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GIVE AWAY TIME!

We’re offering one person the chance to win a handmade BDSM toy from Impact-Toys.com

The give away runs until Friday 13th June, we will pick the winner that weekend.

The winner will receive one of the following:

2 foot snake whip OR

Medium leather/suede flogger OR

Medium dragon tail/tongue

The winner will get to pick their choice of toy and have it made in their preferred colours (subject to availability).

Second place will get a 20% discount code

Third place will get a 10% discount code

This give away is open to anyone, anywhere in the world.

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You must be following us on Tumblr or Twitter

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The more you re-blog/re-tweet and the more you share our other posts, the better chance you have.

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cdndom

In order to celebrate the opening of my very own Etsy shop, Canadian Kink, I have decided to hold another contest. This will be another reblog contest, where you must follow my blog, cdndom, and reblog this post for an entry. There is no limit on the number of entries, but only reblogs count as an entry, not likes, so feel free to use likes as a bookmark of sorts if you want.

The first prize in this contest will be $100 towards a custom, handmade leather flogger from my Etsy store Canadian Kink. This will get you the color(or colors) of your choice, the handle design you want, and even perhaps an attachment if you would like. The custom flogger will be shipped to US or Canada once completed to the winners desire.

The second place winner will get a selection of kinky toys, as well as a 50% off code for the shop.

Third place will get a selection of kinky toys and a free shipping coupon for the shop.

This contest will run from February 1st at 12:01 AM CST until March 31st at 11:59 PM CST. I am not responsible for anything you do if you win a prize, and the picture included in this post is just a sample of a few of the floggers I have made as an example, yours will likely look very different.

Live long and stay Kinky!

poshsugar

My date tonight with Handsome was great!!!!He picked me up and we got into it because i picked a fancy restaurant and he showed up looking casual but tasteful. i was in a very nice black sleeveless long pant-legged romper and i loveddddd how it looked. i loved the heels i was wearing but was trying sooooo hard the entire night not to fall on my ass. i wish i had an iphone because my phone doesn’t do the fit justice. we talked and i was very flirty this date. EVery sexual with my jokes and he was turning bright RED! ahaha an example is when i was ordering my food and the waiter was standing close and we were having a conversation as though he wasn’t there. I looked at him and asked “what would you like to eat?” and he answered “ well, i’ll have to take a look at the menu, what about you?” and i responded “what i want isn’t on the menu.” HA! the waiter looked at me and started blushing! Handsome just gaped at me and GULPED his beer down, with his skin turning bright red. He blushes easily. i enjoyed my night and i have plans on how this Vanilla will spoil me without it seeming as if i am after him for his money. After the date was over he drove me back to my apartment and we talked a little bit about the night and how he wanted to take me back home but he respected me too much to allow me to come back with him only on our second date. i provoked him so many times , but he never broke, he honestly wants to wait. which i can understand. we ended the night with a kiss. and here i am typing about it. i really can’t wait til i get the gifts i’d like. manipulation takes time, ladies. if you do it the right way he’lll be eating out of your hand without you giving it up. it’s not the idea of sex that keeps a man interested it the possibility. I followed all of the rules in the book and he really is into me, now it’s allllll about where we go from here.

have a great night ladies! Happy Sugaring!!!

shel666y

SERIOUSLY WHERE IS MY SUGAR DADDY AT I NEED U!!!! I WANNA GO SHOPPING!!!!!!!!!

poshsugar

This motherfucker tried it. This is the SD who wanted a spoiled girlfriend but in reality he just wanted someone to fuck. He always brought up sex. RED FLAG!! In our potential meeting he called us hookers and escorts and i quickly gave him bajan girl REALNESS. He quickly apologized, said that not all of us are but there are actual escorts on that site. ANOTHER RED FLAG LADIES!!! i would expresss to him that i did not like that he talked of sex like that with me and he said he would stop, he didn’t. Whenever he did it , i would tell him i wanted to go shopping. He’s a rich sleazy fucker, i hate men like this! This is thr conversation i literally just had.

HE THOUGHT JUST BECAUSE I AM YOUNG I WOULD BE DESPERATE, THIS SALTY ASS MOTHERFUCKER HAD ANOTHER THING COMING. 😒

STAY TRUE TO YOU LADIES!!!! DON’T EVER COMPROMISE YOURSELF FOR EMPTY PROMISES AND SPOILED GOODS!!!

Keep your standards high, any guy worth talking to will ALWAYS make you priority and rise to meet them!!!

thesugarsirenx

Before/During your first date with a new POT!

I have compiled a list of things that I do before and during a POT date! This is just stuff that pumps me up and gets me in the mood. At the end of the day, blessed by the sugar God’s or not, you’ll feel and look bomb as fuck! DISCLAIMER: This is how I do things, you may not like some of the suggestions I have. Thats fine! Just skip them or build off and make your own! We are all unique women and that makes us beautiful. Amen. If you have anything to add message me and I’ll put it in! Yay community effort :)

Workout for at least 40 min: By getting that heart rate pumping and sweating a bit you’ll be able to calm those jitters!

Take a hot shower: Pop in the shower and crack open your favorite shampoo or body wash. Take some time to shave and really scrub and exfoliate your now tired body.

Get done up!: Sit down, paint those nails, blow dry your hair, style it, use product. You don’t need to spend 50 bucks every week for a manicure and blow out! Save that money and TREAT YO SELF! By treating yourself like a million bucks you will feel and look like a million bucks.

Listen to some pump up music during all this: I LOVE to blast some hiphop when I’m getting ready especially Nicki Minaj. She just puts me in a “Bad Girl/Get Money” mood. Whatever makes you feel pumped and hot, play it!

I go easy on the makeup. Natural is always easy and neutral! When I layer on the eyeliner and brows I look more like I’m going to the club than to a fancy dinner. If you go it natural the first few times your POT can make comments on if he likes more or less makeup on a woman and I can go from there. SIDE NOTE: Don’t wear anything heavily scented. If your POT is married his wife will smell it when he gets home. Don’t set him up for failure at home because that can derail the sugar train.

Steam your clothes while you took that shower! By having nice wrinkle free clothing you’ll look fresh and classy.

Strap on those heels. Rock that handbag and GET IN YO CAR WE GOIN ON A DATE

Ok so now you’re on your way to your POT date! So exciting and you’re FILLED with jitters! No worries because The Sugar Siren is here to help you babe! Again this is how I work. Others may do things differently but this is how I find the most success.

I ALWAYS PICK THE RESTAURANT. I look at 3 things when I pick a restaurant. Local, Luxury and Leave. Is the place local enough to me, always within 15min from my house so that if he is a no show I wouldn’t have driven all that far. Is this place luxurious? Is it a place that reflects my class and self worth? Applebee’s and the Olive Garden or a Coffee shop is now who I am. I am a classy well educated woman that deserves the best things in life. If he says no to an upscale (does not have to be 5 star $100 per plate food) place then I know he is salty and not willing to pay as much as he says he makes. Third is leave. If i don’t feel safe is there a way that I can get out of there safely? I park my car right out front of the doors, if I’m scared I ask the host or hostess to walk me to my car. This may sound silly but it happens more often than you think. If the little voice in your head is saying “This guy is dangerous” then get out of there. Your life is not worth whatever allowance he is willing to give you.

After you have picked the restaurant make sure you have ALL his information. Real name, work, photos, linkedin and so on. I like to keep a file on every man that i meet in person so that if something were to ever happen to me all the information is compiled in one spot. I keep such a document on my phone, laptop, email and a flash drive in my apartment just in case. In sex work you can never be too careful. ~Now to the fun stuff~

Get there early! I like to show up 15min early so that I can scout out the perfect seat and leave my name with the host or hostess. I look for somewhere private but where my server can see me in case things go sour. I show up early so that I can ensure that I am in control of the situation. Keep singing Itty Bitty Piggy in your head on repeat.

Once your server arrives just ask for two waters and that he/she can return once your partner has arrived.

Once your POT does arrive make eyes with him from across the room, get up out of your seat and hug him!!! Be warm and friendly! He is probably just as nervous as you are! Confidence shines on a woman’s face and if you act like you are having the time of your life and it comes naturally you will put Mr. POT at ease.

Enjoy enjoy enjoy!!! Listen to him! Talk with him! Share mutual experiences in the sugar world and just have fun!

Limit yourself to 2 drinks. No one likes a sloppy gal but liquid courage is a must. In between sips of alcohol take a sip of water to slow yourself down.

REMEMBER! Never ever ever bring up an allowance on the first date UNLESS he brings it up first. He is testing the waters and wants to see what you’re like! This is your time to impress him and show off that you’re the best girl around. Let him come to you about an allowance on the first date. If he doesn’t bring it up after the first date then you may bring it up if he still shows interest in you and wants to meet again.

Now its time to leave! If you feel comfortable have him walk you to your car and give him a peck goodbye! Hopefully you got some cash or a gift on top of it! If not you got a free meal and a chat! Make sure when you get home to tell him how much fun you had and hopefully he is interested in an arrangement.

Final note: money and gifts never = sex. Don’t ever let a man finagle his way into convincing you that his kind gesture means he should get sex back in return. Just like any normal relationship you choose when you want to have sex with someone. If the POT wants to have sex on the first date tell him to hire an escort. You are the only on in control of your body lovely. xoxo

hongkong-sugar-deactivated20150

I normally censor details, but seriously girls if this guy contacts you it’s a waste of time drop him like he’s a dog turd. Lol and check out the contrast between the beginning and end. Lol you seemed interested until I didn’t fall for that prostitution ‘insult’.

sciencesugar-blog

Be a frugal Sugarbaby!

When you’re earning an income much larger than you originally had, it’s easy to make a lot of unneccesary splurges. It’s important though to remember that almost all arrangements eventually end, and be a good steward of the allowance(s) you’ve been given.

1. Pay off all debts. This seems like a no-brainer, but it’s easy to make that extra spulrge instead of putting the money towards previous debts. Instead only spulrge a little after every large chunk of debt you pay off!

2. Stay away from overpriced goods. You didn’t need them before and you don’t need them now! Unless your SD is directly paying for it, stay away.

3. Invest, invest, invest. Put money away towards larger goals like buying a home or open a Roth IRA. Maybe start buying stocks and bonds.

4. Don’t get greedy. Donate money! What goes around comes around. Keep the good karma flowing.

brownsugarbabyy-blog

POT: I’m not a personal ATM

Me: Shit you better not be ATMs have a $600 withdrawal limit

muscovado-sugar

PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST

Sugarbabies, I don’t care if the man is offering you $100k…DO NOT MEET HIM FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HIS HOME!

DO NOT MEET HIM FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HIS HOME!

helenhoneybee-deactivated201507

Sugar Baby Safety TIPS!! (Any sex worker really) KEEP RECORDS! THIS COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE!

A previous post about a rape that happened in the sugar baby community had me seriously thinking. if anything happens to you and you need proof and history of your meetings and accounts with who you meet. You have to keep detailed track of it AND save it in a safe place.

1. KEEP RECORDS. Take screenshots of all conversations, profile and make sure you do not delete email conversations…ever. Write down the ip address of his email. (http://aruljohn.com/info/howtofindipaddress/). Save pictures. I mean, any piece of information you have connecting yourself to this person. if you are on a date, you can take photos of yourself, or take a quick pic of his license plate or write it down and email these things to yourself or a person you trust during the date.

2. ORGANIZE IT and make each person easy and quick to find.

3. Save your appointments. WRITE THEM DOWN IN PHONE OR DATEBOOK. (you should really do this anyway because you want to be organized).

4. But here’s the important part…BACK IT UP. ALL OF IT! Get an external hard drive (your computer can crash anytime, i learned the hard way). Or you can go old fashioned if you are really scared of being hacked and write it on note cards. I actually use note cards for business cards so if i get one, i paper clip it to the note-card, write his name, attach a pic if i can print one because im a visual person, You can write their email and address, phone numbers and ip addresses there too. I keep both types of records.

It seems lot of work, but your safety is the most important thing. Period.

5. When going out, you need someone you can trust to be your safety net if you ever get in a serious situation and you need immediate help. This is why i think its best to keep records on the computer as well. Before a date, email your safety net. the folder with your dates name and all his information. Make up a code word that you will never ever use unless its an immediate situation where your life is in danger. And make sure its inconspicuous, something you can fit into a one or two word sentence, short, quick, easy. And let her know if you ever text it or say it to her, to immediately call the cops and give them the information. dont worry about texting anything else in that first message because the faster people know you are in trouble, the faster they can help you. After you send it though, send any other information you can. Write where you think you are. send it. take a selfie if you can, with him in it or even of yourself. anything. its proof and it could have something helpful in finding you. send it.

Unless you see an opportunity to get the fuck out of there, just keep calm and keep texting your safety net information and the help word. And let them know exactly what to do. Seriously, do not fuck around with this. I know people might think im excessive or paranoid, but this shit really does happen to girls. Rape, missing or dead. Stay smart and safe.

PS. If you really dont have a saftey net at all, i will be yours. Ive had someone from states away call for me once and the police were there in less than 5 minutes. Send me an email. [email protected]. Let me know.

thesugarsirenx

Boom boom boom hayyy loving this screen shot. Prolly just gunna buy a lot of British candies hehehe love Amazon

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vivalerose

If you ever think you're having a bad date...

Just remember this:

I once went back to a guys house after a date. Told him nothing would happen because I was on my period. Went to use the toilet in the middle of the night…

Sneezed and managed to get blood all over his cream rug. Panicked, put the rug in my handbag and ran out of his house.

catalystlatex

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ragnalek

This, is Ragnalek and xRoninx ‘s Halo themed wedding.We kept the decor subtle, halo cufflinks for the groom, our rings were custom made to have similar rings to the halo rings, (brides 3 diamonds, grooms 4 diamonds 3+4=7 as per bungies favorite number) had custom made flasks with UNSC logos for groomsmen and spartan logo for groom, halo set up and ready to go during the entire wedding, master chief and Cortana cake toppers along with and energy sword for our cake cutter, xbox bottons for shirt buttons and lastly spartan armor for the groom and custom made latex suit for bride. (latex suit made by collectivechaos) This, was my wedding, this was the day I married the man of my dreams. My own Sangheli to protect me and love me as I love him with every fiber of my being.

kassandraphoto

So I get back home from shooting Pt1 of my Poison Ivy set for you guys …. and came to find my community cutting down the tree in our courtyard. ITS FUCKING EARTH DAY PEOPLE! GOD!

See the full strip set at: http://gkgd.es/s/37

Buy Prints & Posters at: http://geekgoddess.storenvy.com/

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