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28 years old. He/him. Mixed (white/arab). European. TME. Intersectional transfeminist. This is technically a kink blog, so expect the occasional horny post, and please don't interact if you're under 18. I'm on bluesky @awoomaster.

[meancatboy]

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bsky

Hello! I’m a 28 year old bisexual trans man. I’m a verse and a switch, though mostly a dom top.

December 2025 update: I have been making a lot of posts about transmisogyny within trans spaces, especially transmisogyny perpetuated by trans men who use the term "transandrophobia". I am doing this because I found out that a large number of transmisogynystic trans men and transmascs were reblogging my kink posts. I will probably go back to posting more kink posts once the TMRAs have found out I don't agree with them.

Zionists DNI. Also minors DNI. This is a kink blog, so there will be kink and porn on here.

My asks are open and technically so are my DMs, but I’m not looking to build a relationship/friendship/etc. with anyone I can’t physically meet up with (I'm in Europe). Also I probably won't respond if you just say "hey" or "hi" or such and nothing else.

This isn't my main so I follow back from a different blog.

When I remember to do it, I tag the following:

#my posts

#not hornyposting

#people

#trans nsft

#ftm nsft

#t4t nsft

#my angel

[sailatina3]

As time goes on the idea of a "transtrender" gets funnier and funnier. At what point in time has there ever been a trend or clout to gain from being trans?

[sailatina3]

Gen z is getting into this new trend which involves losing all your friends and family and being effectively legal to rape and murder.

[capnsoapy]

people who say "femboy isn't a slur it's just a portmanteau" are curiously silent about shemale. and curiously irate about theyfab

[meancatboy]

I started sleep talking after transitioning. T made me love my voice so much that I don't even shut up while unconscious.

[jellogram]

I should be doing more to appreciate the lack of marvel movies in today's popular culture. I once yearned for marvel movies to have this level of irrelevance. They used to feel almost ozymandian, like an empire that had no beginning and no end. and now tony stark iron man is naught but two vast and trunkless legs of stone.

[kragehund-est]

glory hole but there's no one on the other side, only the pure untainted thrill of fucking a wall.

[boybeetles]

You know I’m not that big of a fan about how trans men’s experiences are still centered around cis women and that there is a lot of people think that trans men’s experiences are just being “treated like a women” instead of a unique thing that cis women don’t experience at all.

[boybeetles]

Started thinking about this again because more and more articles about cis women taking T to increase their libido and make their clits bigger are being published. And I think this is the biggest way to show that the way cis women are perceived and how transmasculine people are perceived is radically different.

Even beyond people seeking hormone therapy, pre/no-T transmasculine people are treated differently, just go out and talk to transmasculine people and they will tell you that. I was treated differently than my cis girl peers before I came out, and when I was openly trans but pre-transition I still was treated differently than my cis girl peers.

I will always stand against the idea that trans men are ‘perceived as women’ because time and time again it’s shown we aren’t - when cisgender women do the same things transmasculine people do they are praised for taking agency, while transmasculine people are shamed and called manipulated.

We have more in common with other groups of feminized men then we do with cisgender women. It’s time people start approaching discussions about trans men from the perspective that they are a group of feminized men, instead of treating us like weird cis women.

[fforsythiaaa]

Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”

So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”

Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.

Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.

[hypokeimena]

#'this is present in the text' is often a good first step #but those second and third ones (naming it; describing its function) are vital (via @elucubrare)

[moth-grrrl-mavis]

Feminine men existed and were part of the queer community long before people built an entire identity around a transmisogynistic slur. Having a problem with a culture based around the degendering fetishization of trans woman isn't "increasing binary expression".

If people had chosen shemale, trap or ladyboy instead of femboy as their new label I'd be arguing against those instead. Hell, tme people do call themselves traps, which is extra disgusting considering what that word implies.

Put on a fucking dress. Grow your hair out. Wear eyeliner, it looks great on everyone. I encourage it. Gender is a scam invented by bathroom sign companies.

But stop building an identity off fetishization of me and stop acting like I'm the problem for being upset by it.

[moth-grrrl-mavis]

I don't care if tme feelings are hurt by this btw. Find a better rebuttal.

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[senatortedcruz]

Happy pride lgbts who’s ready for the same discourse we’ve been litigating for 10+ years to hit the internet?

[thickness-protection-program]

Smack my ass and tell me to feel better champ

[save-the-child-qais]

OH MY GOD… tonight I thought my baby Qais had died after his body suddenly stopped moving in my arms, and I screamed his name while begging him to open his eyes again.

[save-the-child-qais]

The doctor told us that because of severe bleeding and malnutrition, Qais fell into a complete coma, and his tiny body may not survive much longer without urgent treatment, blood units, and proper nutrition that I cannot afford alone.

[save-the-child-qais]

I beg you as a devastated mother in Gaza watching her child disappear between life and death. Please, don’t leave my baby Qais alone in this nightmare—donate now and help me save his life before it is too late.

Gofundme - Vetted#679

[milkyhoneybee]

One of my friends who had top surgery a couple of years ago sometimes comes up behind me/pushes me forward on the couch so he can sit behind me and rests his head on my shoulder and just gropes my tits from behind because he very occasionally misses having his own easy access stress relief tits (but not nearly enough to regret his surgery) and I'm always happy to help

He does also like to make fun of me for how much bigger my tits are than his were and likes to get me squirming and wet and desperate in his lap because he's a sadist and loves how much of a sensitive and needy slut I am

[voiceofaboud]

MY GOD… THERE IS VIOLENT BOMBING EVERYWHERE AROUND US. IT FEELS LIKE THE FIRST DAYS OF THE WAR IN GAZA.

[voiceofaboud]

[voiceofaboud]

A large number of people have been killed, and screams are filling the hospital in front of me right now.

[voiceofaboud]

I am terrified. They told me the bombing was very close to where my little siblings are staying.

Please donate to help evacuate us to a safer place before it is too late.

Chuffed - PayPal

[meancatboy]

Cardi Bean

my gf made this while cackling

[mousidy]

I really would like to not be treated like my body makes me dangerous

[noze2222]

This is a huge issue for transfems even amongst so-called "progressive" people. Saw someone claim that a trans woman "weaponized their AGAB strength" the other day and if that doesn't speak volumes about how we're perceived by the queer community at large I don't know what does

[penrosesun]

Also for Black people. It’s amazing how many nominal progressives will still look at a 20 year old white woman and see a fragile child that needs to be protected, and then look at a 14 year old Black boy and see an adult whose body is a weapon and a potential threat to those around him.