I spent the weekend visiting Ingeborg (Audrey) and her boyfriend, Njål, in Oslo! Scandinavia has been on my to-do for such a long time, so I was excited to finally delve into that part of the continent. Lauren had been to Finland the week before, so I had high expectations for the air quality, views, and chocolate I’d be consuming. I was not disappointed.
A little bit of background:
Both Ingeborg and  Njål are from the northern parts of Norway and moved to Oslo together to continue their education—Ingeborg is currently preparing for Med School, while Njål pursues a stint with the Armed Forces. Considering he has signed a confidentiality agreement, I know little to nothing about his job, but “sorry, it’s classified” did become a running joke throughout the weekend for we couldn’t speak to each other about anything work-related, considering both of us are bound by classified clearances. (He did know an uncomfortable amount about the US Embassy however)
They live together in an apartment in Grünerløkka, one of the 15 boroughs that constitute the city. I was instantly surprised by the difference in lifestyle; both are only 20 (Njål had actually turned 20 that day), and already run a household together in a foreign city away from their parents. This sort of independence is not uncommon in Norwegian culture, for universities don’t have enough housing. As such, couples will often move in together after high school.
It was honestly really wonderful to get to see Ingeborg in her element; she’s grown up so much in two short years and I’m so proud of her.
What a weekend we had. I arrived Friday evening and Ingeborg greeted me at the airport; we took the train and bus back into town and headed to their cozy flat, where Ingeborg proceeded to cook the most elaborate meal I’ve seen for Njål’s birthday. The conversation never stopped—I seriously adore the European way with teenagers. We talked religion, history, and politics for hours on end, and I learned so much in only one night. And this beautiful conversation continued throughout the entire weekend. I love that young adults, and people of all ages, really, use alcohol as a means of opening up an academic conversation, rather than using alcohol to get hammered, or party insanely. What I would do to bring back this aspect of European culture with me!
Saturday was so incredibly busy, and yet, so very fulfilling. After a lovely breakfast (during which I discovered both egg and cheese slicers—Norwegian kitchen appliances are so handy!), we headed into the city. Much to our chagrin, it was raining hard. Not just a drizzle; the streets were actually flooding. Ingeborg herself was baffled—in all the time she’d logged in the city, she’d never seen anything like it.
We persevered though, and spent our morning museum hopping—we started out at the Kon-Tiki Museum, which chronicled the adventures of Thor Heyerdahl and his crew as they traveled from South American to the Polynesian Islands on a raft and succeeded. From there, we walked along the ocean and then through a very high-end area to the Holocaust Museum. I’ve studied the Holocaust extensively, but never from the Norwegian perspective, so was able to learn about it from a different perspective. Back in the city, we walked along the main street and the Castle, had lunch at Joe and the Juice, and then headed over to the 22nd of July Memorial. It was honestly heartbreaking. I was also upset by the fact that barely anyone my age is aware of this; we never study it in our history classes back home, and I remember only vaguely seeing the traumatizing events on the news five years ago. It also added clout to my growing awareness that other teenagers and young adults are much more informed of America than vice versa (as I’d noted the night before when Njål asked if Matthew Barzun was our ambassador—who has that type of knowledge?!)
In the evening, we headed up to Holmenkollen, home to the ski jump which was hosted so many world championships as well as the 1952 Winter Olympics. The train ride up the mountain opened up some lovely views of the valley, and the three of us bantered and told amusing stories about ourselves and our friends to pass the time. The view from up there was astounding—not only could I see the entire city of Oslo, but also the waters and fjords beyond. There are no words, so here are some pictures:
From there, we headed to Aker Brygge and walked along the pier, ate some delicious waffles, and climbed up to the fortress, from which we had a great view of the Swedish concert happening on the banks.Â
We checked out some artificial island complexes and the fjords, stopped by one of the most famous candy shops, and then went to dinner at Mucho Mas, which is both of their favorite Mexican restaurants. I literally inhaled my burrito in minutes—it smelled and tasted incredible.
It was quite late by this point, so we sauntered home, convinced that we’d be able to watch two historical movies on Norway; once we found that neither was available with English subtitles, we reverted to Friends with Benefits. Even with our sugar stashes from the store, we were all asleep within 30 minutes.
The next morning, Ingeborg and I went over to the opera house on the banks—it was an architectural feat, built to resemble an ice berg in the ocean. We appreciated the view for a bit before we headed back to the Central Station so I could board the bus to the airport.
It was a wonderful, albeit short, visit to Oslo, and it was so lovely to spend some quality time with a dear friend after so long. During our short time, we’d already made several plans for when we visited each other again—and hopefully that will happen, so I can see the real fjords up North as well as experience Northern Lights in the winter. What a sight that would be.