neurodivergent transfem from hell

World's #1 Aerith fangirl / I'm just some queer who likes animals and loud music. Tabletop games too. So yeah, here's a blog. Don't expect great things from me. She/Her / I don't tag nsfw, gore, or body horror, and reblog plenty of all. Follow at your own risk. / I post tabletop game homebew at https://www.tumblr.com/jettermelon

[houseofclamp]

[nextlevelsmp3]

[card-of-the-day]

Today's Card Is: Sol Ring

[queeranarchism]

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

[mousidy]

i think people need to realize that children are subject to sexual violence, both at the hands of their peers and at the hands of adults, regardless of assigned sex at birth. it's just that intra-group violence (violence that occurs within a sex group, within a family, between peers, etc.) is severely underreported, despite being at least as common as inter-group violence.

my theory as to why there's more stigma around discussing intra-group violence is that it conflicts with some of the "solutions" people come up with for sexual violence (like sex segregation or finding safety within the family). when you examine intra-group violence it becomes more obvious that it's about power rather than attraction, but people don't want to address these power imbalances in society (especially if they benefit from them)

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[orthoscheme]

i'd kill a thousand billion pjackks for one more second of irish american chan

[melongrrrl]

It's endlessly funny to me how physics objects and the computer controlled party members interact in the Final Fantasy VII remakes. You'll be sitting there looking at the cutest little outdoor cafe, and suddenly Tifa decides to sprint through the middle of it, launching every single chair into the fucking stratosphere at mach Jesus. It made me laugh every time in Remake and it's doing the same in Rebirth.

[quaddmgd]

wishing all the shinra vets a terrible night and dreams full of wutai ninjas

[quaddmgd]

[lavandulastorms]

i miss them sm

[arlowa]

Can you lock the fuck in, Cloud?

[rotsunky]

🐱💚

[sauronns]

Aerith as Misa Amane, Death Note

prints

[call-me-oluss]

Legacy

[melongrrrl]

Playing the demo for Final Fantasy VII Rebirth, and something tells me I'm going to lose a lot of hours to Queens Blood....

[melongrrrl]

I'm going to lose a lot of hours to this game in general oh no. Crafting systems, and side quests, and huge open ended zones is the type of shit that puts worms into my brain.

[melongrrrl]

Time to play Queens Blood for the next 800000 hours

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[bearsockz]

saw Deadpool & Wolverine with my trans wife

[bearsockz]

Drew this at work soooo hungry