i wish more people talked about the subs who struggle to cum and how much patient gentleness they need. the ones who get tears in their eyes from frustration, who start believing something’s fundamentally wrong with them.
i love pulling them into my arms immediately, wrapping them up completely. “you’re okay, baby. you’re perfect. nothing is wrong.” the way they shake their head against me. “but i can’t—” “shh, sweetheart. your body isn’t broken. you’re not failing at anything.”
holding them tighter, letting them feel how secure they are. “sometimes our bodies just don’t cooperate and that’s completely normal and okay.” stroking their hair gently, kissing their forehead. how they need specific reassurance about how i’m feeling. “are you getting tired?” and i pull back to look at them. “no, baby. i’m not tired at all.” cupping their face in both hands.
“i’m not bored. i’m not frustrated. i’m enjoying every single moment of being close to you like this.” the way they search my eyes, looking for any sign i’m lying. “i mean it, sweetheart. truly.” how they need constant physical comfort… my hand in theirs, my arm around them, my forehead touching theirs. “what would feel good right now, baby? do you want to keep trying? do you want to stop? do you want to just be held?”
giving them complete control, and the reassurance they need if they want to continue, going slower this time, gentler than before. “we’re going to go at your pace, okay sweetheart? you tell me what feels good.” checking in constantly with softer touches and softer words. “this okay, baby?” “still comfortable, sweetheart?” how they need reassurance that isn’t conditional on finishing.
“you being here with me is enough, baby. you trusting me with your body is enough. whether you cum or not doesn’t change how much i love this, how much i love you.”
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