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Life hack: Free up mental space by getting rid of easy decisions. Your brain has a limited amount of decision making energy each day. The more you spend it on small things like what to wear, what to eat, when to work out, the less you have for the decisions that actually matter. Create routines. Plan your meals. Wear the same few outfits. Automate what you can
The fewer unnecessary decisions you make, the more mental energy you have for the ones that move your life forward
𝐀 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫, 𝐥𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬:
• 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐮𝐱𝐮𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
• 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐮𝐱𝐮𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
• 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐮𝐱𝐮𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞.
• 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐮𝐱𝐮𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲.
• 𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬.
People say they want it but they don’t believe they want it
They say they deserve it but they don’t believe they deserve it
They say they know they will have it but they don’t believe they will have it
The difference is embodiement. It’s easy to say something with your mouth. It’s different to believe it in your body
I see this all the time. They say one thing but I just stare at them trying to avoid saying “no you really don’t”
But they don’t understand it
They do superficial things that they think align…But alignment isn’t aesthetic. It’s behavioral. You can post the quotes. You can romanticize the vision. You can buy the books
Infact distracting yourself with all these things mostly tells me you don’t want it. You know that the idea of doing something, or even saying you’re going to do something gives you a false dopamine hit? Now your brain is satisfied. Now you won’t really go for it. In actuality the people who believe and know and are - are just doing the thing
If your standards don’t change. If your boundaries don’t change, if your daily habits don’t change… Nothing actually shifted
Superficial alignment looks like the image of the life. Actual alignment looks like the discipline of the life. It’s not what you say you’re becoming. It’s what you consistently tolerate, choose and repeat. That’s where belief lives
When someone truly believes they want it, their actions start rearranging around it. When they truly believe they deserve it, they stop tolerating what contradicts it. When they truly believe they’ll have it, they move with patience instead of panic. Belief shows up in standards. In consistency. In what you walk away from. In what you no longer chase or entertain
A lot of people aren’t confused about what they want. They’re just operating from a self concept that doesn’t match it. And until your identity aligns with your desire, your behavior will keep exposing what you actually believe
Nail appointments, fresh flowers, spa days, champagne, baking, skincare products, silk pajamas, studying at the library, girls day, bubble baths, journaling, expensive perfumes, getting dressed, shopping.
𝓔𝓪𝓽 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓼𝓴𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓪𝓻𝓮
Women shouldn’t overthink. Just remember two priorities:
1. Earn wealth.
2. Make yourself beautiful and exceptional.
We live in the best time to stand out.
The overwhelming majority of people barely read, write poorly, struggle to understand simple instructions, and can’t be bothered to look for information that is widely available.
They stay uneducated, avoid effort, and fear anything that isn’t comfortable.
They victimize themselves, blame others for their own failures, and place the hope of their success on someone else.
They think they’re the center of the universe and get offended easily.
In an environment like this, it’s not hard to stop being mediocre.
If you’re willing to read four good books a year, replace bad music with silence, and show real interest and commitment at work, you’ll already be ahead of most people.
If you also watch films that aren’t on everyone’s radar, exercise regularly, and refuse to consume personal information about other people’s lives, you’ll be ahead of thousands.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about doing what most people refuse to do: learning, working, improving, and taking responsibility.
And in today’s world, that alone makes you rare.
Resources on Manifesting, Dating/Marrying Rich, Etiquette, Finances, and Upgrading Yourself
I’ve been reading like crazy lately, and these are things I think are highly beneficial for the future in these topics. There are PDFs for a lot of the books! I’ve also linked Youtube channels, products to buy if need be, blogs, websites, etc. There are far more resources I have but I don’t wanna share my good secrets lol. This is also enough in one post. I wanna put y’all on. 💞
Manifesting/Goddess Energy:
Jambalaya: The Natural Woman’s Book of Personal Charms and Practical Rituals
Powerful and Feminine: How to Increase Your Magnetic Presence and Attract the Attention You Want
Miss Pravala
Luck Manifestation Video
How to Change Your Frequency to Change Your Reality
Nine Steps to Mastermind Your Life
Road Opener
Five Laws of Feminine Power
Evoke Your Power Course
Dating/Marrying Rich:
The Manhattan Madam’s Secrets to Great Sex
Uncensored Sales Strategies: A Radical New Approach to Selling Your Customers What They Really Want - No Matter What Business You’re In
Lucrative Love: The Insider’s Secrets to Marrying Millions!
The Seduction Mystique
Trophy Man: The Surprising Secrets of Black Women Who Marry Well
Being a Woman: Fulfilling Your Femininity and Finding Love
Simply Irresistible: Unleash Your Inner Siren and Mesmerize Any Man, with Help from the Most Famous-and Infamous-Women in History
The Social Tigress: Dating Advice for Women to Attract Men and Get a Boyfriend!
Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental
Etiquette & Upgrading Yourself:
Finishing Touches: A Guide to Being Poised, Polished, and Beautifully Prepared for Life
Emily Post’s Etiquette, 18th Edition
Debrett’s A-Z of Modern Manners
Debrett’s Guide to Entertaining Etiquette
Bellemocha
Art History Classes
The New Elegant Black Woman
Tonya Leigh
Toastmasters
How to Get the Raise You Deserve
The Happiness Planner
Finances & Business:
Margin of Safety: Risk-Averse Value Investing Strategies for the Thoughtful Investor (don’t sweat about the price, it’s $13 for the Kindle version)
Never Eat Alone, Expanded and Updated: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
Learn Foreign Exchange
Fundrise
Five Year Plan to Upgrade Your Life
Stock Basics
The older I get, the more I come to realize my biggest fear is just living a mediocre life where I am a slave to my anxiety and self doubt. It is so paralyzing and I know it is only I, that can give myself the opportunity to experience more. Nothing matters more than the chances you can give yourself every day to try again.
