How Do You Solve a Problem Like Dhaaruni?

[dhaaruni]

Least misogynistic left-wing man

[aumonique]

[dhaaruni]

The level of secondhand embarrassment on reading this

[dhaaruni]

https://youtu.be/xn7T4Hx4vzE?si=tuU7bV21ptBo9p1C

being mean to men or treating individual men poorly is such a cop-out when it comes to actually addressing patriarchy and the way we as women actively contribute to it in our own lives!! for the last year i've really been reflecting on that heavy, and its made me feel more comfortable to actually start dating healthily and accept when things don't work out instead of keeping my old 'men ain't shit' mindset that clearly wasn't doing anything positive for me.

That’s good for you but given that I’m happily married in spite of my lack of niceness about men, I’m not changing my mentality 👍

[dhaaruni]

Same energy

[dhaaruni]

I honestly think that the weird SF "ethical altruism" sexual market value shit punches way above its numbers online, even among people who aren't a part of that cohort, because why are married mothers publicly declaring that they’re sexually attracted to all their male friends 😭😭😭.

And, I’ve heard it’s taken over TikTok too. Dylan’s brother is 20 and aside from the fact his cohort thinks Trump is cool and Dems ruined their lives with Covid lockdowns, apparently that age group is now fixated on quantifying sex and love and dating and it’s like, oh no.

[dhaaruni]

[dhaaruni]

but what do you think of the explanation as to why Dworkin’s Zionism is inextricable from the rest of her politics? Ik you disagree but what do you think of their arguments

I’m not bothering to think about that, sorry but I genuinely do not care

[furryprovocateur]

"the early 2010s were better" no they weren't. "hey soul sister" was on the radio.

[hyumjim]

stereo. The way you move ain’t fair you know.

[dhaaruni]

thoughts?

https://www.tumblr.com/txttletale/817692099499687936/are-women-weak-jews-spectre-journal?source=share

Absolutely not.

“Are Women Weak Jews?” – Spectre Journal

Sophie Lewis looks back on Scapegoat to reassess the Andrea Dworkin's legacy, concluding that the current Dworkin revival is a "terrible ide

[dhaaruni]

Do men ... admire guys like Graham Platner?

My husband and dad, male Democratic primary voters, both think Platner is a loser and a scumbag.

[dhaaruni]

I'm actually both for my husband, hence why he married me 😌

[stitchblades]

jenny holzer, SURVIVAL (1983-85)

[visenyaism]

the best part about the cw’s gossip girl (2007-2012) has to be the way that the only thing Nate Archibald is ever doing is damn near perpetually getting betrayed by beautiful yet duplicitous women and every time this happens he internalizes absolutely nothing from it.

[visenyaism]

kind of a miracle he never becomes a misogynist given that the only women he ever meets are trying to trick him out of his vast fortune or Vanderbilt connections tbh

[dhaaruni]

Low-Conscientiousness Losers Are Bad Senate Candidates

John Fetterman and Graham Platner both flailed into adulthood, living off their affluent parents while not amounting to much. Why have lefti

Lots of ordinary Americans are conscientious: they honor their marital commitments, they work for a living, they don’t go on Kik if they’re over the age of 25. Even when they fail at some of these things (likelier the first two than the third), they understand that it is good and aspirational to succeed at them. And I hope at least some ordinary Americans still subscribe to the idea that our leaders should be extraordinary: a member of Congress should be better, on most measures, than the people he or she represents. I can’t be the only person who’s still interested in bourgeois virtues.

[phantomrose96]

After 13 years of this, it's still funny to me that detailing a full mental breakdown on tumblr is standard fare, but posting a nice selfie is a fraught decision.

[loki-zen]

this is the correct way around and every other social media site is wrong

[music-in-my-veins14]

[cruzfucker]