𝕷𝖎𝖟𝖆 𝕬𝖛𝖊𝖒 𓅪

[moonbijackdaw]

[bpd-culture-is]

BPD culture is all of your friends leaving you because they can't deal with your shit anymore and how messed up you are so you just give up completely on making new ones because it's not worth it

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[moonbijackdaw]

BLUE TIT ARE YOU OKAY 😭

[moonbijackdaw]

Me at the youth center event about financial planning ♡

Я ЛЮБЛЮ ТУСУВАТИСЯ В МОЛОДВІЖІ

[moonbijackdaw]

[mikologie]

people who are so vehemently against self-diagnosis need to remember that it is not all a black & white thing. it's not always "my doctor & medical papers say i have XYZ" vs "i say i have XYZ"! sometimes it's :

my doctor says i have XYZ but a professional diagnosis may put me in a compromising position.

my doctor agrees i likely have XYZ but i cannot afford the tests needed to properly be diagnosed.

i do not have access to doctors that diagnose XYZ.

XYZ runs in my family & i have all the symptoms, though i do not have access to a doctor to confirm this.

my doctor confirmed my suspicion that i have XYZ casually, but since it is not important to my current treatment i prefer to skip out on the paperwork & focus on my other issues.

my doctor undiagnosed me since a professional diagnosis put me in a compromising position, but i still do have XYZ.

XYZ can be replaced with both physical & mental ailments/disabilities/etc, too!

someone's diagnostic status is not your business. if they say they have a disability, have the respect not to poke & prod their medical history - believe us. disabled people know themselves better than you do. well-researched self diagnosis, professional diagnosis, "medically recognised" - whatever it is, their health is their business alone!

[bpd-culture-is]

to add on:

professional diagnosis may lead to discrimination!

many disorders, especially psychological/mental ones such as PDs, can come with a lot of stigma & unnecessary prejudice if you have them in your files. for your wellbeing, you may choose to omit them from your records! that does not make your diagnosis less valid.

[moonbijackdaw]

[cluster-b-culture-is]

BPD culture is constantly having to fight the urge to leave the groupchat

-🧶

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[moonbijackdaw]

I've failed volunteer camp and returned home. There are only 3 volunteers left without me... 💅💅💅

[bpd-culture-is]

bpd culture is "why do you stay even after everything ive done"

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[moonbijackdaw]

ААА В МЕНЕ НІКОЛИ НЕ БУЛО ТУРИСТИЧНОГО СПОРЯДЖЕННЯ І ШО ТЕПЕР РОБИТИ 🤩🤩🤩🤩 Я КРИЧУ ЯК ВОРОНА.

[moonbijackdaw]

wood pigeon call made me cry. it reminds me of careless times. i miss the time without war, without facing the cruel reality of adult life.

[moonbijackdaw]

VENT ART & CRINGE VIBER/WHATSAPP STYLE.

[bpd-culture-is]

bpd culture is feeling like you just aren't made for this world. It's asking yourself how all these people are living happy-ish lifes, while everyday is mental struggle for you.

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[moonbijackdaw]

So true

[moonbijackdaw]

My jackdaw photos aren't uploading 🥲

[bpd-culture-is]

Just curious. How many of you guys' fps know theyre your fp. I havent told mine and probably never will.

does your (current) FP know they're your FP?

yes!

no.

i have multiple - the answer depends on which one.

not applicable to me // see results.

Voting ended onSep 19, 2023

personally, no. i have never told an FP that i have that attachment to them - maybe i should. for some, it can help open up that communication barrier. for others, it may put more strain on the relationship. i have chosen to keep it to myself!

[moonbijackdaw]

she might think she's my fp if she did a research on bpd.

[moonbijackdaw]

Flags in my bio changed 3 times in one year because bpd. Identity issues yk