Aspiring To Change The Game

DC area SB circa 09'

[yuricema-deactivated20230814]

😻😻

Caribbean girls >>

[seriousfic]

Tumblr is so awful. You have all these people making up obviously fake stories for attention and no one pays any mind to the real heroes, like me, who beat up a volcano.

[dikubutto]

why is nobody talking about this

[lord-kitschener]

I never learned THIS in school

[prettyboyshyflizzy]

If yall live in cali watch out for this dude

They deleted him from Facebook but idk if that was a good idea at least with his fb up you could see if he was planning something  immediate now we dont know whats going in his head.. cali Black women watch out stay alert

[king-emare]

wtf…oh no

[scorpiquarius]

Wtf boost this

[wethoneydew]

I have seen and interacted with this piece of shit on fb. He is seriously dangerous and went on a 20+ posting spree about how disgusting and subhuman black girls are. It’s so scary because we’ve seen misogynist men snap like this on countless occasions.

[gucciflipflop]

??? Can someone explain the sex offender part to me??

[wethoneydew]

His full name is Bryce Lindholm and if you look up his record you can see he was charged with three counts of sexual abuse.

[soft-butch-cassidy]

so my grandmother just told me a joke…

“Why do women wear panties with flowers on them?”

“I dunno, ‘cause flowers are pretty cool?”

“In loving memory of all the faces that were buried there.”

i just like omg grandMA NO 

[soft-butch-cassidy]

i told my grandma that this post got almost 6k notes and she was very pleased to know that the internet likes her jokes

[allcops]

In honour of National Law Enforcement Appreciation Day, some of our favourite tributes to police from 2015.

[onlyblackgirl]

They wrapped the car lmao

[harryedward]

It’s not a black tumblr post until it’s 50 comments deep, has the skull emoji, laaaawd, 13 gifs, 😭😩, and 7 people have melanin in their urls

[harryedward]

Why are non black people reblogging this?? Why would non black people want to reblog this?? I see ya pale faces in the notifications you ain’t fooling me

[tired-gay-deactivated20160526]

i wish there was more talk on tumblr about hypersexuality as a response to trauma, tbh. i see a lot of talk about asexuality and sex-repulsion due to trauma, but i rarely see people talk about the opposite. idk, its a difficult subject i suppose

[lilbittydragon-deactivated20241]

Hypersexuality as a result of trauma can happen because you start believing you’re not good for anything else but sex. Because you believe you can’t expect love without it. Because you believe sex is the only way anyone could possibly connect to others. Because sex is the only kind of intimacy you’re “any good at”. Because you don’t know how else to get attention. Because it’s easier to get sex than love. Because cuddling after sex is the only way you know how to get nonsexual physical touch. Because you’re high/drunk all the time. Because you have no libido/desire/attraction anymore and keep hoping that having sex will kickstart it. Because you’re good at sex and it’s the only way to get recognition and respect. Because you were told that you’re “bad at sex” and you feel ashamed and are trying to “get better at it.” Because you have flashbacks if you abstain from sex. Because you feel wordlessly desperate/scared/anxious if you don’t have sex for a certain period of time. Because you associate sex with danger and you don’t believe you’re allowed to be safe. Because you feel so bad so much of the time that sex/orgasm is the only way to calm down or feel good anymore. Because you’ve been re-targeted by other abusers/perpetrators who can tell you don’t know how to say no. Because you’re still with your abuser/rapist/perpetrator and the only way to prevent “worse” violence is to initiate sex. Because sex is physically or emotionally painful for you and you’re using sex to self-harm. 

Hypersexuality after trauma is way more common than anyone wants to believe, and it can happen for so, so many different reasons. These are just a few. 

[homojabi]

Friendly reminder to reapply for FAFSA, pass it on!

[menifee901-deactivated20170704]

[56blogsstillcrazy]

Maya Angelou wax figure clapping back

[donenon]

OMG LMAOO

[revysprite-deactivated20170502]

I’m glad this is back

[pastel-pwussy]

😂😂

[charlibal]

[toolers]

Petition for Beyonce to hire all of them. even the band. 

[littletootsierollaliengirl]

They look like they’re gonna transition into a sailor scout

[witchcraftkitty-deactivated2021]

yesssss haiiiirrrrrrrr!!!!!!

[a-fashion-killa]

I reblog this whenever it’s on my dash

[penutbutterqueen-deactivated201]

What school is this? Where do I need to transfer?

[brianaelise-deactivated20160523]

Good ol’ southern university of Louisiana

[bxbs]

👏🏿

[astoldbydes]

Why she have to kill it like that tho 😩😍

[sourcedumal]

This entire scene was pure Black Excellence okay? Complete with Black Magical Girl transformation dances and shit….

[artistickacchi]

Fighting evil by moonlight… Slaying favs day and night Never running from a dance fight Carefree Black Excellence!

[historicallyrelevant]

Was that Can You Stand The Rain they was playin??

[amey-winehouse]

^^^ yes!! This is lit 😍😍

[keenith]

This is a religious experience every time

[profoundnegro]

I lived

[societalmayhem]

Bruh lol

[moneymade-millionaire]

🙌😩😍😝 Oh Yea Now This An HBCU 💯

[yourbigsisnissi]

so beautiful and unbothered. amen.

[lesteslayss]

I almost went to southern. 😩 chose LSU instead. They’re band stays lit always

[thebabyanimals]

[milansb]

New pot- Breakfast & Spa Day in Baltimore -Amazing !!!!!!

[girlcumsmoothie-deactivated2016]

OK I TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT THIS BUT on the plane back from toronto I was really nervous because turbulence was outta this world so to try to distract myself from how nervous I was I just opened up a note in my phone and typed out what I was feeling in emojis and just. can u tell where the turbulence was Really Bad and when the plane finally landed

[ubercharge]

this is honestly a fucking visual journey

[milansb]

New Pot ~he’s the sweetest guy ever! He offered to give me his home address just to make me feel secure in meeting. We had an amazing breakfast for our first date, and had planned on a couples massage but we forgot to book it so he immediately booked me a $700 spa excursion @ the Four Seasons. I accidentally charged my $150 meal to his cc and not mine (he used his cc to book my spot and they assumed my charges would go to the one on file) and he was so cool about it, he actually was surprised my food charges were “so cheap” lol I was at the spa from 2-9pm, and had the best mani/pedi, facial I’ve ever had…. We have the best chemistry EVER, plus he will be my golf instructor and second investor in my LLC ( former pot gave me $5k to solidify my companies branding materials😁)

I wore a black dress, BCBG pumps black stockings, a Calvin Klein Wool Coat, Gucci frames and my Gucci Bag—my hair looked surprisingly good considering the curls were done over a week ago .

[nysugarrrr]

So I had my first surgery today

I had contoured smart lipo of my upper and lower abdomen as well as my waist. I have a high threshold for pain so I thought this was going to be a walk in the park but let me tell you it was not! The part that was unbearable for me was when the doctor was injecting the lidocaine into my stomach. It literally felt like I was being stabbed to death but everything after that was fine. The nurse told me it was going to feel like I did a million crunches post surgery but I still had to take an oxy on my car ride home for the pain but I took a nap when I got home and now I feel a lot better.

Now can I just take a moment to tell you how damn FINE my plastic surgeon was omg 😍😍😍😍😍😍. It’s so hard to turn my sugar slut off because I was flirting hard. He said he’s going to call me later to see how I’m doing and I’m already plotting on a way of asking him to mentor me 😏

[milansb]

Ahhhhh more deets please, I'm have this on upper and lower abdomen, inner thighs and arms...I'm a nervous wreck😖

[chizohfro]

When the function is over but the DJ still playing music. “2 legited 2 quited”

[tsunamiwavesurfing]

it lit!