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OTH LADIES APPRECIATION WEEK day four: ā„ favourite quote(s): Life kicks you around sometimes. It scares you and it beats you up, but thereās a day when you realize that youāre not just a survivor, youāre a warrior. Youāre tougher than anything it throws your way.
One Tree Hill 9.13Ā | Premiered April 4, 2012
Itās the oldest story in the world. One day youāre 17 and planning for someday. And then quietly and without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And then someday is yesterday. And this is your life.
ONE TREE HILL LADIES APPRECIATION WEEK 2021Ā ā”Ā DAY 1:Ā favorite female character.
āweāre not each others competitions weāre each otherās greatest champions.ā
I am 22 years old, and I have made more money than I could ever hope to spend, and I have never felt more alone in my life.Ā āØ One Tree Hill 5.12: Hundred
itās called growth babes look it up
one (tree hill) scene per episodeĀ | 1.01Ā āPilotā
Me when I see hot lesbian couples scenes in Tv shows.
Me when I see any womxn ever
Iām that girlfriend that stares at you and smiles all the time even when you arenāt looking because Iām so obsessed with you
Kara DanversĀ + being a dumb jockĀ nerdy genius
katie mcgrath + 2020 year in review
feat. my fav episode of s5 (event horizon)
āAll it takes is you and me, and a songā
EMMA & ALYSSA in THE PROM (2020)
Dani & Jamie + kissing scenes that make me go insaneĀ
Ā THE HAUNTING OF BLY MANOR
A lot of people ask me what my biggest fear is, or what scares me most. And I know they expect an answer like heights, or closed spaces, or people dressed like animals, but how do I tell them that when I was 17 I took a class called Relationships For Life and I learned that most people fall out of love for the same reasons they fell in it. That their loverās once endearing stubbornness has now become refusal to compromise and their one track mind is now immaturity and their bad habits that you once adored is now money down the drain. Their spontaneity becomes reckless and irresponsible and their feet up on your dash is no longer sexy, just another distraction in your busy life. Nothing saddens and scares me like the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought all the stars were in my eyes.
this fucks me up every single time
I never expected this to be my most popular poem out of the hundreds Iāve written. I was extremely bitter and sad when I wrote this and I left out the most beautiful part of that class.
After my teacher introduced us to this theory, she asked us, āis love a feeling? Or is it a choice?ā We were all a bunch of teenagers. Naturally we said it was a feeling. She said that if we clung to that belief, weād never have a lasting relationship of any sort.
She made us interview a dozen adults who were or had been married and we asked them about their marriages and why it lasted or why it failed. At the end, I asked every single person if love was an emotion or a choice.
Everybody said that it was a choice. It was a conscious commitment. It was something you choose to make work every day with a person who has chosen the same thing. They all said that at one point in their marriage, the āfeeling of loveā had vanished or faded and they werenāt happy. They said feelings are always changing and you cannot build something that will last on such a shaky foundation.
The married ones said that when things were bad, they chose to open the communication, chose to identify what broke and how to fix it, and chose to recreate something worth falling in love with.
The divorced ones said they chose to walk away.
Ever since that class, since that project, I never looked at relationships the same way. I understood why arranged marriages were successful. I discovered the difference in feelings and commitments. Iāve never gone for the person who makes my heart flutter or my head spin. Iāve chosen the people who were committed to choosing me, dedicated to finding something to adore even on the ugliest days.
I no longer fear the day someone who swore I was their universe can no longer see the stars in my eyes as long as they still choose to look until they find them again.
This is so fucking important and I think itās something I needed right now
This. Is. So. Important.
Easily the best thing Iāve ever read on tumblr
because I needed to see this today
āIn my head I know Iāve been in love before, but it doesnāt feel like it. Being in love with you is better than the first time. It feels like the first time and the last time and the only time all at once.ā
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āFinish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.ā
ā Ralph Waldo Emerson
