How to identify a cuckquean?
My vicarious follower Amy mailed me she receives many questions from male followers concerning how to identify a cuckquean and asked me to elaborate a little on this subject because my perspective is from the QueanBulls side.
I thought I elaborated on this topic a while ago, but I couldn’t find it, so here we go.
My experience is that women who have the fantasy of sharing their husbands with other women don’t have any visual identifications.
Thus, its not written on their forehead or they don’t wear a T-shirt with
“I’m a cuckquean’ on their breasts.
There have been some attempts to design a kind of recognizing sign, like an anklet with a heart or ‘Q’ on it, but I never saw a definitive outcome.
I had this discussions with the Köln lady (one of my cuckcakes) some time ago, as it seems that it’s more the other way around: It’s more difficult for a cuckquean to find a competent and virile QueanBull than the other way around. So she was looking for a sign to identify QueanBulling willing men!
It is my experience that more women are into cqing or QBing than one might think. However, they are inhibited by cultural or religious rules or… their own husband. It appears that cuckqueanry the majority of times is initiated by the woman instead of the man, perhaps D/s relationships are one of the exceptions.
Thus, if you think you are a QueanBull, the only way is to send out signals to other women and hoping that your information is received and assimilated.
E.g. when I met my wife I was dating other women too. In fact, she was one of them herself. During our first date I told her this and she didn’t ran away.
I also tell women that I separate ‘love’ and ‘sex’. It depends on their reaction if you’re allowed to elaborate more on this subject.
For example, around four weeks ago I sat on a terrace with a group of friends.
There was one female friend (A) who had relationship problems and was discussing this with another female friend (B).
Btw, they know nothing about my QB activities, but they know I am married.
A’s lack of sex arose in the discussion and I was asked to react on that,
by means of a joke of B and to tease me a little.
My reaction towards B was, that if B and me were married,
B should help out A and invite her to our place, arrange a nice atmosphere
and prepare her for me.
While A looked confused and flabbergasted, B smiled at me, gave me an eye blink and joked that she could arrange that at her place anyway.
Other people heard our discussion and laughed the topic away.
As of that moment my relation with B is more serious on a personal level.
B certainly could be nice cuckcake, but the rules between me and my wife are such that she arranges the sessions. Btw, I told my wife about this the next day, so she knows she has some work to do ;-)
The last weeks B continuously gives subtile hints, also to other women concerning me. Because B and I don’t have a relationship, these hints are laughed away, but I think B knows better and could have a cuckquean mindset.
Thus, a method is that you give hints yourself in such a manner that they can be laughed away, but a word to the wise or anyone who listens good understands perfectly what you are actually saying.