ON DEALING WITH BACKSTABBERS
When I was in my 20s, I would do anything just to prove everyone wrong.
Lalo na pag may sinabi silang hindi totoo tungkol sakin…
Papatunayan ko talaga na mali sila!
But now that I’m in my 30s, hindi ko na yun ginagawa.
👉 If someone tells you something untrue about me and you passed judgement without discerning or without asking me directly, GO! Maniwala ka na lang. You’ll be doing me a favor that way.
👉 If someone tells you something true and unpleasant behind my back, then ok. Whatever I do, someone will judge me. Judge all you want kung masaya ka jan.
👉 If someone tells you something about me, whether true or not, and you did not pass judgement, and you took the effort to ask me directly about it without accusing or attacking me, then thank you. You are for keeps and I admire you.
GUYS, WHATEVER YOU DO, SOMEONE WILL SAY SOMETHING ABOUT YOU. WALA KA NANG CONTROL DITO!
Don’t waste time on something you can’t control anymore. Remember: hindi mo kailangan patunayan ang sarili mo for the right people.
…Lalo na sa taong maraming sinasabi sa iba behind their backs. Baka mas dapat mo tong layuan, noh?
And while they’re busy at it, magpakabusy ka rin!
Be busy minding your own business. Be busy being focused on your own thing.
Habang pinagchichismisan ka nila, enjoy life! Direct your energy into experiences that make you feel loved and accepted — flaws and all.
Life is too short to try to prove yourself to people who can’t be busy with their own lives.
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Protect your mental health at all cost. Madalas mas maige na piliin ang katahimikan kesa entertain yung mga ganyang irrelevant na tao at eksena.
Mental health matters ❤️
