"You don't need to explain yourself to anyone" Must be one of the most self destructive sentences I have been telling myself for as long as I can remember and especially as someone who gets misunderstood a lot, I've decided to explain myself more, be less "complex" as people would say So for anyone who thinks they can relate to me, this is how I do it; first of all you have to understand that there will still be a few disagreements. In the process of "becoming a better person" you have to remember to not beat yourself up over things that you cannot change like the way other people comprehend things, humans aren't the same we don't see, hear or react to things the same way, you can literally stand there and explain yourself to a person and their brains still won't process a situation the way yours does, and that's okay.