1. Donât date a boy who cancels plans last minute. Especially if heâs canceling for someone else. You are not a second choice. You are not a third choice. You are a first choice or you are nothing to him.
Do you understand me, baby? You are worth so much more than that, donât let him push you around.
2. If heâs rude to you, drop him. I donât care how many times he says âjust kiddingâ or âbaby, I didnât mean itâ you keep your head up, your shoulders straight, your chin high and you demand to be treated as the goddess you are.
3. If he doesnât hold your hand in front of his friends or wrap his arms around you when youâre with his family then he isnât worth it. Date someone who canât keep their hands off of you. Date someone who aches with the need to feel your skin on theirs.
4. Make sure he has goals, aspirations, dreams. Make sure he has a plan of some sort. If he doesnât have any of those what are you guys supposed to talk about? What are your 2 AM conversations going to look like?
5. Find out his hobbies and interests and make sure theyâre similar to yours. If you want to travel, date someone who will drop what theyâre doing just to take you on a random adventure. You donât want to be stuck with someone whoâs idea of a good night is sitting on his futon with cheesy Dorito fingers while you watch him play video games.
6. If your brother doesnât like him or if he rubs your sister the wrong way, trust their instinct. Thereâs probably a reason. I can guarantee you, darling, if you bring him home and we can see in his eyes that you light up his entire world than we will love him just as much as you do.Â
7. Baby, if he ever lays a finger on you, you fucking leave him. Donât think twice, donât look back and donât you dare accept his apology two days later.Â
8. If you canât trust him you shouldnât be dating him. If you have to go through his phone to sleep better at night heâs not the one for you.
9. Youâre going to fight, youâre going to argue, that is all part of a relationship. But baby, if he is contradicting everything you say solely for the sake of an argument, just walk away.
10. Iâve seen anger and rage in your grandfatherâs eyes. I saw it everyday for 17 years, baby. If losing a football game makes him so mad as to not want to speak to you, than you are giving yourself to the wrong boy. Heâs going to grow, and heâs going to get meaner, and heâs going to hurt you. Leave now. Â
11. If his laugh doesnât claw itâs way into your memory and his smile doesnât make you feel like the entire universe is right in front of you than you are wasting your time.
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