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So, Iâll start doing some free readings for a while. Feel free to ask me anything, if I can help, Iâll be glad. As a disclosure, I use normal cards and not tarot. :)
Guys, she's soo good that you should give it a try.
freedom & escape
Where Sagittarius and Pisces are ruling on your chart can show where you want to explore and escape. Both signs are traditionally ruled by Jupiter, while Pisces is modernly ruled by Neptune. Where Sagittarius falls in your chart can show where you find your freedom. Where Pisces falls in your chart can show where youâd like to escape, in a realm that may not exist or be realistic. Jupiter and Neptune, being the rulers of Sagittarius and Pisces can show why.
If you have an interception in Gemini/Sagittarius in your natal chart, where Sagittarius is intercepted can often give a feeling of being caged. There is a feeling of not having any freedom, or any way to have freedom. Looking to where Jupiter is in your chart can show how and where you can get that freedom. Thereâs the feeling of, âI donât know how to escape.â If you have an interception in Virgo/Pisces in your natal chart, where Pisces is intercepted can often give a feeling of being lost. Looking to Neptune can show how and where you can escape. Thereâs the feeling of, âI donât know where to escape,â or âI donât think I can escape at all.â
Sagittarius Ruling the Houses + Jupiter in the Houses
You find freedom through ___ but you can exaggerate to where you ___.
Sagittarius ruling the 1st: expressing yourself / are self-centeredÂ
Sagittarius ruling the 2nd: what you value / stubborn
Sagittarius ruling the 3rd: your thoughts and words / are intellectually arrogant
Sagittarius ruling the 4th: your family and past / donât focus on the future
Sagittarius ruling the 5th: your creativity / find your ideas scattered
Sagittarius ruling the 6th: the daily motions of life / are inflexible
Sagittarius ruling the 7th: your interactions with people / forget yourself
Sagittarius ruling the 8th: intimacy / donât associate with others
Sagittarius ruling the 9th: exploring the world / get lost
Sagittarius ruling the 10th: your goals / forget where you came from
Sagittarius ruling the 11th: your friends and community / feel dispensable
Sagittarius ruling the 12th: your subconscious and dreams / canât find reality
You want to keep your freedom because youâre good at ___.
Jupiter in the 1st: being yourself
Jupiter in the 2nd: valuing yourself
Jupiter in the 3rd: thinking and communicating
Jupiter in the 4th: staying comfortable and safe
Jupiter in the 5th: applying your inspirations
Jupiter in the 6th: going through routines
Jupiter in the 7th: interacting with others
Jupiter in the 8th: gaining intimacy with others
Jupiter in the 9th: exploring and learning
Jupiter in the 10th: working on your ambitions
Jupiter in the 11th: helping others
Jupiter in the 12th: healing others
Pisces Ruling the Houses + Neptune in the Houses
You escape from ___ but you ___.
Pisces ruling the 1st: yourself / are creative in expressing yourself
Pisces ruling the 2nd: your values / are unique in what you value
Pisces ruling the 3rd: your thoughts / are inspiring with your thoughts
Pisces ruling the 4th: your past / are strong from what youâve dealt with
Pisces ruling the 5th: your passions / are beautifully imaginative
Pisces ruling the 6th: your daily routines / are creatively innovative
Pisces ruling the 7th: people / are kind and compassionate
Pisces ruling the 8th: your secrets / are empathetic and accepting
Pisces ruling the 9th: your discoveries / are open-minded
Pisces ruling the 10th: the world / are aware of the reality around you
Pisces ruling the 11th: your friends / can still be a good friend to them
Pisces ruling the 12th: your subconscious / are secretly aware of yourself
You escape because ___ can often be overwhelming for you due to your sensitivity.
Neptune in the 1st: your self-expression
Neptune in the 2nd: implementing your values
Neptune in the 3rd: thinking
Neptune in the 4th: recalling your memories
Neptune in the 5th: utilizing your creativity
Neptune in the 6th: the daily motions of life
Neptune in the 7th: other people
Neptune in the 8th: your secrets
Neptune in the 9th: your discoveries
Neptune in the 10th: your ambitions
Neptune in the 11th: your friends
Neptune in the 12th: your imagination
If you do not show intelligence to a Capricorn woman, go home.
As a Capricorn woman, I must say that all these statements are true:
You cannot do anything for a Capricorn that they cannot do for themselves.
The mind of a Capricorn never rests.
Capricorns would NEVER cheat in a relationship. It is either in a relationship or out of it.
Capricorns cannot fake a smile or hide their feelings when they are upset.
Capricorns tends to think about what could go wrong rather than right.
Capricorns will forgive you⌠After they hated you for a while.
Do not try to understand Capricorn. Their mind is too deep for you.
Capricornâs fear: not being able to meet their goals.
A Capricorn hates not being in control.
Capricornâs thoughts: I do not need to depend on anyone.
Capricorns prefer to handle things on their own; expectations can lead to disappointment and they do not have time for that.
Capricorns expect more from themselves than they do from anyone else.
A Capricorn would like you better if you were not so irresponsible. They need someone they can rely on, not babysit.
Capricorns are the rulers of sarcasm.
When someone ask a Capricorn a stupid question, sometimes they just answer it with silence. They refuse to entertain stupidity.
Capricorns have a great memory. Hurt us and we will never think of you the same.
A Capricorn will never try to change anyone, they will learn to accept them as they are.
A Capricorn has no problems being alone.
When a Capricorn is in a bad mood leave them alone, because at that moment, they do not care.
Capricorns often suffer from depressive moods, see the dark side of life and take a lot of things to heart.
A Capricorn seems rude on the outside but when it comes to being there for you, they will never fail.
Falling in love with a Capricorn means that you need to remind them every while that you love them.
Do not ask a Capricorn complicated relationship questions unless you can handle hearing something you totally did not expect.
You will never know when a Capricorn is hurting inside unless they flat out tell you, âI am hurtâ.
Capricorns are irritated by disorganization. They need plan and order in their lives.
Capricorn women are hopeless romantics behind their âtoughâ act.
Capricorns hate liars and those with no loyalty.
Capricorns have a sharp tongue when hurt or pissed.
Capricorns can keep a secret forever.
Capricorns hate people who are full of excuses. Just get the job done!
Capricorns can read your mind, so watch what you say.
Relaxing for a Capricorn means reading, listening to music, or even sitting in silence enjoying the solitude.
Capricorns like smart people by nature, not by diplomas.
Capricorns get real quiet when pissed. We let it build up, then explode when we have had enough. And it is an ugly sight.
A Capricorn will work nonstop, then crash from exhaustion and go back to do the same thing like nothing happened.
Capricorns hate being co-dependent. They need to do their own shit in order to be satisfied.
People who crave and demand attention will get none from a Capricorn.
Capricorns are allergic to stupidity so forgive them if they do not want to sit and listen to the bullshit that is coming out of your mouth.
A Capricorn knows how to be brutally honest, yet make it sound funny at the same time.
When a Capricorn is not working like a busy bee, they are snuggle up on the couch in some comfy clothes watching Netflix.
Capricorns can be their own worst critic. They can have some pretty strong mood swings, and they can dip pretty far into the darkness themselves.
Telling a Capricorn not to worry is only going to make them worry ten times more. They like to be one step ahead of everything.
When a Capricorn cries, it is usually from a build up of anger and emotions that they have been holding in for too long.
Capricorn are genuine lovers, when they love they love hard as HELL.
You think Karma is a bitch? Wait until you piss off a Capricorn.
Make a Capricorn your second or third priority and they will make you their last.
Capricorns have a weird sense of humor. Sometimes you cannot tell if they are being serious or funny.
Capricorns were born adults and become more youthful with age.
Capricorns are constantly analyzing your actions.
â How to attract a Capricorn â
Show that you are a positive influence to them and those around you
Take a slower approach when pursuing them
Be strong willed and ambitious
Know when to joke around and when to be serious
Demonstrate that you are practical and have keen insight
Be realistic
Show that you have goals and want to go somewhere in life
Show that you want to be successful
Be focused and hardworking
Be proactive but not overly controlling and pushy
Always be loyal and faithful to them
Be calm and collected
Show that you have a good head on your shoulders
Try to control emotional outbursts (it could make them uncomfortable)
Do not embarrass or humiliate them
Avoid being superficial and lighthearted
Show that you are focused and determined
Show off your knowledge
Flirt with them intellectually, physical things will eventually follow
Do not come across as too open
Donât make yourself seem easily available
Be persistent, grounded and rational
Be polite and respectful
Be caring and understanding
Bring a smile to their face (they are sometimes a bit gloomy and overly serious)
Make them laugh at any given moment
Stay clean, groomed and practice good hygiene
Be organized and have things planned out
Consult in them when you have problems (they like to give advice)
Open up to them as much as possible, they will gradually do the same
Honesty and trustworthiness are a must
Never turn your back on them
Always encourage and remind them that they can accomplish anything they put their mind to
Venus as a Boy
Do you ever think about all the different kinds of guys out there? I thought maybe it would help my followers who have a hard time figuring out their type; people who just donât know what they want in a guy. I will make a girl one later as well. I wanted to make a post about men and their Venus signs; how they are romantically. The information Iâve gathered is based off real interpretations as well as friends Iâve studied with these Venus signs so here we go (keep in mind that these arenât afflicted by other forces. Somewhat pure and complimentary forms of the Venus signs)
Venus Signs in Men
Venus in Aries
Playfully teasing, he might say things like, âI know you want me.â You find his immaturity somewhat charming because deep down you know he needs you more versus you needing him like he makes it out to be. He is addicted to your love. He wants to be listened to, but you may need to teach him to listen to you sometimes. Dates are spontaneous and often fill the whole day; he might start it off with something active, yet romantic like skating. Then go eat at his favourite restaurant, maybe settle into the night with comfortable clothes and a movie. He might even suddenly get you up again at midnight to go star gazing! He wants to take on every day with you fresh and playfully.
Venus in Taurus
Every second he is with you, he has to feel you and have his arms wrapped around you. The perfect date to him would be either going to a restaurant or making you dinner, give each other a good massage, enjoy a bath, and then just cuddle. Comfort is very important to him, he wants you to feel comfortable at all times; he never wants to push you. He doesnât find high energy activities to be as fun as other people think, he would rather just sit together and enjoy each others company. He wants you to know that you can depend on him and he wonât turn around and change on you.
Venus in Gemini
Heâs charming and witty. In his company he just wants to see you laugh and smile which he seems to make you do so effortlessly. I hope you enjoy a talker, because he can go on and on about just about anything. Things are hardly taken seriously, everyday has to be fun, care-free, and spontaneous. Social activities excite him so expect lots of coffee dates, parties, movie nights, and video games. Youâll know heâs comfortable with you once he starts inviting you to family get-togethers; he loves his family and he loves you!
Venus in Cancer
He is a sentimental lover, his eyes well up and his heart flutters when his mind focuses on you. He is sensitive/receptive to your thoughts and feelings, he knows when somethingâs up. He is the type of guy to show up with your favourite things on your off days. He will be extremely protective of your feelings as well as his own. He prefers for you do make first moves because he doesnât want to overstep his boundaries. He will definitely want to do some family oriented activities with you; the closer he gets you to his family, the more he appreciates your company and wants you apart of it. He is definitely what you would consider the sweet and sensitive type!
Venus in Leo
His love is indeed dramatic and passionate, he could practically break out into song about you. He has it all envisioned in his mind, a happily ever after with you. Every single moment, good or bad, is taken to heart. For someone who is as fiery as he is, he does wear his heart on his sleeve; he isnât afraid to show you exactly how heâs feeling. Dates have to be high energy and exciting; prehaps a beach day, a concert, or a show would satisfy the need for sharing excitement with his lover. If you want your everlasting days to feel like you are being spun round and round like Jack and Rose, heâs your prince.
Venus in Virgo
He remembers your favourite colour, favourite meal, the way you bite your lips when youâre nervous, how you prefer sunrises over sunsets, he remembers the small things .Taking care of you and listening to you is number one, he wants you to feel comfortable at all times. Heâs insecure and a little nervous around you because he cannot believe he has you. He strongly desires to serve you and finds every way to make you love him more. He is bound to take you out some where nice and pull the seat out for you like a gentleman.
Venus in Libra
He is extremely smooth with everything; the way he walks, the way he talks, the way presents himself to you. Even the way he looks at things, itâs alluring. He sees the beauty in things; he sees the beauty in you. He is the type of guy that will write you a poem or sing you a song so effortlessly; it makes you wonder how sincere it was. The sincerity is definitely there though, heâs inspired by you. He treasures love expressed through words and sharing so a perfect date to him would be going out one on one at a restaurant or just relaxing just about anywhere, a park or coffee shop maybe?
Venus in Scorpio
His love runs deep and intense. You become his obsession, he wants to feel not only you, but your soul. Heâs easily jealous when youâre around other guys. His desire is not to control you, but he definitely watches your every move. Mutual trust is held at the highest octave for him, he loves to be able to tell you anything without worrying. The perfect date to him could be checking out quirky shops and cafes. He has a dark an alluring energy to him as if heâs a vampire or something. You will be endlessly curious about this mysterious side to him that youâre so attracted to.
Venus in Sagittarius
His contagious laugh and interesting stories to tell is what draws you in. You also canât help but find it adorable how heâs so good with animals. His lust to travel with you sparks his being. He wants to see the world, with you. Whether heâs the athletic type or not, dates must be adventurous in some way. Maybe hiking or going to some sort of museum or zoo would fit the ideal date to him. This is the type of guy who will constantly encourage you to achieve your dreams more than other people would. He wants to see your life at its fullest. He also wants you to know that he is a lover and best friend.Â
Venus in Capricorn
Your his princess and a princess deserves royalty! He comes off as serious and maybe even a little shy, so expressing how much he means to you may come from the small things like surprising you with coffee. Fully confessing his love to you may take a little time, but when he finally shows you, it will be extremely sincere and special. Showing his prized possession off is also very important to him so expect to be invited out to all of his very important affairs. The ideal date may include shopping and dining at fancy restaurants. Occasionally heâs going to surprise his princess with luxurious gifts!
Venus in Aquarius
Definitely not the type to want everything to constantly be lovey-dovey. He likes air to breathe, he wants to have everything just laid back. Not everything has to be serious, things can be as if your friends, but with the occasional romantic gestures. He is the type to stir up deep conversations on just about anything like, âDo you think aliens exist?â or âHow are we as humans affecting our world right now?â Heâs quite eccentric and uniquely opinionated. He wants to pass on his care-free personality to his lover because who cares about tomorrow? We are us now. The perfect date to him is definitely going to be something out of the ordinary so be prepared for anything! Also be prepared to have a long discussion about it afterwards.
Venus in Pisces
Very sensitive and compassionate lover. He craves a deep connection with his partner and picks up emotional cues very easily. He definitely enjoys a partner where he can drink in the world with them, gaze at horizons and stars together. Often he will express his wishful thinking and humour to you to get everyoneâs mind off of lifeâs troubles. He prefers the simple things in life over the luxurious things so a perfect date to him would include camping, picnics, going for walks, or simply just napping together. Get lost in each otherâs eyes, get lost in each others dreams!
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The Zodiac Signs- Quickest to Slowest to Cut Someone Out of Their Life Completely
Aries
Scorpio
Aquarius
Capricorn
Taurus
Sagittarius
Cancer
Virgo
Pisces
Leo
Gemini
Libra
I reblog this every time I see it, because itâs one of lifeâs hardest lessons.
Anxiety: A Twisted Comfort Zone?
Those of us with anxiety know very well how hard it can be going through day to day life: youâre constantly on edge, worrying yourself sick about what if or what could happen. It forces your brain to focus on the things about life that are negative and cruel, and puts you in a constant state of panic and paranoia, preparing you for the worst things that could happen to you. Itâs almost like itâs trying to convince you that being unhappy, stressed, and scared all of the time is a good thing, because itâs trying to protect you from something.
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The Signs As Girlfriends
*CHECK YOUR MOON AND VENUS SIGNS TOO*
Aries: Sheâll make fun of your quirks but secretly fucking adores them, sheâll stick by you through thick and thin but will give you a kick up the ass if you need it. If youâre not giving her enough attention/affection, trust me she will let you know. Like Aries boyfriends can get jealous easily but is less confrontational about it (youâll know by her face and eyes)
Taurus: Sheâll picture youâs two together in the future if you guys are committed. She takes commitment really seriously so if you get it you lucky bruh. She likes sensual things like food and massages but it could literally be as simple as a bag of chips and a back rub. If you promiseher your love you better mean it because she can get hella jealous and possessive.
Gemini: Much like Gemini boyfriends, the girlfriends can be super extroverted in their relationship, she will talk the ears off anyone who asks about you. Sheâll be witty and sarcastic with you but in a charming manner and sheâll do things to get a reaction (for example, run off your phone). When it comes to emotions she wont like getting too deep and will probably try and talk her way out of the subject.
Cancer: She thinks A LOT and might worry a lot about the relationship cause she doesnât want to fuck up so you might need to reassure her a good bit. She can get emotionally jealous and possessive sometimes but only cause her mind can trip her up a bit. She has such a lovely smile thatâs simply contagious and she can make you feel so fucking safe and cared for, like she will always be there when you need to talk no matter what time it is. Great sense of humour (blushes at dirty jokes but secretly she fucking creates them lmao)
Leo: Sheâs the type thatâll make you look at life with excitement. Like a child she finds beauty and happiness in the simplest of things. Sheâs the type that will dance with you in the back garden at 2am with sparklers. Her laughter is infectious and she loooooooves to tease omg but she knows when you need affection and sheâll give it to you without hesitation. Sheâll love to show you off as well like omg ââThis is my partner and theyâre the best person ever like look at this lil shitâ
Virgo: SARCASTIC. AS. FUCK. Intellect is a big thing with this sign, if youâre boring her good luck getting some. She loves to be witty and smart assed around you. Sheâs not very touchy feely but will melt into hugs. She wonât always express her feelings, if you compliment her sheâll probably brush it off nonchalantly or make a witty comment but trust me she appreciates it and you probably just made her tummy do the spinny thing. If you ever get the chance to get into an emotional conversation with her cherish it cause theyâre not very common.
Libra: Sheâll watch rom coms and give out to you because you donât do those things for her and then youâll do them and sheâll be like âEw cringeeeeâ but sheâll appreciate it a lot. Sheâs witty but doesnât really use it unless sheâs pissed off. Sheâs really caring and also really fair, you have to meet her halfway or sheâs not gonna bother with you lol. Sheâd walk through hell to make you happy if she really cares about you but if you cross her sheâll walk back through hell to make sure karma kicks you in the face
Scorpio: In public sheâs soo chill (think Rosa from Brooklyn nine-nine). Sheâs neither overly affectionate or completely affection-less, sheâll hold your hand and stuff. When itâs just youâs two, she can be really giggly and soooooo dirty minded whether you know about it or not omg. Sheâll listen to your problems and try to help you through it. Look after her feelings tho, even though she might not show them, she feels deeply. Oh and if you ever want to slash someones tires sheâs your girl.
Sagittarius: Sheâs the type to romanticise travelling, and she does it so well. Whether she wants to travel the world with you or just 5 miles, she loves to make plans. As a fire sign, sheâll be really fiery when she flirts, she could probably bring you to your knees tbh. She takes NO shit whatsoever so donât even try to play her. She likes when you two play as a team rather than. She can get bored easily and needs to be occupied.
Capricorn: Sheâll probably be hella quiet until you two get close enough for her to trust you with her personality. Not into public displays of affection and likes to keep relationships low key cause they know that people can be assholes. Sheâs like a living meme generator tbh and has suuuccch a dirty mind omg. Like Cap boyfriends, they keep so much heartbreaking stuff to themselves and rarely ever open up so if they open up to you feel blessed son.
Aquarius: Think of every eccentric disney female character. That is an Aqua girlfriend to a certain extent (depending on their moon). She will ferociously twerk to untwerkable songs and itâll work??? like idk how it just does. She always tries to make the best of a bad situation and sheâll do the same with your problems. Sheâll try to help you grow and develop mentally. Sheâll be the one to text you at 3 am like âBabe do you think aliens are real?â. Sheâll make really good jokes too (some can be offensive but not intentionally)
Pisces: She can be so aloof and sometimes she wonât actually hear what youâre saying because sheâs too busy admiring you, she will love you whole heartedly. Sheâs so emotionally intelligent and can always tell when thereâs something wrong with you SO DONT DENY IT because you will frustrate her and she can get nasty when frustrated. Sheâll sit with you and talk about dreams and aspirations and sheâll be the one to encourage you to do whatever makes you happy. Donât try to take advantage of her because she will know and you will pay.
Virgo sun, virgo moon, virgo venusâŚ
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Ok but consider thisâŚ. have u considered the house those planets are in and their aspects?
Capricorn Sun, Libra Moon and Pisces Venus. I identify more with my sun in this case.
what sign placements need to work on
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Aries: You need to stop rushing into things because you feel like it. Youâve likely been told this a million times but youâre not completely convinced anythingâs worth being patient for. As an Aries moon, you have a deep need to get things done, move on with life, as fast as possible, itâs always âon to the next oneâ ⌠losing an opportunity because you didnât act on your impulse fast enough would be a nightmare to you. When Marsâ ruling sign is in the moon, impulse is a key word especially when it comes to emotions. You need to learn that feeling strongly about something does NOT always mean you have to act on it. You choose to ignore that sometimes it is possible to act too early for example, coming on too strong with potential partners and scaring them off, or expecting someone to get over upsetting events quicker than they can and dismissing them when they canât. Use your head for once. You need to be aware that what you feel and what you do, dont always have to be aligned. It may be better not to start something rashly that would be a waste of productive time so⌠do learn to weigh the pros and cons (something your sister sign Libra excels at). Normally what happens is you start something on an impulse but you grow bored of it quickly and divert your attention elsewhere. You excel at initiation, but you lack endurance and perseverance. This emotional need for excitement and new projects can hold you back in your life, especially in most careers where skill like patience and perseverance are highly sought after or required. Also, just because you move on from things quickly doesnât mean everyone else does. Learn to be respectful of othersâ pacing and approaches even if it doesnât feel ârightâ to you - not everything is about you and you are not the world authority on the right way to feel no matter how much it feels like you are, ESPECIALLY when youâre so painfully oblivious to any depth or causes behind your emotions.
Taurus: You need to learn to get your mind out of the gutter. If you donât, you will never grow emotionally. With a fixed earth moon, you genuinely believe holding on to things is the ârightâ approach, even if these things are currently of no use or value, out of fear that youâll need them later. This applies to both possessions and principles. Youâre so stubborn with your beliefs and youâre well aware of this⌠The reason most of you choose to do nothing about this is because youâd rather stick to what you know and be wrong than to risk adopting a new belief or approach that proves to be ineffective and a waste of your time. This leads to stagnancy and a feeling of being stuck⌠And you know why! STOP letting your deep seated fear of change and âlosingâ valuable things/people hold you back from taking risks and leaps out of your comfort zone. STOP letting your emotional need to be absolutely sure of details/pros and cons hold you back from iniating or making a move in relationships or careers. Time isnât forever, you know this better than most. What you need to do with all this fixedness is ACTIVELY challenge your schemas and thoughts. Learn to prioritise rationality over comfort and it will become gradually easier to step out of your comfort zone. Unlike Aries, you excel at persevering but lack initiative. Wouldnât it be better to start something without being completely sure of all the details and pros and cons and slowly become more certain over time than to lose an opportunity because you were too busy meticulously assessing if it was worth the time and effort? And if you end up at a disadvantage then at least you know for certain whether it is worth your time or not. Let. Things. Go. Your way is NOT always the ârightâ way of approaching things just because it feels comfortable or practical to you. You need to learn to be more tolerant of othersâ approaches to things. Youâd think youâd have learned that by now with all your apparent love for peaceâŚ
Gemini: You need to find stability in every aspect of life, especially emotionally. All that chaotic Mercury energy might seem fun and great at first, but gemini moon natives can find themselves feeling lost, confused and annoyed with their scattered mind. It is therefore extremely important to find some grounding influence if you want to achieve personal growth and, for this particular moon, a way to calm the restless mercurial energy or risk imploding in on yourself with your propensity to rationalise and analyse your emotions instead of simply feeling them. One way you can express this is through communicating/teaching others or stimulating your nearly insatiable intellectual abilities through being the student and learning new things. Your strength lies in your resourcefulness and ability to bounce back from most difficult situations. This changeable nature also means your moods are like the wind.. fleeting and unpredictable, the Gemini moon combines the mutable signsâ adaptability and the air signsâ abstracted and detached logic. You need to learn to develop empathy for others or at least be supportive of their emotions rather than dismissive. You need to stop avoiding working through your emotions and get over with the painful process sooner rather than later. Being ruled by the planet of communication is no excuse for being insensitive to the emotional needs of others and/or your own. Most importantly, you need to find a core. Stick to your plans, see what happens.
Cancer: Stop giving into your emotions. While you do feel emotions more strongly than most, you let them control you too much and they guide all of your actions. In order for this moon to reach true self-actualisation you must develop objectivity. You have to develop your rational skills and actively attempt to distance yourself emotionally from situations; this will be extremely difficult but it is vital for your growth and it will help you feel more in control of your emotions. Moreover, you need to stop being so stuck in the past - your sentimentality means your past or childhood memories had profound effects on you that you tenaciously cling to, but you must let go and live in the present, look towards the future. The possibility are endless which is why looking to the past to guide the present and future is so detrimental and counterproductive. Learn that clinging onto things that are already slipping away wont keep them in place, it will only elongate the healing period. You know this. You have a tendency to wallow in self pity though⌠Stop being self-involved and divert your enormous emotional capacity to others, thatâs when you are at your best. You also need to learn to take risks in relationships and become less guarded - not everyone will hurt you.
Leo: You need to stop being so dependent on attention or praise from others to feel emotionally secure. Moreover, having an enormous emotional need to be recognised is not an excuse to demand attention from everyone you love. Stop assuming you are everyoneâs top priority cause really youâll just end up hurting yourself with this assumption. Itâs childish and arrogant to expect everyone to pay undivided attention to you all the time and you know this and yet⌠You still continue to do it? Just because others give you a free pass to be as demanding and bossy and self-absorbed as you wish to be doesnât mean itâs ok for you to grow complicit with this, no matter how much you want to be. Your optimism is contagious and your will so strong itâs infectious, thus therein lies the problem: pride. You are always under the deluded assumption that you are right and everyone elseâs opinions are inferior, wrong or irrelevant but you must work on being more open to criticism and correction from others, otherwise youâll drive people away with your prideful insistence and stubborn refusal to admit you are wrong. You must also work on adopting more reasonable expectations of the people you love as you often demand a lot.
Virgo: You need to adopt a more forgiving, positive lens for the faults you find in others and yourself. While your high standards and nitpicky nature allow you to achieve great accomplishment and have competent capabilities, they can ultimately be your downfall. Stop being so critical of yourself and others out of a mistaken assumption that itâs helpful and necessary. Sometimes focusing on your strengths and positive traits is whatâs needed in a situation. Your perfectionist and obsessive tendencies can make you go over the same thing several times which actually conflicts with the productiveness and efficiency you so desperately need in order to feel emotionally secure. In order to achieve self growth, you must accept that you cannot achieve perfection or youâll spend your entire life chasing it. The best thing you can do is give things your best. Tell yourself there was nothing more you couldâve done, which is normally true. Burn out your restless mercurial energy through analysis or other forms of detailed communication, but do not rely on this. To reach full potential you must be able to remain calm in moments of chaos which you despise. Skip or change routines.
Libra: You need to stop depending on othersâ companionship to develop your own personality and/or feel emotionally secure. In order to self-actualise you must learn to be comfortable and confident on your own. Realise your own worth by going out alone, eating alone, staying in alone etc until youâre comfortable with being left alone. Stop letting others decide things for you. You need to develop your decisiveness and not let people take advantage of your easygoing personality. While you do require equality in a relationship, you can be a bit of a pushover with others in fear of being left alone if you assert yourself. Thatâs not healthy. Work on standing up for yourself and making your own decisions - ignore your superficial desires to have companionship and realise that this is vital to your personal growth. Also there is a tendency to be somewhat detached and rational with emotions, so you need to make a conscious effort to be more empathetic to othersâ emotions.
Scorpio: You MUST stop trying to control everything and everyone. Manipulating others and controlling them will not ensure their loyalty to you. What sense does it make to control what canât be controlled? And yet you never stop trying. Closing yourself off from people to avoid betrayal is unproductive and unwise. You may be eliminating any chances of betrayal, but youâre also effectively denying yourself any meaningful relationships and emotional intimacy with others - an integral need of the Scorpio moon. You need to put more trust and faith in people. Not everyone is out to get you. Isolating yourself does not make you invincible, it will only make you miserable.
Sagittarius: You need to let yourself form meaningful relationships with people without getting flighty. Your biggest issue is emotional commitment. Even all the traveling in the world wonât necessarily make you feel whole, as enlightened as you pretend to be. You want constant excitement and stimulation but you need to learn to make do with what you have and enjoy the simple things in life⌠The world wonât be accommodating to your need for variety and change, so you feel smothered by routines and any stagnancy. You need to learn that committing to things is not a punishment, but actually reap many benefits - especially with Jupiter watching over you. You also must learn to develop a sense of empathy and respect towards othersâ emotions as your bluntness comes off as insensitive and irreverent (and it is). Not everyone moves on as quickly as you.
Capricorn: You have an innate sense of self-control and resilience which are both your greatest strength and weaknesses. Your need to have things in order and in control hinders your potential to grow, explore and learn because youâre so terrified of making mistakes in the first place. You think sticking to what you know/the comfort zone will stop you from making mistakes because itâs already âtried and testedâ. However, you must experiment and develop some versatility to truly learn. Making no errors doesnât teach you anything. With the moon in detriment, you are uncomfortable openly expressing emotions and affection and prefer to keep it under wraps. The main challenge with Capricorn moon is to overcome the saturnian âblockâ and express their feelings and emotional needs without shame. Capricorn moon is terrified of emotional intimacy however and preoccupies themselves with work and career. There is a deep need to be productive and useful which they often focus on fulfilling when their need for firm yet gentle guidance/love is unfulfilled. You must learn to open up to those who care about you and thrive on a little disorder to achieve self-actualisation. Learn to enjoy rewards without feeling guilty.
Aquarius: You need to stop searching for your identity through global causes. You disguise your detached insensitivity behind a faux-altruistic worldly veneer, as a transparent attempt to hide the fact that you donât really know yourself. You stubbornly refuse to interact with your emorions outside of analysing them and you must learn to acknowledge them sooner or later! Itâs just over quicker when you make the right decision and address this weakness early on. What happens often is Aquarius Moons often neglect figuring out who they are deep down and instead preoccupy themselves with global issues that they find more ânobleâ and âimportantâ. However there is no way of achieving personal growth without knowing yourself on an inner level. Donât be complicit in this cycle of obliviousness.. youâd think youâd have learned to break this routine by now when your moon is ruled by Uranus.
Pisces: You need to learn to stop yourself from getting lost and drifting off in foggy daydreams. When Neptune meets the moon, the imagination is rich and vibrant. There is a tendency to maladaptive daydreaming and escapist tendencies which can turn dangerous if this leads to addiction/substance abuse. Work on being more in touch with reality and the menial world. Itâll keep you in check. Face your emotions and fears head on, stop running away! Avoid your flight tendencies and stick to a plan, make lists, all sorts of menial tasks that engage you with the âreal worldâ. Do anything to keep yourself from losing your grip and giving into unhealthy temptations.
đ MERCURY SIGNS:- đ
Aries: Learn to just⌠pause for a second and read in between the lines. Actually think about things⌠The surface level wonât always be honest to you. Learn to rationalise thoughts and weigh the pros and cons.
Taurus: Learn how to open your damn mind. Itâs a cliche phrase only because few actually invest mental energy in developing tolerance to other viewpoints and very few actively challenge their fixed schemas. Regardless, that is what you need to do to achieve a âgrowth mindsetâ. You want practical advice? Actually listen to what others are saying, not what you can prove wrong. Prioritise logic and rationality over your comfort in sticking to mental routines. It will be uncomfortable but itâs vital for your growth.
Gemini: Learn to look at the details. Stop skimming over everything, that will inevitably bite you in the ass if you keep looking for the âgistâ of things. Also learn to develop mental endurance. You excel at absorbing a variety of information and mental versatility but you get distracted too easily. Some things are worth paying attention more than 2 seconds for⌠Every time you catch yourself diverting your attention, be proactive. Force yourself to go back and see if you missed anything worthy/important.
Cancer: Stooooop linking every mental stimulus to your past and stop confusing your sentimental insistence on using the same emotion-based approach for practicality. You might have a rich imagination and great memory, but you need to learn to be more rational. Try to memorise things in different ways. Pay more attention to reality and the present.
Leo: Ok 1) stop yelling and 2) stop blowing everything out of proportion. Constantly exaggerating details will eventually get in the way of your not-so-subtle goal to be credible/recognised and respected.
Virgo: You need to learn to look at the big picture. Nitpicking over tiny and often irrelevant details may have bode well in high school but it can cause you to miss the point or answer that is in plain sight. Perfectionist tendencies make you go over things a million times paying utmost attention to all the little things and⌠this reductionist and obsessive way of thinking ironically gets in the way of the efficiency you claim to prioritise.
Libra: You need to learn to be more decisive, and more importantly learn that extremes are not necessarily inferior. If you act as a mediator in an argument, actually try and reach a practical solution and/or conclusion instead of just endlessly weighing abstract pros and cons. Learn to think on your feet. Some decisions are better made with less deliberation. Prioritise productiveness over logical assessment. As for indecisiveness, if youâre stuck between two decisions flip a coin or use an online decision maker for more than two decisions and in the moment it takes to generate a choice, youâll know what decision YOU want to make as youâll find yourself secretly wishing for it. If you genuinely are unsure, go with the decision the generator made. This will help you become more confident in making decisions.
Scorpio: You need to learn to accept that sometimes thereâs no depth to things. Learn when to stop probing and go ⌠probe somewhere else instead of wasting your time. Some people really are that shallow. Some jokes really are that inexplicably bad. Some information really is that cryptic and you canât figure it out simply because you donât know all the information. Stop over thinking every single thing. Some things are a lot simpler than you think they are. Save your time. Distract yourself with something intense or complicated enough to override your overly analyticalâ mind.
Sagittarius: Stop preaching oh my god.. giving a generic ass answer to faux-deep questions does not make you a philosopher. Learn to look at the details. Also stop being oblivious to how blunt you are, it can be detrimental to your growth. Learn to exercise self awareness in the way you communicate.
Capricorn: You need to learn to pay attention to what you canât see. Like the other earth mercuries and Aries, what you see is what you believe. Only looking at things at face value holds you back from mental self-actualisation, along with that God complex. You think ignoring whateverâs between the lines in favour of logic is practical and yet ironically insist your line of thinking is right to the point of bias. Focus less on whatâs âefficient and productiveâ and more on detached logic as well as paying attention to the unobservable.
Aquarius: Stop thinking you have all the answers holy fucking God complex⌠You claim to be tolerant and open minded but go off at or shun anyone who doesnât share your opinions, even when evidence is presented. Work on being less rigid with your opinions and accept that others might know more than you/be more ~globally aware~ than you.
Pisces: Learn to likeâŚ. be present. Stop daydreaming your life away. Stop giving in to your indulgent fantasies. Itâs not productive, but thatâs foreign language to you anyway. Basically actively remind yourself to pay attention to the real world, and in detail. Set external reminders. Do you really wanna look back on your life realising you wasted most of it daydreaming? Youâre a deep thinker in a way the other signs arenât, but on the downside thereâs a reason Mercury is in detriment when itâs in Pisces. Your path to mental actualisation may be more difficult for you than others, but thatâs why itâs so VITAL that you start now if you havenât already. A developed Pisces Mercury has all the answers to the questions no one knows. Donât let yourself slip away. Even if itâs tempting.
â VENUS SIGNS:- â
Aries: You know relationships can like⌠have a few moments of quiet right? Like itâs possible to have a fun and exciting relationship without going to a different rollercoaster or nearly dying every day. You need to learn to pause every now and then and actually think about what your partner would enjoy, because half the time you just seem like a chaotic bumbling mess incapable of just chilling for a while. Learn to COMPROMISE in relationships like your sister sign Libra. Venus is in detriment in Aries so itâs hard for sentimentality or romance to be expressed. The relationship doesnât have to be fun 24/7 or about doing things. If it is then the relationship isnât about being in love with the person letâs be real itâs just about doing things you feel like doing, just with a companion. Learn that itâs ok to just stay in sometimes. It doesnât necessarily mean the relationship is stagnating or the spark is dying or that youâre âsettlingâ - you may simply be growing through the relationship by feeling secure enough in the union to do stuff you wouldnât normally do. Also liking someone doesnât mean you have to immediately jump into a relationship, try extending the chase for a while and you might be pleasantly surprised how fun that stage is. Outside of the area of relationships, you can be impulsive with regards to finances and you indulge in immediate gratification. Learn to CONSERVE, hold back and appreciate the beauty in things. And the next time you try to show a friend or someone you care about an appreciative gesture, consider lending them an ear without judgement instead of suggesting a fun night out for faux-selfless reasons..
Taurus: You need to learn to be more spontaneous in relationships. You are very loyal and stable and therein lies your weakness. Learn to take risks in relationships whether youâre attempting to start one or in a deeply committed one. Stop using the fact that youâre âsettled downâ as an excuse to be lazy and complicit. You can have fun outside your comfort zone⌠You just take a while to assess whether a relationship is worth investing in or not. Keep in mind that they wonât wait forever though, better to take a chance in a relationship and realise itâs not going to work than to miss the opportunity to start one because you kept wondering if you should take the risk⌠At least then youâll know for sure. Aside from relationships, Taurus Venus can be very indulgent so they must be careful not to over indulge and become lazy and too preoccupied with worldly pleasures. You need to stop focusing on your own comfort. Take chances. Change up the routine. Donât let life become stagnant. Just because something feels comfortable doesnât mean itâs healthy.
Gemini: As a mercurial Venus, you need to talk less and do more in relationships. Youâre not fooling anyone by just being verbally expressive, your actions have to back up your words. Stop freaking out when someone says the words settling down. You can have a healthy, exciting relationship even when you commit to someone. Outside of relationships, you really just need to listen to people, like actually listen to what theyâre trying to say between the lines instead of listening to wait for your turn to speak. You give up on pleasures easily, the type to give up on a show two episodes in because itâs not mentally stimulating enough or too boring. Stop that. Learn to be patient.
Cancer: You need to stop being a creature of comforts and stop being so reliant on reassurance. Work up the courage to be affectionate with people even if they arenât reassuring you 24/7 and actively challenge any insecure thoughts when the people you love arenât around you. Learn to be more independent, not everyone appreciates clinginess - not to mention this placement is more likely to have dependency issues. Get out of the house, have fun by yourself. Learn that a relationship is strongest when you donât need reassurance because the security between the people in the relationship is that unbreakable. Outside of relationships, there is a tendency for comfort eating or comfort spending if the wallet allows it. You need to develop confidence and security from within rather than from these external factors. Learn to let go of past hurts.
Leo: You need to learn to be more reasonable with your expectations. You have a larger-than-life, almost childlike view of love and these demanding expectations can be exhausting and even crippling to the people in your life who canât give you the flamboyant over-the-top grandiose displays of affection you dream about. This is disappointing to you, but not everything can be grand all the time - a lesson that must be learned when the Sunâs shining hot rays meet Venus. That doesnât mean your partner/friends/family love you any less, they may simply have a more toned-down way of expressing love. Loving you can be⌠expensive. Leo expects grandiose luxury 24/7 and this can lead to over indulgence and laziness in relationships. Leo Venuses may also be impulsive with their spending and always treat themselves if the wallet allows it. Keep an eye on this and control your appetite for luxury in order to grow. Be considerate of your partnerâs needs/other peopleâs needs rather than endlessly thinking about how they donât measure up to YOUR ideals.
Virgo: Venus falls in Virgo so the planetâs desire for calmness, beauty and social grace conflicts with Virgoâs critical, nitpicking, finnicky nature. Stop being so quick to judge othersâ appearance and point out their flaws just because they donât match up to your extremely high standards. These standards can be unreasonable. You constantly criticise those you love because you think it helps improve them, yet you are extremely sensitive to any criticism thrown at you. In order to reach personal growth you need to develop confidence in your appearance and self worth to the point where you are unaffected by outside criticisms. You also need to express your appreciation for those you love in more positive ways, like compliments. Constant criticism will make no one think kindly of you, despite your seemingly good intentions⌠Insecure virgo venuses can be critical out of a dissatisfaction with their own appearance. Work on being more reasonable and less judgemental.
Libra: You need to work on your sincerity. Youâre friendly and peace-loving so people enjoy your company but you have a tendency to treat all people the same, regardless of how close or distant you are, bringing your sincerity into question. You yourself often wonder if you like people or if you only like the idea of them but you rarely probe beneath the surface to avoid awkwardness. Your interactions can therefore be quite superficial. You value respect and peace above all so you may be reluctant to bring up issues in relationships. Learn to stop avoiding conflict and address importantâ issues even if it disrupts the peace. Stop thinking of people as abstract concepts and really decide whether or not you like certain people. This will help eliminate miscommunication and any resentment from the other party.
Scorpio: Love doesnât have to be painful and dramatic in order to be transformative. Your need for over the top drama in relationships can be tiring and exhausting to others. Stop relying on intense drama to work out your trust issues. Instead, you need to work on challenging your paranoia of being betrayed, letting go of control in relationships and avoid guilt-tripping/manipulating people into staying in the relationships. When Pluto is expressed through Venus, there is a tendency to destroy relationships before they even start (and then some more destruction if it does take off). Just because you find love painful and messy doesnât mean you have to make it that way for the people who care about you. Stop treating them as toys that need to be tested. Address YOUR trust issues directly to achieve personal growth and form/maintain healthy, strong relationships. With this venus there is a strong attraction to the taboo so be careful, donât get carried away by your desires.
Sagittarius: Stop looking at people as âexperiencesâ to be tried. In order to achieve growth and fulfilment you need to surround yourself with loyal and caring people who donât disregard your need for freedom and independence. But for full self-actualisation, you need to realise that commitment and freedom are not simultaneously exclusive; instead of leaving relationships the second youâre not stimulated, try waiting it out. Learn to develop patience with your friends and people you love. Not everyone can be intellectually stimulating 24/7. Avoid buying too many souvenirs when traveling.
Capricorn: Learn to enjoy pleasure without feeling guilty and learn to loosen up and quit treating relationships like a business contract. If you keep assessing the costs and benefits of relationships you may miss out on an opportunity, not to mention this cold and calculated approach to relationships makes it lose its sentiment. Sometimes itâs better to just jump in even if you donât know how much you have to lose. This is not to say you are cold and calculated, but you hide your warmness behind a cool veneer. The problem is, most people wonât/forget to look beyond the surface level. Therefore, you must put in an effort in being more socially trusting, warm and at ease until you actually feel less tense and stiff. Not that it matters. Youâll likely distract yourself with work anywaysâŚ.
Aquarius: Learn that donât have to prove your uniqueness to the world through your partners. Aquarius venuses often enjoy being in progressive relationships and challenging traditions. This stems from your fear of being tied own down and discomfort with traditions that make no rational sense. This is fine, but do not toy with othersâ affection for you out of a need to prove something. You can be in a stable and committed relationship while still being progressive - you need to understand they arenât mutually exclusive. Moreover, you can be careless with or oblivious to the needs of other people in relationships. Most people have no idea how you feel about them. Take initiative and explicitly let them know. Work on being more attuned to the other personâs needs, even if they feel âlesserâ than your own âglobal humanitarianâ ones. Ironic that this needs to be mentioned to a sign that seemingly values equality..
Pisces: Learn to set boundaries in your relationships. Donât let people manipulate you, walk all over you or completely disregard your basic needs and get away with it just because you think you love them/care about them. Setting boundaries will not get in the way of forming relationships/finding Tru Love (if you believe in that). In fact it channels and filters the purest and most transformative forms of love towards you. You also need to stop projecting your idealistic standards onto the people you love - you will start to associate love with disappointment inevitably because most people wont live up to your unrealistic standards. You may not realise how unrealistic they are, but wherever Neptune goes, there is danger of illusion and deception. You also need to put more action into showing people you care because your displays of affection can be too abstract. Just BE there. Finally, stop giving in to escapist tendencies. Donât fall into temptations. When neptune meets Venus, there is danger of addiction/substance abuse or at best maladaptive daydreaming. You are not doomed. Simply learn to control your temptations. Pisces also co-rules Jupiter so there are overindulgent tendencies. Be proactive. Actively try and catch yourself indulging in escapism and force yourself to snap out of it if you can. Jupiter will keep an eye out for you.
â MARS SIGNS:- â
Aries: Stop being so rash in your decision making! Youâve heard this before and you probably got into trouble many times but you always seem to bounce right back. But if you donât exercise self restraint and control you will land yourself in irreversible trouble one day. Immediate gratification will never give you the high achievements you so ambitiously seek. You HAVE to learn endurance and patience.
Taurus: You HAVE to learn adaptability. Your fixedness and stubbornness work well in persevering and career accomplishment but it also means a lack of malleability, difficulty in bouncing back. You may be tough to break, but once youâre broken itâll be difficult to put you back together unless you learn to be versatile. Donât have your mind set on one thing, always have back ups in case things dont work out. You are not always right and you will end up pushing people away with your rigidity. Learn to compromise. Control your temper when you finally do blow up - this placement has a tendency to push down anger in moments where they can be righteously angry and then build this up until it turns to rage and comes out at completely inappropriate moments. Curb this. Learn to speak up when something angers you right then and there instead of holding on to your anger⌠Little to no good comes out of this.
Gemini: Watch your tongue! With Mercury meeting Mars, you have a propensity for saying hurtful things in arguments. You need to learn to control your crass indifference to othersâ emotions when you feel threatened. You need to realise that itâs not acceptable to discard emotional values and principles in order to assert your intellectual superiority e.g. spilling secrets/insulting things the other person is insecure about/using manipulation, etc. There is a tendency to be deceitful and flighty in arguments and life in general here, so you must develop perseverance instead of taking the easier way out. Once you do this, you will be a worthy opponent.
Cancer: You MUST learn to stop resorting to, or more often relying on, manipulative tendencies. Mars is in fall when it enters Cancer so it can be more difficult to develop the placementâs strengths and thus there is a tendency to rely on the weaknesses instead. There has to be a way for you to get your point across or win the argument without victimising yourself and demonising the other person/people. You need to learn to assert yourself in the moment express your anger the instant it comes up, instead of holding on to your anger like Taurus Mars. When you do this, your outbursts will seem more reasonable and less confusing and deluded to other people⌠Make an active effort to be as DIRECT as possible. Say things plainly and explicitly. Soon you will develop more confidence in your assertions and you will feel less defensive about everything. Being rational is very, very hard for this placement when mad which is why you have to start working on this from an early age whether itâs through simple common sense mantras that engage your intellectual mind or taking anger management classes. When youâre angry, the whole world revolves around you. It doesnât matter to you how the other person feels, youâre blind to this when you blow up despite, or perhaps because of, how empathetic you are generally. All that matters in that moment is that YOU feel hurt. You have to work on being less self-absorbed when irritated, or dangerous things can happen as a result of your blind rage. Learning to prioritise rationality over your own feelings is a must for this placement. Also stop fronting and acting like youâre tougher than you really are⌠it could land you in deep shit one day if you go looking for trouble to prove your worth. Regardless of how powerless or insecure you feel, your manipulation is maladaptive and must be actively curbed. If and only if you take a proactive stance against this will you start developing confidence from WITHIN, and succeed in all aspects of life regardless of oppositions.
Leo: You must learn how to be objective and less self-involved. Simply yelling that youâre the best doesnât make it true - it in fact conveys self-esteem issues. While you do have a natural confidence, this confidence is highly dependent on the reassurance and praise of others which you manage to constantly receive, so is it really confidence? Your journey to self-actualisation has to begin with developing confidence in your own worth regardless of the attention you get. Also stop being so prideful and rigid, itâs not productive and itâs a waste of time. Youâre not always right, thatâs a fact - the only way to know if you ARE right in a particular issue is to step back and shove your ego aside and look at the situation from a distance, from different perspectives, etc⌠THAT is how you know for sure. Learn that letting go and/or considering alternate viewpoints is to your advantage too. Learn to listen to others, accept that they may have better ideas than you. How can you expect any one to believe the whole confidence act if youâre so easily provoked by the tiniest perceived slight?
Virgo: Another Mercury-ruled Mars like gemini, you need to watch your tongue. Stop using the fact that your sharp-tongued criticisms are factually observable as an excuse to berate others, especially if you attack weaknesses they let you see/ told you theyâre insecure about. Youâre not as mature you think you are when youre angry, in fact you can be quite relentlessly petty from all the built up restless frustration that comes with being a co-ruler of Mercury. This gives you an immense drive to intellectualise why youâre right⌠which is also borderline childish. You need to work on your hypocrisy if you expect anyone to take your criticisms seriously/be affected by them, especially when youâre the type to constantly dish out criticism but unable to take any. You also need to work on being more accepting of other peopleâs approaches - like Leo and Aquarius, you have a hard time believing others know better/more than you or have better ideas and approaches. You have to accept that youâre not the authority on how to do things ârightâ if you want to achieve personal growth. Zooming in on and obsessing over details isnât always as efficient as you think it is, this finnicky nitpicking can actually be your worst enemy and a waste of productive time - learn to look at the big picture. The whole is not the sum of its parts.
Libra: You MUST learn to be more decisive and straightforwardâ. Endlessly weighing the pros and cons in tense situations is rarely productive - sometimes a quick, swift decision needs to be made. In order for you to grow as a person, you need to be able to think on your feet. You have a tendency to insert yourself into arguments to act as the âmediatorâ but fail to reach a concrete solution or conclusion out of fear of ruffling any feathers/escalating the tension or due to getting lost in weighing the situation. Donât do that, donât appoint yourself as the mature mediator if you wonât take mature actions. Learn to directly tell someone if you think theyâre wrong instead of beating around the bush - chances are, their reactions will be the same. Learn to explicitly express and assert your needs to others instead of dropping hints⌠The worst that could happen is they ignore it, but thatâs almost a given with your passive aggressive approach.
Scorpio: You MUST let go of control and stop being so defensive. Like Cancer Mars, you can be easily provoked but not out of feeling hurt, but rather out of paranoia that your privacy is being invaded or the implication that you donât have as much control over things as you think you do. Guess what, you donât. The sooner you accept this, the quicker the path to self-actualisation will be. Youâre sensitive and hyperaware of power struggles as a result of a deepseated fear of losing the upper hand and being on the lower end of the scale. This may have been spurred by potential feelings of powerlessness early in life. Regardless, you need to let go of your need for control. You need to stop resorting to manipulation or downright ruthlessness to get what you want. Control your emotional impulses that urge you to display dominance⌠A developed Scorpio Mars wonât need to display it. Thrive on the loss of power rather than fearing it; Scorpio is ruled by Pluto after all, the planet of transformations and shifts in power. Once you start to loosen your grip and become less defensive as a result, you are actually at your best as you are fulfilling your Plutonian purpose of destruction of the self and completely rebuilding a new self from the ashes.
Sagittarius: You need to work on your crass indifference to othersâ emotions like your sister sign except here this is more impulsive and self-serving. Your bluntness means people can rely on you for your honest opinion, but you use it like a dagger when provoked. You get over it fairly quickly, but you canât expect others to do so too. You have to be respectful of othersâ approach to things - youâre not as accepting as you think you are - and the time it takes for them to heal, donât expect forgiveness for your (often insincere) apologies, it only makes you look more entitled. You must learn to commit to your projects and not move on to the next interesting thing that catches your eye. You might have an unrivalled enthusiasm for worldly experiences and education, but you lack the perseverance and steadiness required for this. You need to learn to persist even when you feel that your interest is starting to fade. Like Aquarius, you need to practice what you preach if you expect anyone to adopt your views.
Capricorn: You must learn when to let go and be inflexible. You pride yourself on self-control, but you hold back from indulging in the merits you get as a reward for your ambition and work ethic. So whatâs the point? Do you only do it for pride? Is that the only way you feel important? You must learn to let go and live a little. Stop being so rigid about everything; your need for control and order can be stifling to others. You call yourself a long term planner but where do you see yourself going if you constantly overwork yourself without allowing yourself to enjoy the rewards? You also need to humble yourself down. You may be practical and down to earth, but a confident certainty in your own abilities and knowledge can sometimes manifest as arrogance. You have a God complex that needs to be addressed in your journey to personal growth⌠Youâre so sure that youâre right that you rarely stop and think and consider the other personâs viewpoint without pressure. Youâre so concerned with whatâs efficient and practical that you always stick to what you know, losing the very objective and logical nature you like to pride yourself on⌠You must learn to adapt to occasions where things donât bend your way, where you turn out to be wrong or where you have to experiment with new methods - you have to learn to do all this without resorting to the very level of pettiness you consider yourself above. Rise above this tendency to do whatever to win the argument/ have the last word, itâs childish no matter how you masquerade it. Also be wary of a tendency to step on others to reach the places you want out of a hunger for power⌠If you want it bad enough you can get there through your own work ethic.
Aquarius: You must learn to stop being so inflexible in your views and opinions. You rarely resort to emotional manipulation or rage when angry, not out of respect for others but out of a HUGE superiority complex. You think youâre âaboveâ that like Capricorn Mars but instead of being hypocritical by ending up resorting to the very pettiness you think youâre above, you simply cut the person off and disappear from their life if your values were incompatible and you couldnât convert them to your side. Ironic considering the tolerance and open-mindedness you constantly preach to others. Learn to humble yourself down and stop thinking your opinions are always right or that you know more than others. Like your sister sign leo, you need to learn to accept that others may know more than you/may be right. Just because you disagree with someone on something doesnât mean they canât be in your life.
Pisces: Toughen the fuck up and grow a backbone. You need to stop letting people walk all over you and pretend itâs for ~selfless~ reasons when really you do it because you loooove wallowing in self pity. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and relying on escapism. Snap out of it. You MUST be proactive and combat the disillusion that comes with a neptunian Mars. Stop relying on external sources to deal with difficult situations. Face it head on for once. Youâll be relieved. Youâll get through it sooner if you do. Do everything you can to stay in touch with reality. Distract yourself with lists or mentally/physically demanding activities. Donât let yourself slip away. Stick to plans for once. Focus inward on your emotions to find the root/cause behind certain emotions. You MUST learn to set boundaries. Once you start focusing on yourself and set hard limits instead of excusing othersâ actions, asserting yourself will be much easier.
*This is based on the archetypes and basic traits of the zodiac signs. Maintain an objective approach when reading these.. if a description seems off, remember to look holistically at your whole chart. Obviously I donât know you personally, but astrology is inherently neutral even if my interpretation isnât and just because YOU donât express a certain trait does not mean it is not a trait of said sign. So donât bother with the ânot all ___â rants lmao save your energy. **Astrology is not deterministic, nothing is set in stone just because you have a certain placement - donât try to justify detrimental behaviours using this excuse e.g. âi have a Scorpio Mars and Moon so I canât help but rely on manipulative tendencies :/â which is laughable because 1) itâs a shitty excuse 2) it just reinforces underdeveloped traits that discourage any personal growth. You have some degree of control over your behaviours, use that to your advantage. ***I excluded Sun & the outer planet sign placements from this particular post as the description would be too generic and generalised due to the nature of the post. They will be added on the Aspects version of this post as aspects are more personalised and relevant when it comes to the Sun and outer planets. for more posts like this please follow @jupiteronic
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Iâm a witch and Iâm broke! Here are some ways I practise my craft. (Mostly free Internet resources Iâve found helpful, plus a couple of my own ideas chucked in.)
Astrology
Explore astrological birth charts on Cafeastrology! All you need is your birth date, time & location. Diving straight in & doing charts for you & your friends is the best way to learn how to interpret natal charts.
If you are new to astrology and need to get to grips with the basics of the zodiac, you can use sites like iZodiacSigns to give you a basic rundown of the signs & the traits with which they are most commonly associated. I even find Wikipediaâs Astrological sign page useful as a quick referenceâit clearly lays out the signs, their associated elements, polarities, & modalities.
Astrolocherry cannot be beaten for her wise, empathetic insights. I would recommend her to anyone, particularly those who feel sceptical re: astrology or struggle to identify with their sun sign, as her analyses are always compassionate & avoid lazy stereotypes.Â
A basic guide to the 12 Houses of the Zodiac.
Tarot
I highly recommend the Golden Thread app, especially for beginners! Itâs simple, beautiful, free, available for both iOS and Android, & all the cards come with neat, accurate explanations.
If you want to delve further into the traditional Rider-Waite card meanings, Biddytarot should be your first port of call. You can copy their quick card descriptions down into a notebook/grimoire to help you learn them better!
Autostraddle has an LGBT+/queer friendly tarot column called Foolâs Journey! A great read, encourages you to interpret the cards in non-traditional, subversive ways, & recommends a variety of more creative/abstract, less heteronormative/white decks for your wishlist.Â
You can use websites like Free Tarot Reading if you donât fancy asking one of the thousands of tarot readers looking for practice on tumblr dot com.
Other Forms of Divination
Numerology! I used this site to find basic meanings. You can use numerology to analyse your birth date, the meanings within a plain pack of playing cards, or a set of dice!
Runes! There is a great post going round about different rune meanings. Making your own set of runes is a fun craft activity, and you can use almost anything! Iâve seen DIY runes made from pebbles, bits of porcelain, sea glass, & crystals (fancy). Just use whateverâs cheap and readily available!
How to make and use your own pendulum.
Scrying is free and worth a shot!
Spell Ideas
You want to make cute, aesthetically pleasing charms like the ones youâve seen on Tumblr, but you canât justify spending your grocery money on new crystals, fresh herbs, fancy containers or jewellery making equipment, right?
Containers: old jam or coffee jars, medicine bottles, wine or beer bottles, mini spirit bottles, lotion bottles, old lipstick tubes, jewellery boxes. If you donât have a bunch of these lying around the house, somebody you know will, & theyâll grateful for you to take them off their hands. Upcycle!
Kitchen herbs (salt, pepper, rosemary, sage, garlic, mint, cinnamon, coriander/cilantro, etc. - obvious but effective & all available from your local supermarket)Â
Materials: beads, ribbons, glitter, sequins or buttons according to colour correspondence (old things youâve been hoarding for years may carry magickal energies of their own!), rocks/pebbles with sigils painted on (Iâve even used nail polish!), glass, sea glass, & mirrors (good for curse protection).
You can make your own mini âaltarâ out of anything: jewellery boxes, a shoebox covered in wrapping paper, etc. Old Altoid boxes are popular on Tumblr among USians. Draw or print out pictures or symbols you find soothing or invigorating & tape them on the inside; spray some perfume or essential oils. Use it to store a few special magickal items for luck, and/or your grimoire.
Speaking of whichâa grimoire can be anything. My first one was an A5 notebook & it was very scribbly. Now I have a jumbo binder covered in Buffy stickers.Â
Candlesâwhatever you have to hand works, including LED. I use tea lights because you can get a giant bag from the pound shop. You can add essential oils to them if you want more of one specific type of energy.Â
Also easy & free to do: making moon water (by leaving a cup of water to charge by the light of the moon), & collecting rain or storm water. These can be used in spells. I personally dab moon water on my wrists every day like itâs perfume, & I believe it gives me inspiration, creative energy, & keeps me in touch with my intuition.
If youâre reading this, you probably know how to make sigils, but here is a good post anyhow. Powerful, effective, fun & cheap.
Sprinkle salt water around your room/apartment/whatever and chant your intent to protect it from negative energies. Bam, youâve just put up some magickal wards.
Make playlists on Spotify, YouTube etc., of music to evoke the mood you wish to create for the rituals you are doing.Â
REMEMBER:
Intent really is everything. We as witches have the power to give items magickal significance. You can pick up an old stick & call it a wand, & thatâs equally as valid as using a masterpiece special fancy wand for ÂŁ100 off Etsy. You are not less of a witch because you canât afford certain materials.
Good luck fellow baby witches!
Chart Overlay Series (Pt.3)
Venus in Your Partnerâs House
Other than synastry compatibility based off aspects, and of course planets and asteroids, astrology has much more depth in compatibility. In a synastry chart overlay, one personâs natal birth chart is layered on top of another personâs chart to show how your signs, planets, and houses work together. Especially where their planets are in your chart. Itâs this that explains why rising signs are so important, you can still use this if you donât know their time, but youâll need to know at least one personâs time. You of course will have more understanding with both rising signs. The point is to see where their/your planet falls in your/their chart and the specific house, to see the influence it has on your relationship and bond. Remember to take both combinations of yours and theirs together. If you donât know their rising and therefore their houses, look at their planets in your houses for now. These are the characteristic of their/your venus, in your/their house (where the qualities of Venus shine in your relationship):
Your Venus in their First
This may suggest that you guys have plenty in common, making your partner feel beautiful and confident. For the house person, it feels like theyâve met a good match when you two become invested in each other. The attraction for the house person is strong as for the Venus person, theyâre spoiled by all things Venusian. It helps build confidence, as you guys will want to look like a power couple. The house person will be deeply attracted to them, especially if their Venus is close to their ascendant, and the problem is you may idealize the house person. You have to be careful because you guys may only like each other for how they look and how they look beside you.Â
Your Venus in their SecondÂ
With this overlay the house person will admire the Venus person not just physically like the first but also for who they are inside, in return they make the house person feel talented and appreciated. The house person will shower gifts and fortunes to the Venus person. In fact the Venus person will make them feel so talented, they can discover new income or have a material growth. Their materials start to blossom, itâs to the point that their creative energies can form and they can make money together. As long as the house person doesnât have a lot of inflicted aspects to their Venus, then they wonât under appreciate the venus person.This is a really good place for Venus, not only will you prosper materialistically but physically. Romantically. You both will take out sensuality in each other, along with other desires. Little tip- donât take the Venus person for granted or posses them too much. So yes, this may be a protective love after all.
Your Venus in their Third
This is such a communicative and blossoming match, thereâs a possibility of love letters, and sultry words whispered in ears to become produced with this overlay. You guys respond to each other with grace and vitality. Communication is extremely important in a relationship and as this house is ruled by Gemini (a Mercury-ruled sign), and paired with Venus, you communicate with compassion and love. The problem is that you guys may act like a Libra mercury together, avoiding conflicts, as you guys rather keep things sweet. The Venus person will stimulate the house personâs mind, as theyâll make them feel appreciated as well.Â
Your Venus in their Fourth
Thereâs a nurturing presence about Venus in here, after all itâs the house about home and family. Living together will be pleasant and you guys will feel a soul-level connection. Both of you can relate to each other in terms of the childhood, there will also be mutual love and an emotional connection flowing between you two. Both of you will have an aesthetically pleasing home together as well, and often tone down the âWildâ side of each other if you have it. Theyâll want to spend lots of time with you at home. It calms the house person and steadies them. You guys find home with each other and are capable of having a harmonious life together.Â
Your Venus in their FifthÂ
With the nature of the fifth house, Venus tends to live happily here. The house person adores the Venus person and will always try to give excitement and fun in the Venus personâs life; after all this is a fire house. There will be lots of fun, romance, and enjoyment flowing between you two. You guys help each other express yourselves and become more creative. Thereâs playfulness and flirtatious behavior here, itâs very affectionate. It adds warmth unless one of the Natal chart struggles with that. Thereâs a sexual and romantic attraction between you two, you guys tend to enjoy when pursuing each other. It adds some comfort to express yourselves in a more âlovingâ way. Since this house also views children, you guys may even want children together. This is a really, really nice place for Venus to be in because Venus blossoms here.Â
Your Venus in their SixthÂ
The Venus person will almost act like a Virgo Venus, trying to help the house person a lot. Especially in routines, health, and other improvements. You both find pleasure in doing daily activities together, working together, and even doing chores together. It adds harmony and love in being teammates together, which also makes sense because this is the house explaining the workplace too. In fact, you guys may have met each other at work. The sign in which Venus is in may show where the Venus person assist the house person. Even though the house of work habits and health sounds a little useless for Venus to be in, itâs not. The house person can feel supported and someone who has similar ideas about diet and exercise, you guys help each other a lot and make each other be able to build a life together. It builds stability.Â
Your Venus in their Seventh   Â
The house person feels like the Venus person is their ideal partner, after all this is the 2nd place Venus is at home in. Love, appreciation, and support flows between you guys peacefully. If you guys donât have hard aspects, this can help build a long-term relationship; both of you treat each other equally and the house person can very much so see a life with you. You both will take the relationship seriously. The chemistry clicks between you two as you guys have harmony perfuming your relationship since you guys tend to have the same views about love and relationships. The Venus person has an area in which to discover their love nature more. Itâs overall a very beneficial place for Venus and a healthy place too, it builds a sense of adoration.Â
Your Venus in their EighthÂ
Both of you find each other alluring, magnetic, and mysterious; The attraction is most likely not one-sided, you both feel it. Itâs intoxicating and almost obsessive even possessive. Especially for the house person and perhaps the Venus person (depending what sign their Venus is in). The sex will be very mixed between the axis of Taurus-Scorpio, itâs emotionally and physically bonded. Very intense, passionate, sensual, and lusty. Both of you can open up to each other in a ways you guys never thought youâd be able to. It can be very overwhelming at times but you guys can trust each other with your dark secrets and share a physical sense of yourselves that is endearing.Â
Your Venus in their NinthÂ
Love is a constant adventure together, sharing some of the same ideals and beliefs. Thereâs a lot of honesty between you two as you guys help each other to grow and expand, itâs very supportive. The Venus person feels the same and will stay interested with the house person. As Iâve said with the house overlay series a lot with this house, you guys will enjoy traveling together. The house person will feel like the Venus person is lucky to them and might actually be. Itâs a very nice place for Venus to be in because it constantly grows.
Your Venus in their TenthÂ
This relationship may be very public as you guys make each other look good, the house person really adores the Venus person as well. You both tend to glamour your relationship, possibly idealizing the relationship even to your own eyes which can go wrong. If the Venus person is a women, the house person âwill admire you and treat you like a goddess.â You both are highly supportive of each other and tend to help each other a lot in each otherâs careers.Â
Your Venus in their EleventhÂ
This is really nice for not only love, but even friendship. The two of you get along so well that fun and communication fits in really nice. The problem is the house person may see the Venus person only like a friend, but nonetheless like a best friend. This can either add to the romance or lessen it, it depends on the house person. You both may have met by a circle of friends and are even capable of being affectionate in front of your friends, your friends can see the chemistry. Try to see if there are other overlays or aspects that bring more passion and so forth.Â
Your Venus in their TwelfthÂ
You guys may have a very hidden relationship or a very private one but the house person may not trust the Venus person right away because of the nature of the twelfth house. Thereâs no doubt that there will be a very physic connection between you two and the Venus person increases the house personâs confidence. Both of you are very attracted to each other and the Venus person finds the house person mysterious, which may cause them not to trust you right away too. Even though itâs hidden, it has that Pisces nature of your relationship to make it very compassionate. This is an indicator of perhaps a hidden love affair, even if itâs not you guys find each other very attractive. The chemistry is âhauntingâ and consuming. The house person may resist there feelings for them because the idea of ânot trustingâ is more strong for the house person, but if they give in, the venus person has to have good intentions. No manipulation and so forth should happen, especially in this house or even for any.Â
female zodiac
aries:
argumentative and likes to be right
defensive
tells so many stories
self-confident
passionate
taurus:
BEAUTIFUL like always so pretty
reserved/shy at first
so fun when you get to know them
selfish
shit-talkers
gemini:
really easy to talk toÂ
likes to talk about themselves
cuties
can be shy or super outgoing
smart
cancer:
SENSITIVE
smiles a lot
has a quiet voice
lowkey crazy
overthinks everything
leo:
really pretty
thinks theyâre too goodÂ
so funny
really good sense of style
talks a lot of shit
virgo:
OVERTHINKING
bad at communication
wants everything to be perfect
such good listeners
really good friends
libra:
FLIRTY
loves to be loved
fashionable
cannot make a decision for the life of them
gets walked all over
scorpio:
low key
genuinely really cool
really fucking smart
CRAZY
can be either super clingy or super distant
sagittarius:
CANNOT BE WRONG
thinks theyâre way deeper than they actually are
unique
so funny
just wants to be loved
capricorn:
good hygiene
high expectations
super determinedÂ
cold
can be fun when they actually let loose
aquarius:
honest
loves to laugh and mess around
artsy
likes to be aloneÂ
natural beauty
pisces:
emotional wreck
manipulative
pretty
really bad at relationships tbh
so smart
REMINDER: