Some upgrades

Roleplayer on FF14 Balmung. Miu Xhlan, Seelie' Unseelie, Silvaire Cameron. Some IC and OOC

[kenshiki]

[urdchama]

[jamaicanbulma-deactivated201610]

@sinfuldesires-z omg

[cosmic-noir]

I’m going to think this way for a while.

I’m going to stop selling myself short.

[karrmennn-deactivated20171015]

^^

[carnyblog-deactivated20170615]

This is why when people go “oh hey wanna look at my art? I MEAN IT’S SO BAD I DID SUCH A TERRIBLE JOB” my first instinct is to just tell them “nah, I’m good” I really hate self-deprecation. It does you no good. It does me no good. Stop it.

[rensbogusadventure]

I find it really interesting and a bit relieving that people are identifiying with the boy in this image set and not making the typical niceguy comments.

You’ll be happy to know that there’s more to this than what’s been shown here; behold!

: 3

@imuffinator

[rensbogusadventure]

#Awww#this scene is 10x cuter ;-;#thanks Ren

;)

[gayngelofthelordlovesdean]

Can this be the new go to meme of 2018

[ramenyul]

[hypohippo]

I fixed it

[gayngelofthelordlovesdean]

This is the best fix I’ve seen

[michisilver]

I’m in the “also america” section. 

[domas-eternal-lotus]

Get to know me, send me a symbol.

📱 Show your phone lock screen and/or home screen

💕 Your two top fave fictional characters

🕹 Video game you are currently playing

🌡 Fave season

🏫 Are you in school, what grade

 🎒 Are you in college, major area of study

🏢 Your job (You don’t have to be specific) or dream job if you don’t work

📷 Post the 12th photo from your phone’s gallery

📅 Your birthday

🎂 How old are you

📏 How tall are you

🔑 Key to your heart

📖 Fave book

📝 Fave quote

🌐 Languages you can speak and/or are learning. Which are you fluent in

💻 Desktop/Laptop/iPad/other

📔 Do you keep a traditional diary

☠ Something that angers you

🐷 Junk food you can never get enough of

🌼 Fave flower

📺 Fave anime

🎥 Fave film

📻 Fave song currently

🎙 Can you sing

🎁 Best gift you ever received and why

👾 Do you believe in aliens

👻 Do you believe in ghosts

⛪ What is your religion

🌎 What country do you live in

📸 Post a selfie

[anxietyproblem]

[michisilver]

happens online as well as IRL, it’s just easier to step away from things online if I feel overwhelmed 

[bbycas-deactivated20190121]

pls tell me im not the only one

[michisilver]

>.< ... you aren’t... you really aren’t... and worse than that “Stop being so depressed” 0.0 wut? 

[kaleighfratkins]

Trauma often messes with one’s ability to say “no”. 

You either consciously or subconsciously think, “I don’t want to hurt this person’s feelings” or “If I say no, then they’ll hurt me” or “It won’t really be that bad” or “I can handle this” or “I need to do this to prove myself” or “I deserve this”, or you forget that “no” is even an option.

It’s still not your fault if you didn’t say “no”, even if you think maybe you could have. It’s still not your fault. You didn’t deserve what happened to you and you didn’t bring it upon yourself. It was never your fault.

[harperhug]

I just cried when I read this. Thank you.

[roxinova]

Holy crap, yes

[michisilver]

on top of that I get people angry at me for not saying no, “what do you mean you didn’t want to do that. why didn’t you say no!?” .... because it’s really hard to say no... and I feel guilty for saying no... and I’m afraid... and... ect ect...  <.< 

[michisilver]

FINAL FANTASY XIV 8_15_2018 5_57_39 PM @dayst-ffxiv no way am I gonna keep trying for that tower! OMG! lets just dance! WEEE!!!

[michisilver]

@dayst-ffxiv how... how are you floating up there? 

[dayst-ffxiv]

@michisilver your minion is pointing fingers, rood.

[michisilver]

And here I thought it was the kiss! XD

[michisilver]

I 100% could have sworn I always already following you. But then again tumblr likes to randomly unfollow people. Among other things.

it’s always possibly. I’ve found myself unfollowing people when I get back from a break and go “um... wtf?”

[michisilver]

@dayst-ffxiv ^_^ 

[anxietyproblem]

Follow us @anxietyproblem​

[michisilver]

[houseofpaincakes]

season 5 wishlist

[multishippers-deserve-love]

He would

[kari-izumi]

OH GOD 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[michisilver]

YES YES YES YES YES... ALL THE YES!

[tinylilbi]

[michisilver]

can we add Pansexuals too? 

[kill-----your-----darlings-deac]

[ka-te-fe-ar-deactivated20180905]

Same. 

[michisilver]

100% true

[this-is-psychosis]

Therapists aren’t people who you “pay to pretend to care about you”, therapists are people you pay to teach you how to care for yourself

[voce-morti]

Me: I am violently depressed.

Therapist: Oh! Sounds like you need to do YOGA! That will help!

Me: *signs up for yoga*

Me: *is violently depressed in Downward Dog*

[mx-mythical-deactivated20260319]

Me: I hate myself and only see my flaws

Therapist: ok lets refocus on things you like about yourself. This week i want you to try and journal about good things you’ve for yourself and others.

Me: *does the homework* yeah but i still hate myself but feel bad cause i shouldn’t

Therapist: feeling like you shouldn’t hate yourself is a step in the right direction. Mental health is complex and isn’t something that will ~magically~ improve. We have a lot of hard work head of us but I’ll be here to help you.

TL;DR stop perpetuating the idea that therapy is unhelpful because the results are not instantaneous.

[kcsplace]

FUCKING THIS.

As a psychologist the amount of bullshit on this site, the amount of fucking dangerous bullshit on this site about how therapy is neurotypical bullshit and isn’t worth it and how exercise is pointless and good diet is pointless and that therapy homework is pointless DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL

Exercise is fucking important. good diet is fucking important therapy is fucking important. WHY???

because pills alone don’t help. they improve the hormonal imbalance (as does exercise and good diet which ALSO are a form of very real self care as your physical being is sorta connected to your mental one but go fucking figure right?), but guess what? the suicidal thoughts, the thoughts of harm, the thoughts of hating yourself, they’re still there.  suicides actually increase when medicated.  why? because suddenly you have the energy to fulfill thoughts of harming yourself.  which is why you NEED therapy alongside pills.

it has taken you years, or decades to create your maladaptive thought processes and behaviours.  that shit doesn’t disappear overnight. core beliefs don’t change overnight. these are the very fucking core of your personhood, your being and personality. THAT TAKES TIME TO CHANGE

STOP ACTING LIKE THERAPY IS SHIT IF IT DOESNT WORK IN TWO SESSIONS

[potrix-the-queerschlaeger]

^This!!!!!

[michisilver]

Yup, all of this... I’ve had Chronic depression pretty much my whole life, and yeah... medication helps but it doesn’t cure it. it takes years and years of rewiring your brain and thought process and it’s a steep climb of constant work, finding a support system and people around you to help when you start to slip. 

[smallllsnaomi-deactivated201712]

CAST A FAT GIRL AS A LEADING LADY IN A ROMANTIC COMEDY WITHOUT HER WEIGHT EVER BEING A PLOT POINT YOU FUCKING COWARDS

[michisilver]

AND don’t try to have everything suddenly “fixed” because she’s lost weight or because this guy notices her. Let him be hot and utterly blown away that she has self confidence and doesn’t give a shit about her size nor does she let it hold her back from living. Or hell, let him not be hot but an everyday looking dude maybe let her help HIM find the confidence to love himself and fight the stereotype that men can’t cry or be weak or... “feminine”