GUYS. guys. I just worked myself up to come out to my parents and i didn’t do it. I was literally so close and i just decided not to.
It was also because they changed their routine up a bit, so any other day at this time i may have done it. But not today lmao
lowkey disappointed in myself, but at the same time… idk. i don’t mind the closet, but it’s starting to get a bit musty in here. It used to be a nice, cosy place, but now there are some moths and it’s dusty and i just want to be out, yk?
welp, we did it. It was a while ago tbh but BASICALLY, my dad said the f slur in a joke and then the n word to try and explain himself and then I was like, this is enough. Anyway, made a presentation on why the language we use is important and basically why slurs are bad... came out somewhere in that
Had regrets for a while honestly but now just glad it’s done. Also, so fortunate to be able to come out w/ out the risk of being disowned, however if you are in a situation where coming out could put your safety at risk I REALLY urge you to not do it. It SUCKS I know, but you are important and your safety is a huge priority and by waiting a few more years in the closet, you could be doing your future self a huge favour because when I thought my life could never get better, it did, so have hope!
Anyway, I doubt anyone actually read all that, I just think this is a great platform for getting my thoughts out there yk, but if you did, thank you and have an amazing day, you are valid!















