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Merry Christmas ♡ Your answers in the DB Gift form were clear. You needn't say no more. This DB gift is a special one. I just wanted to make sure you have a great Christmas. Enjoy. <3
🎁 byrning4u
Merry Christmas ♡ Your DB gift needs no explanation. Enjoy the ride. Hope to keep sharing a lot of thoughts with you about the wonderful human being called David Byrne in the year to come as well. <3
// PART 1 - A Self-Made Man
[source: This Must Be The Place by David Bowman]
"On Twitter/X, a clip recently started circulating giving us Byrne in 1989—at peak levels of cuteness—judging a vogueing contest. And it’s every bit as wholesome as you’d expect. The evening in question took place at Tracks, the legendary New York nightclub that opened in 1985 and started hosting balls starting in 1988. (...) As we can see from the short clip, Byrne looks thrilled to be there, and who wouldn’t be? Though we do have to wonder why he only gave House of Xtravaganza’s incredible moves a stingy 8 when all the other judges are giving 10s, 10s, 10s across the board.” [x]
"In 1997 I put David Byrne in drag... but the look got cut from the video. Great photo though!" [x]
// PART 2 - Popsicle
[May, 1981 - Snippets of Scott Cohen's interview with David] SC: Who was the first rock star you wanted to fuck? DB: Mia Farrow. Though she wasn’t a rock star, she did marry Frank Sinatra. [...] SC: Do you believe in love? DB: I believe it’s something real and happens to people. I fall in love now about the same as before. It’s a job, sort of. It’s work. SC: Is sex everything you thought it would be? DB: No. Sometimes you think it’s what you want but it’s not at all what you needed at the time. I really don’t think about it that much because I’m personally happy without it and I don’t mind waiting until I find someone who I really get along with. I don’t go out on the prowl too much. SC: As the Talking Heads got better, did your sex life get better? DB: About twenty-five percent better. SC: Did the beds get better? DB: The beds in the Holiday Inn always seemed comfortable to me. They’re all made up before you get into them, which is more than I can say about my bed at home. SC: Do you talk a lot in bed? DB: Not during sex. [...] SC: Where would you go on a dream date? DB: Sometimes when I meet a girl I think, Could I ride on a Greyhound bus with this person? So I suppose I have romantic notions about that, but maybe it has more to do with two people going someplace. I guess dream dates turn out to be where you go to all these different places in the same night, maybe spending an hour at one place and an hour someplace else. It ends when I come home, listen to a record and go to sleep. SC: Did you ever get caught fucking? DB: Yes, and I felt real silly. A friend of mine caught me fucking his girlfriend. It was in their house. I felt pretty bad and the guy felt pretty bad but the girl thought it was real funny. But it didn’t change our friendship very much. SC: Did you get a song out of it? DB: I think I wrote "Psycho Killer" shortly after.
[2001, David interviewed for Trip]
VIK: DO YOU REMEMBER YOUR FIST KISS? BYRNE: Yes. It was awful [laughing]. I remember I was dancing at a party with a girl. I watched what my friends we doing and followed suit.
VIK: HOW DID YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY? BYRNE: It was confusing and not very sophisticated. One of the first times I was naked with a woman, when I was young, we had nowhere to go. So we went to her basement and lay down on top of a pile of trash.
VIK: SEX ON TRASH? WHAT DO YOU REMEMBER FROM THIS EXPERIENCE? BYRNE: Nothing good! [Laughing] We put a blanket or sleeping bag on top of the trash and got down to it.
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[sorry not sorry] [source of these out of context screencaps: this post by shirleyschmidts]
🎁 swallow-wind
Merry Christmas ♡ Let me start by saying that what you wrote in the form is super interesting! You know a lot of stuff already, but still I hope this DB gift inspires your research.
Funnily, I think that David himself also found community by creating his own music and performing - he really grew socially, and also found like-minded people by singing his lyrics.
[David doing an AMA on Reddit]
Anyway… your DB gift will explore 'community' connected to David Byrne in the broadest sense. What follows is mainly me associating things I know about DB, with the idea of 'community'. So I hope you don’t mind that it isn’t always specifically about finding community through music. ❄️ // POLITICS
David is known for being involved in politics. People often form communities with others who share their political views, and that sense of community can be important when you want your voice to be heard. David at the No Kings march in Philadelphia, 18 Oct. 2025:
[From his online journal, January 2017:] I went to the Women’s March in Washington on Saturday. It was glorious, I’m still high from the experience. Two thoughts:
1. The question is sometimes raised, “what good do demonstrations do?” Especially one’s like this, that cover a whole range of issues; i.e. broad target and focus. I’d respond based on Saturday (and past experiences) that these kinds of demonstrations are sometimes not as much about one specific issue but about solidarity and affirmation. They allow participants to actually see one another–very different than online–and to confirm common hopes and concerns: we are here, there are a LOT of us, we are not going away. We vote!
(I fully expect that resistance around specific issues will follow, and will be re-watching "Eyes on The Prize" for tactical lessons!)
2. There was a LOT of humor in this march. I don’t know if this was because there was less testosterone, but it’s a super effective tactic. Comedians and comics can say things that break the ice and are acceptable where blunt angry statements hit walls. There were so many hilarious signs- a huge part of the experience was laughter and smiles. A resistance with laughs is irresistible.
Here are some of the best signs I saw: [click here to see his photos] ❄️
This does connect with music again, during this Women's March, Janelle Monae did 'Hell You Talm Bout'. David often played this song at the end of American Utopia shows. Amazing song, that has everything to do with community.
❄️ "I felt that the trajectory of our show implies more social and political engagement from me — and possibly from the audience, but certainly from me and the band. In the times that we live in now, I felt we were kind of obliged to be more engaged in that way. Three years ago, in 2015, I heard the song she did — and she [also] did it at the Women's March in Washington. I just thought, "This is one of the most moving political songs that I'd ever heard." I was surprised that it didn't catch fire and you didn't hear it everywhere. So when it came [to it], I thought,"How are we going to end this show? It seems to be going in this direction." I got in touch with her to say, "I'd like to do your song. Does it seem weird for a slightly older white man to be doing this song?" And she said "No, no, no. This is great." She said something like, "This song should belong to everyone. Everyone should be able to do this song."
Tell me what you see from your perspective on stage when you sing it. What's happening in the audience? One of the beautiful things about the song is it's not accusatory. There's an implication that there is a lack of social justice, but it's not accusing the audience, it's not pointing a finger at any specific person or group. It's saying that something's not right and giving tribute, remembrance, to these lives that are gone.
At that point, we've had the high points of the show where the audience is dancing and they're having a great time. Then we keep the groove going, but it gets quite serious. It ends the show on the vibe of, "This is where we are at in 2018."
That's a fascinating arc. I think about the way you open the show, you're examining a human brain alone on stage with the song "Here," and pointing out all these regions in the brain and taking us into this world where people can forget everything that's going on outside and be part of this amazing spectacle. To bring it back out at the end ... people in the audience can't help but say the names along with you, and the act of doing that is remarkable. When you say the names, you can picture these people, the people who were killed. Sometimes it's really hard to sing.
[NPR: World Cafe, 2018]
// TRUE STORIES
In the ’80s, David Byrne collected newspaper clippings about funny or unusual people. He used these stories to form the characters in his movie True Stories. In the film, he acts as the narrator who goes around Virgil, Texas, meeting all the quirky people and kind of becoming part of the town’s community. Some people thought he was mocking Texans, but for him, these people were just unique. Not stupid at all!
// ARCHITECTURE & MUSIC
I think you have read How Music Works already, but I think it's interesting how David places the evolution of music into the context of architecture, and architecture is inseparably connected to community. A church where people sing together, a concert venue where people come together to see their favorite band, indigenous groups making music together outdoors (technically not architecture, but you see what I mean :))… you name it. So that's why I'll also drop this TED Talk here:
And the last thing I'd like to add is this video of the American Utopia performance of Road To Nowhere. It's just a performance and song that makes me really feel connected to the people around me. The way the whole band marches through the audience gives me such a strong sense of community.
🎁 janop1
Merry Christmas ♡ Your David Byrne gift is a calm kind of 'mood board'. It’s meant to soothe whatever tumult is happening in your life and help everything flow, letting the changes you’re hoping for happen naturally. I have something to relax every sense. In the end you'll feel open to whatever good stuff that the universe has in store for you: inspiration, creativity, connection. Are you ready? Alright, let's start!
We'll start with a piece of music. Put on your headphones, or play this song on a speaker in a quiet room. Sit down or lie down comfortably (whatever feels best for you) and relax as the first nature sounds of the intro fade in. When the song is over, you can continue reading.
OK! Relaxing, right? Then now it's time for a comforting, warm drink. I hope you like tea, 'cause David makes it himself.
Here he is, chopping some ginger and turmeric for a fresh and super healthy pot of tea. He's taking good care of you. 🙂↕️
David: I don’t have much of a ritual. [...] I keep myself busy. I make some ginger tea. I’ll peel the gingers, slice it… Put it into a thermos, put boiling water in… With some lemon, or whatever else. And that’ll keep me busy for a good 15-20 minutes. And kinda let that seep and cook. I do things like that. You do some little fiddling and things like that. Keep my mind a little bit away from what I’m about to do, until I get a call: “OK, five minutes!” [x]
The ginger and turmeric are already infusing - we just need to wait a bit before squeezing in the lemons. :) This is gonna taste so good!
Nice textures are also important to feel chill. So here, have these soft, fluffy jackets:
As for smell, that's a little bit more difficult. But here is something funny:
Right! How does that feel? Even if it didn’t quite work, I hope I at least made you laugh or brought a smile to your face. :) I hope you’ve had a wonderful Christmas celebration, and I wish you nothing but the best in the coming year. Who knows what amazing things and changes might happen!
🎁 sarrie-cant-wait
Merry Christmas ♡ For a lot of people, David is the prime example of a person on the spectrum who made his 'quirks' into a 'superpower'. In his younger years, some people thought he was strange, awkward, or even rude. They didn’t understand what was going on with him or why he behaved the way he did. But by writing lyrics, playing music, and performing on stage, David became more confident socially and gained a better understanding of who he was. Gradually, he connected with like-minded people. People who understood him and appreciated his quirks instead of judging him for them. Now there are thousands of people, including us, who admire him for being unapologetically himself and for the amazing work he has created - work that wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for the way his brain is wired. Be who you want to be, spread positivity, and connect with people who see and appreciate you for who you are. ♡
As a boy, David found other children difficult to deal with: “I would have a party at my house and then I would go and hide”, he laughs, “someone would find me in a bedroom”. [x]
To this day, David is still unapologetically himself, and this is what we love most about him:
Buck Naked, is to be transparent, vulnerable, completely yourself. No facades. It's the only way to make the real connections with people that are right for you.
🎁 loco-deamor
Merry Christmas ♡ A home can be many things. It can be a literal house. It can be the home of a loved one. It can be cooking your favorite meal, indulging in your favorite music, or chatting about your interests with like-minded people. Surrounding yourself with your favorite items or colors. With this DB gift, I wish you a feeling of home.
The loft where Tina, Chris and David used to live together, was painted white and gray: "Tina and David agreed to be my roommates and split the rent. A hundred dollars a month per person plus electricity seemed doable. I went out to buy paint to freshen up the place, white for the walls and two different grays for the concrete floor with which we created a checkerboard effect." [Chris Frantz' book Remain In Love]
The apartment David lived in after that was also very empty and without color, but he did his best to make it his own: "David got a nice little studio apartment in the East Village close to CBGB. He was happy to have his own apartment. Tina and I were, too. As I helped him move in, I was strangely touched to see that he had bought matching bath mats and toilet seat covers to make the bathroom nice." [Chris Frantz' book Remain In Love]
Nowadays, though, his house is very light, colorful and full of personal items. I bundled a few apartment snippets for you: David describing his apartment, writing music in his home studio, having a zoom call from home (with bonus autism empowerment <3), playing at home with his grandson, and munching the food he just cooked in his kitchen:
Where do you draw at home? In the open dining room that goes over to a living area, at the far end, near a window — I just put a standing desk with a light on it. I can stand and draw there. I have a spare bedroom and turned that into the music room.
That’s the life! Yep! [Laughs.] I put down a carpet. I put this stuff on the walls, it’s called Homasote, it’s kind of spongy, so you can put pushpins into it and it absorbs some sound. [2022, New York Times]
🎁 leoblooms
Merry Christmas ♡ I wish you a warm Christmas, with many loved ones around you. And for the new year I wish you lots of creativity. You have the gift of looking at the world around you with an artist’s eye, just like David. Keep doing that. Your artwork brings a smile to other people’s faces. I speak from experience. 🙂 Your DB gift is a triptych centered around the theme of empathy, I hope you enjoy it. (first video got blocked by YouTube for many countries. If it doesn't work, click here to see it!)
🎁 samstalgia
Merry Christmas ♡ With this DB gift, I wish you a lot of creativity, and exploration of different ways to be creative. Your drawings are amazing, but you don't have to draw if you don't feel like it. Create in whatever way feels right at the moment. David doesn't stick with making only music either. Maybe he can inspire you to...
...Design something. On the left you see David with one of the bike racks he designed [someone tracked all his bike racks down, if you're interested] and on the right are the Alien Cups he designed for Illy in 2001.
...Cook a new recipe or to just freestyle with whatever ingredients you have in your fridge!
"David Byrne's personal menu has elements of both elegance and simplicity. He spends most of his downtime at his apartment in Manhattan, where kitchens tend to be either compact with minimal counter space or virtually nonexistent. Because of this, he doesn't cook at home as often as he would like, as he told The Guardian. However, he loves spicy foods, and particularly enjoys cooking Mexican and Indian cuisines. He also apparently makes a mean sofrito. While dining out, he orders flavorful dishes like monkfish, porcini mushrooms, and grilled aubergine leaves with tzatziki sauce." [x]
10.31.04: Halloween I cook dinner for Malu and her boyfriend. I am dressed as a Mexican Wrestler. I hope I scared him when he came over and I answered the door - I was in a red jump suit and a silver wrestling mask. Made a pumpkin pie. My first. [excerpt from the blog he had years ago]
...Take photos. David has long been interested in photography. The photos he now takes and posts on his Instagram, are amusing because of the associative captions.
In his early art school days he got experimental with taking pictures: “Right after art school – I was taking Polaroids of friends. And I would stage Polaroids that were fake UFO evidence. With mirrors and sheets of glass you could make it look like there was a fuzzy object in the sky.” [1996, interview] / He also mentions it in the video above
...Make music. I don't know if you play an instrument, or have the ambition to learn to play one - but even if you don't, David shows that music can be anything. For example, in Playing The Building, he turned a building into an instrument. It doesn't sound very musical, but he and the visitors obviously had fun playing around with it and it raises the question of what music can be.
...Sing! Maybe playing music isn't your thing, but everyone can sing. Even when they say you can't. :)
Is it true that you were thrown out of the school choir? "Well, not exactly thrown out, but told that probably I shouldn’t continue. [Why?] Well, if you’ve heard my singing on some of the early Talking Heads records… (laughs) It’s okay, but it can get into a yelp. There’s a yelpy aspect to it. And (laughs) I can only imagine that it might have been more so, back then. Although somehow I must have been able to kind of manage to sing in a normal way when I was singing in these coffee shops and singing these songs and accompanying myself." [Desert Island Discs]
...Or return to drawing again. Remind yourself that not every drawing has to be a masterpiece. David does these little line art drawings, for him it was a way to keep creating during the pandemic. He calls these illustrations 'dingbats'.
“They’re not explicitly about lockdown or being alone,” he says. “But that’s the undercurrent. Doing something creative like this becomes a kind of therapy, where your fears and anxieties come out. Things you maybe daren’t say to yourself, much less to other people. So someone may look at them and say, ‘Oh, so is that what you really think?’” [2020, The Guardian]
How do you start a drawing? Often with an idea. I’ll sketch it out in pencil, sometimes just on a scrap of paper, to get the idea down: a mountain with a giant eyeball in it. How does it go? How big is it? Then I’ll do it in pencil on proper Bristol paper, because pencil I can erase. And then I’ll go do it in ink. [2022, New York Times]
🎁 summerandotherstories
Merry Christmas ♡ Your DB gift shows some moments in David's career path. Working hard pays off, but it's also important to follow your heart and do what you enjoy. I hope you are rewarded for your hard work and that your ambitions become reality!
[full video] "When I moved to New York, I worked for a while as an usher in a movie theater on East 34th Street. Once in a while, I had the job of taking the tickets, receipts, or sometimes the reels of film in big cans to the chain headquarters further uptown. I loved those trips—and from my POV, I was getting paid to be a tourist—to walk down Broadway. Broadway! This street was famous, I thought to myself, it’s in songs and movies, and now I’m walking on it! I’m here, where so many things I read about or heard happened began!" [David's FB page]
"Kurfirst suggested that David Byrne of Talking Heads would be a good choice for the album's producer, due to his previous musical experience and history of touring with the B-52's. Despite time constraints with recording the soundtrack to The Catherine Wheel (1981), Byrne nevertheless agreed to produce Mesopotamia, producing the former during the day and the latter at night, with little sleep in between." [x]
Despite the fact that you’ve achieved so much, you still seem so interested in learning more and doing more. How do you keep that attitude? "Oh, I don’t know. I have had close friends complain that I’m a little bit of a workaholic that way. But, I don’t see it always as work. Like going to TED, it’s inspiring, some of the things I heard will definitely affect my work in the future, but it’s inspiring and pleasurable — that’s the first experience that you have. It doesn’t really feel like work, in the traditional sense anyway." [2010, interview for TEDBlog]
"My work makes me happy. I’m not a person who would be happy spending a holiday just lying on a beach. That’s not to say that I’m any better than the people who are happy sitting on a beach. In some ways I might be worse. But that’s the way it is." [2022, New York Times]
🎁 loubbfuser2
Merry Christmas ♡ Your DB gift shows the warmth of friendship with like-minded people. People who embrace your quirks, who you can bond with over your shared interests, and who give you the confidence to express yourself the way you want. ❄️ Byrne was a neurotically shy child and teenager. Even after he joined Talking Heads, he didn't find it much easier to relate to people. Yale Evelev remembers working in a record store in Soho, New York, in the late '70s. Byrne lived in the neighbourhood and used to shop there. "He'd put his head down and run out of the store if I talked to him," Evelev recalls. [x] ❄️ "I would tell my younger self: don’t worry, there are people like you and you’ll find them. At that age there are worries your older self could help you with – I felt like a lot of people do, like you’re different and don’t fit in. Especially growing up in a little suburban town, you think, do I belong? Is there a place for me? Are there any other people like me? I’d like to have had that reassurance." [David in a letter to his younger self]
“I think there were times when I realized that I wasn’t perceiving things a hundred per cent the way that other people were,” he told me one day over lunch. But he came to consider his singularity to be part of the human condition, the way our desires and biases render us unique, aberrant, perfect. Byrne was born in Scotland in 1952. “Being an immigrant myself and having immigrant parents, I realized, Oh, we don’t all share the same little cultural things,” he said. “We eat differently, or we listen to different kinds of music, or we hold our knives and forks in different ways. Everybody’s not the same.”
❄️ "I have friends who’ve told me, ‘David, some things that you did were ridiculous.’ I’d invite people over to my house and then go and hide.” He smiles. “I don’t do that anymore.”
Did any of the Talking Heads ever ride with you? Oh, no. They made fun of me. They said that it was very nerdy, and I was going to turn into Pee Wee Herman. But today it's different. (...)
If friends give me a horrified look when I tell them I bike around New York, I say, "Tell you what, I have extra bikes, we'll ride down the river one afternoon." Then they see it's really pleasant. They realize that as long as they stay over there, away from the cars, they're fairly safe. It's an introduction. That kind of safety and security needs to be gradually extended into the rest of Manhattan. [x]
“There are no words to describe how adventurous David is,” Parson said. “He always finds the most profound way to interact with a place with his bicycle, and he always invites others, graciously, to join in.” [2021, New York Times]