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you’re allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though you’ve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldn’t normally, get that confidence going. we don’t have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won’t like the us we want to be.

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You know the part I’m most excited for about losing weight is that people can literally feel like they’re carrying around less weight you know? Like when people gain weight back I often here them describe it as feeling like you’re carrying weights around attached to you but when you lose the weight it’s a noticeable difference that you feel lighter

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Moaning is one thing that men can do right and they refuse to do it… selfish

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🔑No. 1 advice I have for you today: please don’t isolate yourself.

It’s okay to mind your own business and stay in your own lane. But make sure to keep yourself informed about events happening around you. Always have allies. Isolation is dangerous. Running away isn’t your advantage. Not having a clique or someone you can rely on around you at your workplace, school or university is bad. Humans are social animals. We need to socialize and talk with others. Stay on your ground and have standards, but make sure to be polite to your colleagues and everyone else. Make yourself seem desirable and visible. There’s a difference between being independent and alone. Nobody likes a loner. You can have your time off at any time of the day you’re free, but maintain relationships with others. If you don’t have any allies/friends, make sure to find and make them. I see too many posts about self-care and while it’s 100% essential for success, it is also important to keep yourself informed, seen, and noticed. And while your skills are super important, if you’re not coming from a high-class background, you got to network. You got to make yourself stand out and you can do it much more easily if somebody who’s above you notices you. If you’re recommended. Don’t get in fights with others, especially if they’re colleagues. I’m speaking from personal experience. Be kind. Work on yourself. And level up.

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i spend money with love & it returns to me tenfold.

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if you’re really struggling, i hope you know that it’s enough. it’s enough to get out of bed, to breathe, and try to get through the day.

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Im tired of pretending. So im just gonna say it: i love grocery shopping

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Art museums, fancy restaurants with an outdoor sitting, satin silk dresses, perfume, wine glasses and pretty views.

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48 Laws of Power

Never outshine the master.

Never put too much trust in friends; learn how to use enemies.

Conceal your intentions.

Always say less than necessary.

So much depends on reputation. Guard it with your life.

Court attention at all costs.

Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit.

Make other people come to you; use bait if necessary.

Win through your actions, never through argument.

Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.

Learn to keep people dependent on you.

Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim.

When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interests, never to their mercy or gratitude.

Pose as a friend, work as a spy.

Crush your enemy totally.

Use absence to increase respect and honor.

Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability.

Do not build fortresses to protect yourself. Isolation is dangerous.

Know who you’re dealing with; do not offend the wrong person.

Do not commit to anyone.

Play a sucker to catch a sucker: play dumber than your mark.

Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power.

Concentrate your forces.

Play the perfect courtier.

Re-create yourself.

Keep your hands clean.

Play on people’s need to believe to create a cultlike following.

Enter action with boldness.

Plan all the way to the end.

Make your accomplishments seem effortless.

Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal.

Play to people’s fantasies.

Discover each man’s thumbscrew.

Be royal in your fashion: act like a king to be treated like one.

Master the art of timing.

Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge.

Create compelling spectacles

Think as you like but behave like others.

Stir up waters to catch fish.

Despise the free lunch.

Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes.

Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter.

Work on the hearts and minds of others.

Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.

Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once.

Never appear perfect.

Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop.

Assume formlessness.

The 48 Laws of Power are a book by Robert Greene. The book shares thematic elements with Niccolò Machiavelli's The Prince and has been compared to Sun-Tzu’s classic treatise The Art of War.