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Forceful sex 😩 obvi in a consenting manner. But damn. As much as you say no or stop, you really be wanting so much more. Like use me. Make me cum, as much as I squirm and try to run off the grip you just hold on and keep doing what you’re doing, seems like I really don’t wanna cum but I’m getting soo weak from the touches, the licking, the deep ass strokes, that feel like you’re tearing my insides apart.

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Flirt with your girl even after you made her your girl.

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Important.

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😫😝😫

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“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”

— Alexander Graham Bell (via amargedom)

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“I know.. That in me who I am is missing.”

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Jacquemus s/s 2021

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Follow me 💖

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“Change your thoughts and you change your world.”

— Norman Vincent Peale (via amargedom)

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piece of advice from an old tumblr person: if you are a woman and you are dating a man, do not settle down with, cohabitate with, or marry a man who needs you to do basic things to take care of him. like, if he can’t cook food for himself, go shopping, do laundry, clean a house, keep his own calendar, make his own doctors’ appointments, fill out his own forms, do his own taxes, etc. you are setting yourself up for a relationship full of you caring for another adult like a child.

partners help EACH OTHER. sometimes people have very valid reasons they can’t do those things, but they should also help YOU with things that are hard for you and easy for them, whether it’s basic emotional support, chores, paperwork, making phone calls, etc. if they say they ‘don’t know how’ to do something and expect you to do it instead of learning how to do it, they are not worth your time.

if your male partner’s parents did not prepare him to take care of himself, do not become his second mother. find a partner who can take care of you as much as you take care of him, and can take care of himself as well as you take care of yourself.

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and if that means being single forever, get yourself a cat and lean in, because being a grown-ass man’s second momma is a bitch and a half. I’m married to a fairly fucking aware feminist-identified man and he still can’t take care of himself for shit and it is the one major source of tension in our marriage and it has led to so much tension now that I’m in med school that I have repeatedly seriously contemplated divorce. It’s not a small issue, it’s not trivial. You are a PERSON, not an endlessly nurturing selfless machine. You deserve to have your own story, not be picking up socks in someone else’s.

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This right here!! I see so many women in my family who do EVERYTHING for the men they married and treat them like kids…honestly, the only thing they don’t do is bathe them. But seeing this my whole life it always made me feel bad and sad for them cause it’s not right. None of the amazing women in my family deserve this! So I promised myself (literally made this promise when I was a child) to never EVER marry a man like that! I literally don’t care, if I don’t find a man who knows how to take care of himself (and me obviously) I’m gonna be single forever with my wealth and 4 cats 😂

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I hope dark skinned women, especially the ones who are having trouble loving themselves, have an amazing day today.

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What are some ways that women can build up their femininity or sensuality? Would you suggest taking pole dancing classes or anything that makes you feel sexy or is that too unladylike?

Feminine sensuality

Sensuality is not the same as sexuality although it can help with that. Sensuality is when you are in touch with your senses and appealing to each and every sense: Do you not only look put together but you also smell good? Does your voice sound clear and are you articulate with your words? Do you walk gracefully?

Being ladylike is the same thing as being classy but the feminine gender norm version of it. That does not mean you don’t have a sense of humor or that you can’t like/ participate in sex it simply means that you are more conservative about it and nurture the fact that there is a time and place for everything. That in mind, pole dance classes are fine because it is formal and in a professional setting, dancing on randos at the club, or twerking in public would be the “unladylike”. Pole dance is an art that will help you gain more control of your body.

General ways to become more sensual:

Physical activity such as dance or yoga

Self care rituals: take a bubble bath while listening to music and drinking wine or tea etc.

Be a flirt and stop being scared

Become more touchy-feely in your relationships (of all kinds)

Wear perfume

Learn about spirituality. Not necessarily the ambiguous new age stuff but learn about theology and develop some level of spirituality if you feel connected to any religion or beliefs