launching feedism.neocities.org - an indie web project documenting, archiving, and sharing everything about (and adjacent to) feedism!
hello fellow feedists! so uh… my girlfriend (@doughyfatfox 💕) and I have done A Thing - a fun (and most importantly, ethical kink + fat lib-informed) website that collects and archives everything about feedism! from a community-centred wiki about the kink and the history of feedism + fat admiration, to practical resources for feedists and even cheeky memes, we’re hoping for this to be both a personal + community-driven space to celebrate this wonderful kink of ours 💕.
so what inspired this?
well apart from life being a lil overwhelming, another reason why I’ve been a little inactive on here is because I’ve been inching away from traditional social media and revisiting my love for the old/indie web, a lil passion that me and my girlfriend both share 🥹💕.
another thing the both of us share is that… obviously… we’re feedists. Finding community was what brought us together in the first place, and talking at length about how we’ve discovered and explored this kink throughout our lives has brought us even closer. what the both us (and many others in the community I have spoken to) have come to realise is that - finding community and resources surrounding feedism is hard.
from examining what this kink really is and what it means for us, working through shame and internalised fatphobia, navigating what it means to practice feedism ethically and in alignment with fat liberation, and of course, the fun stuff of actually practicing it, of building our own relationship with pleasure and hedonism. to answer these questions often requires many great resources that are scattered all over the place. every time I encounter a Cool Feedist Thing I’ve always thought - damn I wish I had a place to store, categorise and even talk about it in a way that doesn’t get lost in my blog (shh, I know tagging is a thing, it’s not organised enough for me!!!) amidst tighter cens*rship.
so here we are! after about a week of combining our coding, art (especially @doughyfatfox’s, look at our cute background!! 🤩) and writing skills, our site is live!
NOTE: It is still a huge work in progress, and I think it always will be. we want the site to continuously grow 👀 as our community grows, as our collective history gets richer.
what do we have right now?
an entire about page on feedism! (still a wip)
essential feedism resources (e.g., kink jars, RACK worksheet), mostly stuff me and @doughyfatfox used/are using as we explore this kink together
feedist and feedism-adjacent memes, credits to @doughyfatfox’s elite collection
a page about fat liberation (also a wip)
what are we working on?
the whole website essentially 😅. It’s still quite a big wip, but I think we do already have quite a cool selection of stuff on there, enough that we hope it’ll be a fun browse!
happy browsing! 🍩 and stay tuned for @doughyfatfox’s reblog for more info, especially if you’d like to contribute to the site!
Noticing when the fat started behaving on its own was one of the greatest milestones in my feedees fattening journey.
Watching her boobs hang lower and become more pendulous than Pert, her ass wobbling behind her without her knowing and her belly jiggling around at the slightest movement. My impact on her body for all to see was insanely hot to me...
Many of us in this community have been fat for their whole lives, many gradually gained weight, and many are waiting for the right time to start. For those of you who were once athletes before you decided to gain, I am going to highlight what I learned from my own experience:
1.) Running into old friends can be tough
For most of your life you were basically typecast by your sport, most people associated you with the sport you played. Of course, that means they associated you with being somewhat fit. After you’ve gained weight and are clearly out of shape it can be hard or even embarrassing when you run into people who expect you to still be athletic. Especially old teammates. Running in to your old teammates is painful.
2.) Parents
Most gainers do not let their parents know about their kink or their parents do not approve. Once an ex-jock starts to gain weight their parents will hold their athletic past over their head. Parents will often use your athletics to try to embarrass you or fat shame you. They try to make you feel like you are disappointing them.
3.) Getting over your sport
For me, I had aspirations to play my sport in college and maybe even after that (untimely injuries did not allow me to play in college). After you gain weight you still have that sliver of thought that you are still as good as you once were at that sport. But if you ever play it again, you quickly realize your talent is all but gone.
4.) 180 degree Lifestyle change
I used to work out almost every day, I ate in smaller portions, and barely ate fast food. Most of my time was spent either playing or practicing for my sport. Once you start gaining, everything changes. Obviously you eat more, but you also need to figure out a way to fill up your day. As your appetite grows food quickly fills the void.
5.) Coping with food
Often times the sport would be a way for me to get my frustration out. Now that has turned to food.
6.) What If?
Every so often you think about what would have been if you were still an athlete. And unfortunately, that thought will never go away.
7.) No return
Once you gained over 25lbs you will soon realize that you will never be able to go back. You have crossed the point of going back to how things were.
If you are an ex-jock it is important to know that no matter how embarrassing you think it is, feederism is a part of who you are. Suppressing it will only make your internal struggle worse. People who notice your gain most likely will not say something and if they do it will most likely not be in a derogatory way. Most importantly, you need to move on and shift focus. Take all that hard work determination you had for your sport and move that to filling your face with food. Surround yourself with people who like you for who you are. And surround yourself with people who will help you pile more fat into your now jiggling body.
Hello!! Sorry I have been very busy with wedding planning and earning extra money for the future. My fiancé has met his goal of 400 pounds about a month ago and he’s still growing! But with everything that has happened Recently he’s working with me.. so he’s not staying home full time anymore…
Thankfully I’m the boss of the company so I get him to do the least amount of physical labor. Instead he helps me with paperwork and computer work. So I can keep him nice and plump.
He’s struggling with his movement and now he can’t get up off the couch without needing help because he broke the couch.. I even caught him trying to put his socks on by himself , he got embarrassed and said he was trying to impress me by being able to dress himself… he’s so cute
He’s grown out of his 4XL shirts and now wears suspenders so he doesn’t always have struggle to pull his pants up. I love that I have grown him out of 3XL-4XL clothing and he’s still stuffing his face every chance he gets
I even had to buy a different scale because my old one maxed at 400 so I got a 500 pound one and he’s now 408ish. I loved putting the old scale away because he maxed it out.. felt so accomplished for reaching my goal for him.. now I’m waiting until I need to buy a 600 pound scale..
dom feeder x sub feedee dynamic but the dom is warm & kind & doting, all while slowly but surely taming & domesticating their bratty, once independent (now entirely DEpendent) sub
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