan 9 Ramadan 1436 AH . Seorang Mazniz lupa bawa slip exam ❌. Nadhirah & Saffa hampir jatuh motor ❌. Siti Aisyah penenang keadaan yang setia ✔. Done ELC500 . 5 more papers to go . Biiznillah 🙇🙆🙅👧 . #VSCO #VSCOcam #friendsforbenefits #merbokians #finalexam (at بيسم الله الرحمن الحيم - Jihad Kecil)

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With a Little Help from My Friends // the Beatles . #VSCO #VSCOcam #finalexamweek #esokfirstpaper #ibank #bafin #yaukhti #bittaufiqwannajah #majenisstress (at 6th Ramadan 1436 AH 🍃)