Maggot Nursery @mrfreezebug - Tumblr Blog

Woaah I'm gonna start posting here again this is crazy My accounts I was using for the last few years were @maggotnursery and @helluvabigbug This one devolved into a personal sad adult blog but idk it smells like home or something

#emmett chit chats

i drew friends

#furry art #anthro #drawings #frens #bibi #bandaid #lamby

I miss shitty weed

i miss it so bad

pls

#text post #emmett chit chats

lakevida

the menstrual cup and menstrual scepter

lakevida

your majesty what is upppp

allegedly-human

nothing is more tumblr than having a tumblr sexyman wiki and then warn you to not find some of those men sexy because it's problematic

zedazone

Idk what it is, I generally avoid my personal experiences with things because I get afraid of this exact thing... but if there's a topic of someone's experience like sexual assault or other trauma, that they themselves bring up, and they don't go in depth, but they talk about it as an experience they have and relate it to whatever the topic of conversation that's already happening is...... I get soooo fucking defensive of them when other people get all up in arms about "not wanting to hear it" "I didn't consent to this conversation" like they're not trauma dumping, they're actually being vulnerable and informing people of their experience in order to give credit, or relate to something we are already talking about. It's important context to who they are as a person?? Like I get it. these are unpleasant topics to be reminded of, but I think to censor someone's life to the point where they can't even mention that the event happened is genuinely fucked up. I can't explain why I get so mad, or why these reactions hurt me to the point of never even being able to mention my own experiences to people... Uugghhh maybe I just need to go kick rocks.

#text post #emmett chit chats

woah

#drawings #ocs #fursona #anchovy

I haven't drawn FInnian since 2018 holy shitttt.

#Drawings #ocs #monster boy #finnian

meow meow

#fizzarolli #helluva boss #drawings #merch

kyotoprotocols

#:)

share his poppers w him

#fizzarolli #helluva boss #drawings #fanart

I never posted this woops

#fizzarolli #helluva boss #fanart #drawings

Brain dump polyamory bitch sesh:

In polyamory you don't leave someone to be with someone else. You USUALLY leave someone bc theres a difference in desire or expectation you or the other person arent getting/cant deliver on.

Communication is so fucking easy to get wrong and getting annoyed by someone frequently touching on expectations of situations, or checking in on feelings doesn't help the situation at aaallll

I bitch about polyamory practices I dont personally fuck with, but I wouldnt put that on folks who participate on those things and they are comfortable with them. Ie: I hate forced kitchen table or the common non-monog dont ask dont tell.

The biggest issue with polyamory n non-monogamy as a whole i have are people's partners being jealous over someone new coming into their spaces. Its my biggest beef because most of the time the jealous partners have way too many unchecked issues that they suddenly make their partner's problem rather than learning how to sit with and address them personally.

The other big issue i have is people getting into relationships because they think the person is cute and have casual feelings about a person rather than knowing they have real romantic feelings for them.

Like so many people get into these relationships casually and end up breaking someone's heart bc that person had real romantic intentions instead of casual flirty dates. Interest is cool, but stop it. Dont rush that shit. maybe talk about expectations

taLK ABOUT EXPECTATIONS

HEY

FUCKING TALK

ABOUT EXPECTATIONS

STOP

ASSUMING

SHIT

#you failing to do so even out of inexperience is no ones issue but your own and it SUCKS #but u gotta LEARN #if you assume shit and hurt someone thats also on you #Like stop it #emmett chit chats #emmett's conflict resolution rants #polyamory station