https://www.tumblr.com/mintanon/821988328940453888/he-gives-10th-house-in-cancer-to-me
The 10 house— career and public image
Cancer in the 10th house pour their heart and soul into their career and their public image. They are seen as nurturers in all capacities. They bring their emotions into their career, making their work life feel like home.
Subconsciously, they might look for approval or care from the world/authority figures.
The downside? They take on too much to help others, leaving too little for themselves. They have to learn balance when leading with emotions.
They base their self-worth on their achievements and social standing.
People with Cancer in the 10th house have acendant in Libra. I don't think he has these placements, but it makes me wonder if he has any cancer placements.
He was looking for deep connections, going above and beyond for others, all his acquaintances have only nice things to say about him, and he sought approval from his grifter daddies, maybe that's why anon made this assumption.