baby bloodwolf

mochimochimochii

[0uu0]

i will plant digital flowers in the muddy space where your house used to be

[lozyrosie]

granny and i created her a pokemon team last night so i drew it

[stopgobot-deactivated20130724]

[be-blackstar]

“their chicken is really spicy"  “beware, the injera is spicy” “the water is spicy" 

[unapologeticblackqueen]

“the air was spicy”

[bankuei]

“The staff was very rude”

“The dim sum restaurant didn’t have a menu”

“They gave me chopsticks”

[feministidol-deactivated2016030]

“They asked me to wash my hands before I sat down to eat, something about traditions? I was humiliated”

“The staff didn’t speak English”

[dzlfbk-deactivated20160130]

“The chair was spicy” “The ice was spicy”

[answeringmysister]

“Service was great. Food was great. Couldn’t find parking” - 1 star

[clutch-god]

‘my napkins were only one ply. no free breadsticks”- ½ star

[captainspensaurus-deactivated20]

“the staff was spicy”

[theloneookami]

“The spicy was spicy”

[gymleaderkyle-deactivated201510]

“I was spicy”

[phropecy-deactivated20230517]

“Spicy”

[mochimochimochii]

bbbn

[mochimochimochii]

.

[mochimochimochii]

goddd im 23 and i still get scared my mom is going to start hitting me whenever i have an anxiety attack in front of her

[mayahan]

Adorable Cat-Themed Desserts

[gravegospel]

host your D&D sess’ town on one of these

[mochimochimochii]

can i please bake something in this house without having to ask my mom where some of my things have moved to and then having a nervous breakdown when she gets mad at me for asking

i just want to make something nice for my partner for valentine's day without feeling like shit during the process

[nintendocompositions]

Visit Original Link

Kirby 64: The Crystal Shards | Quiet Forest

[mochimochimochii]

my therapist & i talked a lot about sending boundaries with ppl, and i think i never learned to do that because i wasn't allowed to have boundaries growing up, so i expect them to be violated if i try to set them—but the ppl in my life rn have been really caring & supportive and i need to stop thinking about my needs like they don't matter.

living @ home has been hellish for my mental health, but i feel both grateful + guilty for not feeling grateful enough for my parents letting me stay with them while i try and figure out my life. they're more supportive than they were while i was growing up but idk it's still opening up a lot of old wounds i probably repressed after i left home;; now would probably be a good time to work on healing from the past, because i'm starting to realize how much it controls my life and how it doesn't have to be this way anymore.

[acreaturecalledgreed]

so heres a thing my mother always said to me growing up when i broke something on accident that i think is really important

and i know, from watching my friends and seeing their panic and terror when something broke, that not only were not nearly enough children told this thing, many children were punished in place of being reassured

and thats heartbreaking

so heres the words from my mom that i was always told, and theyre the same words that anyone who never got to hear them should hear now, courtesy of my mom, who has repeated those same words to many a friend of mine and now to you

if i ever broke anything, the first words out of her mouth would always be and have always been, “are you hurt?” 

i would say no

she would say, “thats okay, then”

and i would ask why

and she would say “because it was just a thing- even if its a nice thing, or an old thing, or an expensive thing, its still just a thing. it can be replaced, or we can live without it. there is only one you. there will only ever be one you. you will always be more important than just some thing.” 

[songspinner9]

I lend out a collection to fossils to my school’s 8th grade science teachers annually. I’ve collected since I was a kid, added more as an adult from yard sales and donations. I want kids to be inspired and intrigued. About my 5th year at my school, the teacher came to me with one of her students. The girl looked upset and sort of scared. The teacher explained that the girl’s hand had slipped and a Megaladon Shark’s tooth had broken into two pieces. My first response was to make sure she hadn’t been cut by one of the pieces, and she shook her head, tears in her eyes. I smiled at her and pointed out that she hadn’t dropped it on purpose, that the ridiculously big tooth had been fossilized and survived this long, and it would still be amazing if I had to either keep it in two pieces or superglue it.

It bothered me a lot that the kid was clearly primed by a lot of adults to deal with anger and blame when a simple mistake was made. I offered her a hug, which she accepted and finally laughed.

[piggyofoz]

Story time: 

My grandmother owns crystal bowls that have been passed down to her from her grandmother. Being a family with Jewish heritage in Austria, every single piece of family history we own is basically a treasure in itself. I was already an adult when she allowed me to take one of them home with me, of course only after I swore several oaths to keep it safe. I can go months and years without breaking a single dish, but lo and behold, it takes two weeks and a split second of not paying attention, and suddenly that crystal bowl, that’s worth more to my grandmother than the entire rest of her furniture, goes flying and shatters into a million pieces. I swear I watched for what felt like an hour as that thing dropped, turned around itself and finally crashed in a spectacular impact. Anyway, it’s completely beyond repair, and I’m freaking out because my grandmother will murder me. Only, she will not, because even worse, she’s going to be fucking heartbroken and so, so disappointed with me she won’t even find it within herself to murder me. But, you gotta do what you gotta do - not being able to face her while confessing, I call her, in tears, apologizing a hundred times before she finally goes: “Gigi, calm down now, what happened??” “*sobbing* I- I broke your grandma’s bohooohooowl -” And my grandmother, bless that woman, starts laughing hysterically. She’s laughing so much I think, I must have broken her, that’s it, she’s lost her marbles now and it’s my fault, until she wheezes out: “Gigi that bowl survived two world wars and the Nazis but not a month in your kitchen!” and of course I fucking lost it too at that point. That’s how I learned, that in the end, it’s really all about perspective. 

Now I’m a step-mum myself and my go to reaction whenever I hear something break is to shrug and say ‘Well, it had a good run’ and then I go fetch a broom and we’ll clean up because if my grandma could laugh off a 100 year old crystal dish, I can laugh off an IKEA mug lmao

[threezoz]

I’m tearing up

[chaloc7]

Fika*

[mochimochimochii]

big hero 6 came out when i was super depressed and i watched it like 10 times because it was the only thing that made me feel alive and spiderverse is really going to do the same for me huh

[vcigar2]

wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims

[vcigar2]

no, seriously. victims of emotional abuse have it hard because they do not have the physical marks or the records to “prove” to someone they were hurt and are hurting. most people will not take emotional abuse as seriously as physical abuse, saying “you should get over it” or “sticks and stones”. thats fucking bullshit.

emotional abuse victims who have been forced to do or say or be things you never wanted to, i love you.

emotional abuse victims who have been gaslighted and manipulated to the point where you no longer know what is real, i care for you.

emotional abuse victims who are told they will never be loved by anyone else and they are not a good person, you are amazing.

emotional abuse victims who feel manipulative and often catch themselves mirroring actions of their abusers and feel sick to their stomachs because theyre “turning into them”, you are not them and never will be. you are so much better than that.

emotional abuse victims who have to live every day suffering because nobody understands how messed up you are from what they said or did or made you do, you arent alone.

anyone who reads this, i care for you. please support all victims of abuse every single day because they deserve it just like they deserve the love and care those in the past have failed to provide them

[all-that-is-pokemon]

[angryynaps-blog]

Merry Christmas to all the other gay cousins