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sometimes being in a relationship is cute

sometimes it's like having a giant spoiled toddler who wants to tell you what to do

#but I mean I guess it could be worse but that doesn't stop it from being so annoying

ok but where were you all when old man jenkins was victimized by the rampant ageism endemic to bikini bottom

ok but honestly why are you defending someone as problematic as old man jenkins he has literally changed his race multiple times (receipts http://spongebob.wikia.com/wiki/Old_Man_Jenkins) to satisfy his fetishization of fish of color so get your priorities straight next time.

slouchingtowardsbedlam-deactiva

Michael, I never said old man jenkins wasn’t problematic, and yes I agree his actions have been harmful to the FoC community, but how can you just dismiss the fact that he’s a victim of the ageism not only enacted by these fish (who framed him, without any probable cause, and extrajudicially punished him for threats to “kick [Spongebob’s] butt” that he didn’t even make) but within the entire social structure of bikini bottom? Are you forgetting when they explored just how bluntly and actively the Bikini Bottom mass media shamed the mere idea of getting older? remember how they illustrated the physical and psychological toll that took on bikini bottom citizens who were barely reaching middle age, like Mr. Krabs?

or how even once-treasured citizens of bikini bottom, like Mermaid Man and Barnacle Boy, are simply discarded in their old age? How the Shady Shoals retirement home was such a substandard living space basic amenities like television were hard to come by? How little empathy the Shady Shoals staff had when Mermaid Man’s constant, frenzied screaming of “EVIL!!!” was a clearly exhibited symptom of PTSD?

Old Man Jenkins is no saint, I’ll admit that, but he’s been the victim of a much larger problem within the Bikini Bottom community. His story, and those like it, deserve to be told until a change is finally brought to the sea.

#holy shit I fucking love the Internet

standards123

me: it’s ok I’m not mad me 5 mins later: actually? You can go to hell

atypicalcherry-deactivated20231

I’m not having babies until I’m super comfortable in my financial and love life. I will NOT be at home breast feeding and stressing while my man is out doing him. Never.

7771599

this

meganmun0z

me af

#also having children is selfish #think about all the global issues that would be solved if there were less people #not going to go into this in tags although I'd like to #see me for further information

last-best-place

The South Fork, Montana

kingfantastic

Healed, little touchup in the brown up top. (at Heart And Soul Tattoo)

womentoadmire

Abusive men come in every personality type, arise from good childhoods and bad ones, are macho men or gentle, “liberated” men. No psychological test can distinguish an abusive man from a respectful one. Abusiveness is not a product of a man’s emotional injuries or of deficits in his skills. In reality, abuse springs from a man’s early cultural training, his key male role models, and his peer influences. In other words, abuse is a problem of values, not of psychology.

Lundy Bancroft, Why does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (via tamarrud)

#VERY TRUE VERY IMPORTANT

what’s more fragile

a. a delicate glass figurine b. the male ego

#hint: the answer is b

calvera

theinternetactivist-deactivated

no one is ever too busy for you. that’s a lie. you make time for what you want

meganmun0z

this isn’t true sometimes living is just so fucking exhausting that you know if you go spend time with someone you’re just going to end up wanting to leave the whole time and honestly does anyone really want to spend time with someone who doesn’t even want to be there? the answer is no

typicalbmwdouche

I have worked two jobs (at one point three) since I was 17, have a dog, bills, and have worked upwards to 70-80 hour weeks at some point. But you can bet your ass no matter how exhausted and tired I was, I made time for the people who mattered in my life. When some people I knew didn’t even work 20 hours a week ( weren’t in school at the time) and were “always busy”. Which proves the point of the original post, you make time for what you want.

meganmun0z

just an observation dude. not directed toward you, which is why I posted it to my blog rather than sending you a message about it.

I don't think it was fair to say "no one is too busy" because how are you going to speak for other people. not everyone is in the same mental state you are. not everyone puts as much weight on making time for others as you do. also I think that type of thinking is good for nothing but making certain people feel unworthy of someone's time.

It's a comment on a post that I thought was really dumb and possibly harmful.

#i am feel uncomfortable when we are not about me?