Listening Report: Josh Ramsay - We Should Be Friends
As an assignment for my pleasure and purpose of music class, we were required to listen to a song that was designed for stage or screen, defining it by things like instruments used, rhythm, voice, etc. I chose my favourite artist, Josh Ramsay of Marianas Trench since he wrote a song for a movie called Adventures in Public School. Enjoy!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp_HSiPWTis
The song Iâm choosing is We Should Be Friends by Josh Ramsay, written for the movie Adventures in Public School, which premiered at the 2017 Toronto International Film Festival.. The song was released on YouTube June 8, 2018 through Ramsayâs record label, 604 Records. Itâs an acoustic love song, with barely changed notes throughout the song. Iâm unsure of where it was recorded, or when to say, as the dates in the references have different dates, as well nowhere can I find when Ramsay set out to the studio to record.
I think what stood out to me most, is honestly the acoustic tone to a love song. It begins with a soft strum as if you could be the one doing it, thinking and just zoning out: one of my own big pass times. Itâs as if when you hear it, you can tell heâs smiling and maybe even reminiscing through his own life experiences. In sense of melody, is it okay to say the soft change of octave when he says âyou smile, I donât know what to sayâ with a little giggle that really reminds you of nervous feelings towards a crush?
The slow change from âwords escape me every day we pass each other by. I donât know you, but I would love to meet youâ shows the talent of really creating the feeling of being back in the moment yourself when you see someone that you may want to know more and pursue life with them.
The continuous strum of the guitar, with a slow piano beat in the verse after the first chorus, âweâll get drunk âŠâ shows that a change is about to happen in the song and feeling toward the song, as if the feeling of being fulfilled has finally been justified. âWords wonât fail me every day we spend together now,â showing that the next level of the relationship is formed, and all of a sudden, the music gets faster and intense.
It seems like the triangle comes into play now, or maybe a piano thatâs been synthesized with the âtingâ sounding in the background. Itâs really at this point that the song sticks out to me though, as the verbal texture of it becomes so heavy by describing more in-depth teenager issues like sex and drugs, and how tricky it can get while being in love.
He sings the word love from 2:19-2:35 in the video, and I can feel my heart melt just like if I saw someone I love. Itâs the octave and enrichment he puts into using his voice as his best instrument to really power through it so subtly and beautifully.
âYouâre all I, youâre all, youâre all, youâre all I, youâre all I, youâre all I, youâre all I think about,â shows gratification towards the finale of the song when all instruments are combined into a beautiful strong sensation of not only his voice, but the feeling in your stomach of thinking about your crush and wanting to get to know them even more. The song is something that everyone can relate to as you let your mind ponder to what could be with a potential significant other.
Difference to what we listen to in class:
So far, comparing to screen, we have listened to Doctor Whoâs opening song, as well as Stranger Things. Both these have spooky, out of this world kind of tone to them. Supernatural, if you will. In just these pure instrument-based songs, itâs easy to get a sense of how youâre meant to feel listening to them. Meanwhile, Ramsayâs song allows vocals which really help you connect specifically to certain moments in time and feelings. I feel lyrics always help myself more, because not only do I not enjoy listening to pure instruments, but because it does allow me to sing along and get my emotion out with the song. How can you sing to instrumental? You canât. I feel like thatâs the biggest difference, aside from my song also being a love message and not just something to make you feel a sense of haunting and chilling.
Josh Ramsay is the lead singer of the famous Canadian band, Marianas Trench with Matt Webb (guitar), Mike Ayley (bass), and Ian Casselman (drums). He was born in Vancouver, British Columbia on June 11, 1985. He comes from a musical family, his mother a vocal teacher and his father owning a recording studio, where heâs mentioned in concert how he grew up hanging out there a lot, beginning a music career at age 14.
Life gave Ramsay a curve ball, as teenage years lead to mental health issues, as well as body issues like anorexia, bulimia, vertigo and even stemming into drug abuse, which he talks more about in a YouTube video over a decade ago before performing Lover Dearest; a song he wrote in rehab for heroin addiction.
At age 13, he was capable of playing eight instruments. Heâs a musician, writer, producer, chef in his own YouTube series, Rock and Roll Kitchen, and who knows what else.
His ability to overcome a lot and continue to push through, has led to a Marianas Trench EP, âSay Anythingâ in 2003 to what is now five full length albums by the band, âFix Meâ in 2006 focusing on his teenage life, to the latest, âPhantomsâ in 2019 focusing on relationship issues.
Music in context, how it came to be:
In a behind the scenes (BTS) video, Ramsay tells us why and how this song came to be, stating an old friend called him up:
âJosh Epstein called me and he was thinking of a movie and he had the idea of like would I agree to write a song for the movie? ⊠He sent me a cut of the movie, but it wasnât like the finished edit ⊠It was like a two-and-a-half-hour movie. But I watched it, and I loved it. I wrote the song like about an hour after I saw the movie. I saw that long cut of the movie; I was really into it. I took my dog for a walk in the woods and came back and there was the song.â
It was the first time he got to use his 1935 National Resonator steel guitar he found while touring with his band in Nashville, he says in the BTS. He used it in the studio, and in the music video.
I love this song, and Ramsay, and Marianas Trench, as they have been my favourite band since 2009. As soon as I knew Iâd be able to do a report on a song written for screen, I only thought of this song.
My reactions when I first heard it, really restored my belief that as a fan of Marianas Trench and Ramsayâs writing skills, that he really can create a feeling for any mood.
The fact that itâs my favourite type of music to zone out to and allow me to focus, while still being able to be something that I sing along to every time it comes on is something that I find hard to come by.
When I first listened to it, it made me reminisce on the time when I met my boyfriend for the first time. We met at Canadaâs Wonderland in 2014, we spent the whole day together. Long story short, I messaged him on Facebook a stupid question just to talk to him and in surprise he asked me out. Everything that Ramsay sings about, wanting to be friends/ being flustered while in presence of your crush/ fantasizing about what could be â itâs something so personal for each person to experience, because only one person has the same response and affiliation to the song and the memory that plays when you hear it.
I believe itâs a beautiful song, that I wish more people knew of because of how it really does take you back to that one moment in time when first see the love of your life.
I would definitely recommend this song to anyone in need of a feel-good tune and whoâs not afraid to step into a world of love and curiosity.