Mister Small

I’m a digital product designer working in London. These are my thoughts, notes, and highlights on the media I consume. twitter · website · archive

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The danger of the male glance is that it is reasonable. It’s not always or necessarily incorrect. But it is dangerous because it looks and thinks it reads.

http://www.vqronline.org/essays-articles/2018/03/male-glance

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Opinion | The Boys Are Not All Right

What do America’s mass shootings have in common? Guns, yes. But also, boys.

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What I love about Gardner and Barry is that they believe that the tools you use do matter, but the point, for them, is finding the proper tools that get you to a certain way of working in which you can get your conscious, mechanical mind out of the way so that your dreaming can go on, undeterred.

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How to Beat Perfectionism, Make Progress, and Find Happiness

Most people think of philosophy as a system of ethics or an explanation of the purpose of life, so they miss its most practical aspects…

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This pain you are feeling is not a pathology. It’s not crazy. It is a signal that your natural psychological needs are not being met. It is a form of grief – for yourself, and for the culture you live in going so wrong. I know how much it hurts. I know how deeply it cuts you. But you need to listen to this signal. We all need to listen to the people around us sending out this signal. It is telling you what is going wrong. It is telling you that you need to be connected in so many deep and stirring ways that you aren’t yet – but you can be, one day.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/jan/07/is-everything-you-think-you-know-about-depression-wrong-johann-hari-lost-connections

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Humans have an innate need to feel that what we are doing, day-to-day, is meaningful. When you are controlled, you can’t create meaning out of your work.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/jan/07/is-everything-you-think-you-know-about-depression-wrong-johann-hari-lost-connections

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“Rather than offering Americans a way to build wealth, cities are becoming concentrations of people who already have it.”

http://highline.huffingtonpost.com/articles/en/poor-millennials/

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The crisis in mature masculinity is very much upon us. Lacking adequate models of mature men, and lacking the societal cohesion and institutional structures for actualizing ritual process, it’s “every man for himself.” And most of us fall by the wayside, with no idea what it was that was the goal of our gender-drive or what went wrong in our strivings. We just know we are anxious, on the verge of feeling impotent, helpless, frustrated, put down, unloved and unappreciated, often ashamed of being masculine. We just know that our creativity was attacked, that our initiative was met with hostility, that we were ignored, belittled, and left holding the empty bag of our lost self-esteem. We cave in to a dog-eat-dog world, trying to keep our work and our relationships afloat, losing energy, or missing the mark. Many of us seek the generative, affirming, and empowering father (though most of us don’t know it), the father who, for most of us, never existed in our actual lives and won’t appear, no matter how hard we try to make him appear.

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore, Doug Gillette

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#038 Revolution In The Age Of Anger (with Pankaj Mishra)

Historian and novelist Pankaj Mishra joins me to talk about what he calls the ‘age of anger’ - a global pandemic of rage - and how the pursuit of progress and individualism has created a demoralised world.

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Rousseau shows us that there is a way to break the chains – from within | Anne Deneys-Tunney

Anne Deneys-Tunney: Through the concept of the 'general will', Rousseau believed that the alienation of man could transform itself into freedom

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He believes that, because culture is becoming more interconnected across geography and across disciplines, his knowledge must expand far beyond the visual arts: to technology, literature, anthropology, cultural criticism, philosophy. These disciplines, in turn, become tools in Obrist’s attempt to fertilize the arts with fresh ideas.

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2014/12/08/art-conversation

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His vision for the art of the twenty-first century includes the creation of a sort of a factory, which will produce ideas and projects, bringing together all forms of artistic expression, science and modern thought.

https://medium.com/@yorgoskarouzakis/hans-ulrich-orbist-visionaire-and-fl%C3%A2neur-5b55ad91813d

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“Women are calling for their pain to be recognized. Many men are quite willing to offer this recognition; it means they don’t have to talk about who they are, which means they don’t have to think about what they are. Much easier to retreat, into ever more shocked and prurient silence, or into the sort of reflection that seems less intended as honesty, and more aimed to please.”

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/25/opinion/sunday/harassment-men-libido-masculinity.html

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“I learned that you can fail at what you don’t love, so you might as well do what you love. There’s really no choice to be made.”

Jim Carrey