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Which famous novel do you connote each type with? I was thinking about how The Giver seems very INFJ to me and it led me to this question. Hope you like the question, thanks!

It is a fun question.

INTJ: Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage: A novel by Haruki Murakami

INFJ: Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy

ISTJ: The Complete Sherlock Holmes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

ISFJ: The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien

ISTP: The Supernatural Enhancements by Edgar Cantero

ISFP: The Hunchback of Notre Dame by Victor Hugo

INFP: Haroun and the Sea of Stories by Salman Rushdie

INTP: Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte

ESTP: Battle Royale by Koushun Takami

ESFP: The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

ENFP: The Princess Bride by William Goldman

ENTP: A Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams

ESTJ: A Clockwork Orange by Anthony Burgess

ESFJ: Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe

ENFJ: The Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley

ENTJ: Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett

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Three absolutely true things about each MBTI type personified

ESFP: Talks even when they do not. Has the best clothes. Secretly goth.

ISFP: Observing you always. Has a life degree in social psychology. Could kill you, but probably will not.

ESTP: Born from an explosion. Can use everything as a weapon. Hobbes include fighting gorillas in space.

ISTP: Built a space shuttle with dental floss and a cap gun. Lobbies new laws just to break them. The only person to break into Fort Knox AND Area 51.

ENFP: Can transform into a Pegasus at will. Is your friend, so deal with it. Grows hugs in their backyard.

INFP: Happiest kind of sad. Bleeds kittens. Disney princess by night.

ENFJ: Delegated peace between Star Trek and Star Wars. Does charity work after every meal. Requires no less than a ten-person audience when doing these kind of things.

INFJ: Knows things 45+ minutes before they happen. Reads minds. Travels dimensions when nobody is looking.

ESFJ: Knows what is best for you. Is the parent of everybody. Can absorb emotions through osmosis.

ISFJ: Has fresh cookies on stand-by. Cares for the children of their vanquished enemies. Hugs themselves sometimes.

ESTJ: Eats pain for breakfast. Makes flowers wilt by walking near them. Once made The Rock and Chuck Norris cry on the same day.

ISTJ: Actually married to Lady Law. Organizes their lint by color. Has friends, but does not know it.

ENTP: Is roommates with Satan. Plays golf as a contact sport. Punches stone walls for fun.

INTP: Can recite Pi to the Aleph Null. Can clone a banana, but not peal one. Would rewire an electrical system before changing a lightbulb.

ENTJ: Brushes their teeth with a chainsaw. Kills people with a single glare. Knocked out a train with one kick.

INTJ: Already knew that, and everything else. Is better than you. Allergic to feelings.

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An Open Letter to the Men of the World

Men: actions speak louder than words. It doesn’t matter how many times you say you’re a feminist and write/talk about how much you support women. What matters is how you treat the women in your life.

Women are constantly calculating the odds that a particular guy (a stranger, an acquaintance, a lover, an old friend) will turn out to be violent. We all know that a man who’s previously shown very little proclivity for violence can suddenly become abusive – we’ve experienced this in our own lives and seen it in the media and on the news over and over (for a sample of this, please consider the news cycle of the past few weeks).

As women interact with the men in our lives, we look for clues that might tell us how this man will behave in the future. When we see those red flags, we frantically try to understand what our current and future threat level is, what we can do to keep ourselves safe, what behavior is least likely to cause him to escalate small violations into bigger ones, all the while knowing that if this man does become violent, we will be blamed. When a man beats, rapes, or kills a woman, her past will be scrutinized to determine if she’s “pure” enough to deserve sympathy (spoiler: no one is ever deemed pure enough). Whatever she did in the moment to protect herself will be judged as inadequate, or worse, proof that she “asked for it” or wanted it, that she is complicit in her own abuse (if it’s even acknowledged as abuse).

Repeatedly ignoring a woman’s boundaries is a huge red flag for women. Men who repeatedly cross women’s boundaries (even in small ways) are scary, particularly when they refuse to acknowledge that they’ve done anything wrong (or respond defensively, as if they have been mistreated by having their behavior called out). Maybe a man who crosses a small boundary will never escalate to more significant violations, but maybe he will, and there’s no way to know if or when that could happen, or what could trigger it. Our culture minimizes or dismisses many of the ways men regularly violate women’s boundaries - women who call those behaviors out are treated as if they’re overreacting. But, here’s the catch - if a woman doesn’t make an effort to stop those violations and the man does escalate, she will be blamed for not doing enough, for not recognizing that this man was a threat and failing to do something to extricate herself from the situation.

Men: if you truly want to support women, respect their boundaries. Be aware of all this context that shapes the way women interpret your behavior. Listen when women identify your problematic behaviors, instead of becoming offended and defensive (pro tip: it’s not worse for men to be called abusive than it is for women to be abused, just like it’s not worse for white people to be called racist than it is for people of color to experience racism). Don’t try to justify your behavior or minimize it. Acknowledge what you’ve done wrong and commit to behaving differently in the future, and then, most importantly, change your behavior.

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also, along the theme of the posts i made a couple days ago about being weary of how people use social justice language and safe spaces: be critical of the way people use loaded words like “violent,” “dangerous,” “toxic,” and “abusive”.

Now I am not saying question abuse survivors or police the way people talk about their own experience in relation to abuse. What I am saying is that if you see someone describe another person as being “violent” for something like, an internet argument? or refer to someone as “toxic” for calling them out or disagreeing with them? those should be major red flags.

anyone genuinely working towards anti-oppression and accountability should respect the weight that those terms have within anti-oppressive circles and use them judiciously.

social justice circles have a serious problem with abusers using survivor language to frame people who challenge their unsafe, oppressive, or abusive behaviour as being the “real” problem. It draws parallels between what theyre experiencing and the listener’s experiences/understanding of oppression and abuse, and attempts to illicit bystanders to emotionally react in their defense. You should be apprehensive of anyone who very obviously use these loaded terms where theyre not warranted.

the word “toxic” especially has become a pretty fucking meaningless word at this point, and is one i see used more often than anything in these circumstances. it does have a valid meaning, but a lot of the time people will describe someone as “toxic” when they know they cant justify calling them straight-up abusive but want to say something that implies basically the same thing. a lot of the time that term is used to target whistle-blowers or just to gain a leg-up in an argument. so if someone’s describing someone else as “toxic” but not providing any other details as to how or why their behaviour is toxic, i would be skeptical of that.

there is literally no language that is inaccessible to abusers, and so its always important to be mindful of context and details when dealing with conflict in any space, and not take just take the side of the person throwing around the most scary words. because to some people “violent” may mean “they blocked me on facebook,” and “dangerous” may mean “they called me out for being abusive” (both actual examples ive encountered).

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ive recently cut off three toxic friends out of my life but i can't help and feel depressed about it. i feel absolutely terrible inside-out and i really just want to hole up in my room. could i have some slightly aggressive affirmations?

YOU CUT TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR LIFE?! THREE AT ONCE?!

WELL HEY HEY NOW, THAT IS SOME BADASS FUCKING SELF CARE RIGHT THERE!!! I’M PROUD AS FUCK!!!

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY NOT A TERRIBLE PERSON, INSIDE OR OUT!!! YOU’RE A STRONG, BRAVE, AWESOME PERSON WHO HAS TAKEN CARE OF YOURSELF!!! I FUCKING LOVE SELF CARE AND YOU ARE NAILING THAT SHIT, MY FRIEND!!!

I’MMA QUEUE UP SOME AFFIRMATIONS, BECAUSE YOU HAVE DEFINITELY EARNED SOME GOOD VIBES!!!

I’M SO DAMN PROUD OF YA, GIVE YOURSELF A HIGH FUCKING FIVE!!!

- The Slightly Aggressive Affirmer

machasjustice

For all polytheist and pagan survivors of domestic, intimate partner, and dating violence.

Now in Facebook group form.

Please consider joining in order to spread the word about a support resource for polytheist survivors of DV, IPV, and dating violence. Even if you don’t have a personal interest, reblogs are incredibly helpful.

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slightlyaggressiveaffirmations

ALL FEELINGS ARE VALID FEELINGS!!!

IF YOU ARE STILL ATTRACTED TO OR CARE ABOUT SOMEONE WHO HURT YOU, THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU EXCUSE THEIR ACTIONS!!! YOU CAN HAVE COMPLEX EMOTIONS, AND THAT IS COMPLETELY FUCKING OKAY!!!

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**TW: This video contains discussion of rape and assault, if this subject is hard for you please close the tab or proceed with caution.**

The other night my beautiful soul sister Juliana Covey shared this poem as she was faced with countless facebook postings about Brock Turner and the example of how once again our justice system is failing women.

If you or a friend has been sexually assaulted or raped and you are in need of care and assistance please call a local health team or turn to https://rainn.org/ RAINN is one of the largest organizations helping people who have been traumatized by sexual violence.

Remember, you are not alone and your worth does not diminish because of this.

POEM BY JULIANA COVEY Follow Her Here: http://instagram.com/mybrokenshell Tonight I eat a container of raspberries for dinner because the Wolf Woman in me has ripped through my stomach, growling and snarling with teeth. She is hungry only for justice. I scroll and see his face everywhere, everywhere: Every picture of him turns into the face of the boy who pulled at the clasps of our bras at recess. Every picture of him turns into the man who touched my friend on a bus while she was trying to sleep. Every picture of him becomes the blurred faces of the men who felt entitled to my friend’s body when she was behind a bar, having a cigarette. Every picture of him is the drunk guy who held her down as she begged him not to videotape it. Every picture of him is the man who waited for me at work, watching me from the window, how when I told my boss he laughed and said he looked “scrawny enough that I could probably take him.” Every picture of him is that locked doorknob behind me, is that friend asking “But what were you wearing?” Is the youth pastor asking, “But why were you drinking?” Is another girl turned ghost, another girl buried in the dirt she was found in, another girl swallowing guilt like knives. The raspberries make my fingertips red and I think of all these bodies, how we rarely ever see the blood; the injuries internal, the insides charred like so much burnt wood, like we are the witches they set on fire while they chanted: Are you being triggered? Are you being triggered? (All I can think is, I wish I could pull the trigger)