𝄞𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ hi , im zia. i'm a minor and im a shifter! @_@
i've been shifting for 2 years and i've shifted over 25 times, and more times to come. that doesn't include mini shifts. :)
i go to a community college and major in english. i associate some of my research to shifting and give the best information i can with what i have with research and prior knowledge as well as over 10 years of experience in my desired realities! <3
i have a discord server and i've helped a bunch of people with their shifting journeys and continue to help more.
i have a podcast on spotify dedicated to shifting. It is called "Yuniverse."
. 𝄞 ⊹ ࣪ my shifting journey ˖ ᭪
i shift for a band called Tokio Hotel, as well as to different drs. my only s/o is Bill Kaulitz and i'm engaged/married to him in some drs while being in a simple bf/gf relationship with him in most. i will post lots of storytimes about him! you'll begin to learn how fond i am of this man lol
my shifting journey also comes with some trauma and memories i've learned from. i will also try to incorporate that into my storytimes.
♪ ₊˚ my page
i will have storytimes, advice, and answer questions. a lot of my content will include hostile wording for harsh motivation, while others might be less harsh and more gentle. it all comes down to what boundaries you have set.
just because i release harsh motivation does not mean im an overall hostile and mean person. i actually try my best to come off as a nicer person :) if you want to be friends or talk, please don't hesitate. this is social media, and i have nothing to judge you on other than your profile.
at some point, people hear quotes and stop taking them seriously. they think that each quote is going to make them shift--each minor piece of advice is the "final key." you need to stop disregarding these pieces of advice just as much as you need to stop glorifying them.
treat it like a girl scouts sash. you get different pins each day, and once the sash is filled, you're all done. don't treat one pin like it's the final one, but don't treat it like it's the first one either. let your knowledge build, and absorb this information. one day, it might fully click. other days, you won't get it.
i wish people could stop acting like your s/o being in another reality serves as an immediate blockage from loving them and cherishing them. like yeah you can think that what you know about them here is all you'll know, but you can still understand your connection with them. love is a hopeful feeling some people rely on. to immediately see something as small as different realities as an immediate flaw in your relationship doesn't serve you at all and you know it
i had this friend who shifted for the same guy as me and literally all she'd say was "well you've shifted and i haven't so it feels like we're on different levels." i really wish i could go back and tell her--we aren't. we are on the same level. it's not about the man you love and how i love him too. it's about the fact you love him. maybe on the surface, we love the same person, but deep down, we are shifting for two completely different men. we love this man for different reasons, in different realities, under different circumstances. it is okay to love a man, even if you haven't shifted for him. this connection you feel for your s/o is real. it's not you "holding onto something that's not there--" it's the love you feel for that person and their own humanly characteristics.
at the end of the day, love is love! love is human connection! love is there! it is okay to feel as though you're a bit behind, but it's not okay to try to see your love for someone as something that is diluted in your inexperience. you love this person? then say that. don't backtrack.
sometimes i see the new things shifters are arguing about and i just want to like take them to an arcade or something like go see what the world is really about for real
sadness and frustration over shifting never is acknowledged in my mind anymore because i'm at a state of such peace that i forget how absolutely unhealthy i was mentally over shifting just a bit ago. now that it's been 2 years since i began shifting im actually reconsidering so much of my journey and my mentality and how much patience and peace this whole journey has brought me.
shifting gets really frustrating whether or not you've shifted or minishifted, and it's obviously the very big temptation to quit or take long breaks or just completely blame yourself for everything. i don't like when people begin interpreting my mentality advice as "push it away and move on." i don't want people to neglect their feelings but i don't want them diving too deep into a losing game either. balancing the understanding that shifting is completely available to you alongside the understanding that there's inevitable stress to this journey begins to allow you to open your soul to consistency and emotion. emotion is natural and there's no such thing as being "unnaturally" stressed. don't set expectations for a mind so complex! the simplicity of shifting includes understanding the possibilities of your mind, awareness, and surroundings. villainizing all of these things will not help you expand your territory, it will only make you sad. there is no point in feeling shame, laziness, or any kind of lingering bother from the things you haven't yet achieved, because if you cannot achieve it at all, how is it so available for so many people to attempt? how is there so many resources and stories to go off of? if you truly were the one person in the world who is completely unable to reality shift, ask yourself what the science behind that is. because unlike that, reality shifting has evidence. reality shifting has proof of unlimited ability. you are not formed to be isolated. you were not made for a life you are unable to live. be content with your progress and the growing of it. stop dwelling on your present and begin looking through your future, it's only when you're working that you should prioritize the second circle of presence and awareness. realizing that you've evolved from your past into your present opens your pathway to your fortune. in the end of the day, every celebration is a celebration of a new day, and a new day is still a step forward from the past. each second that passes is anew, and time is just as easy to evolve as yourself.
but with shifting, there's no external property that will push you any more than how you're meant to push yourself! you don't have to find every extraordinary resource in order to feel content with your knowledge, because your body and mind are a gallery. there is no point in limiting your own identity and villainizing imagination! every fantasy is rooted from a possibility of life. dragons are still alive, fairies are still alive, and beasts are still alive. every quality of life still breathes, even if it isn't our air.
to think from a realistic standpoint is to assume this reality's way is the only way. there is so much more you can experience! you were put in this reality to explore, just as you discovered other realities to explore as well. the opposite of infinity is zero!! and to have some progress is closer to infinity than to zero.
@karrashifts is not racist. never has been racist, never will be racist. not only does she have an entire server full of POC friends who have never seen her even utter a word or phrase of even slight racism or microaggression, but the entire topic of that conversation never tilted toward her being racist whatsoever (with context.)
this kind of drama is unnecessary, especially on a platform as public as Tumblr. the topic didn't need to steer in the way it did, especially because scripting out racism in general history would also mean erasing many different cultures, ethnicities, movements, and important people, moments, and historical events. scripting out racist trends and fads of the present would be more necessary, in which she in fact does advocate for wellness for POC and cares for all situations of racism that she's aware of. the whole topic switching to the fact she's white instead of anything truly shows the lack of valid argument lingering in the overall debate. this whole discussion didn't need to be done in the form of reblogs if it truly is that serious!
my only request is to stop accusing mary of things she clearly isn't doing, stop twisting her character, and for gods holy name-- stop calling her racist 😭. i'd expect a conversation with two people over the age of 4 to go more sensibly!
guys shitting on people and blaming them for an entire platform isn't the power move you believe it is! especially if you're getting basic spelling wrong 😭 i could be here like "ew you're illiterate" but watch me keep my peace intact!
one of the problems i had when i began reality shifting was that i constantly believed that my confidence of "i'm going to shift tonight" will end in disappointment. however, this didn't just go for self assurance, but also other aspects.
i would spend most of my time researching, not to learn new things, but to reassure myself. i didn't believe in myself or the information i was receiving as well as i wished to.
my completely false narrative that everything has to go one way to work properly was what held me down. instead of making my current mindset and preparing my comfort to move forward, i constantly tried to change, believing that all i need to shift is far from who i actually am and what i have.
idolization
maybe there's that one influencer who posts shifting content that shares information and experiences, and you envy them. heavily. the truth is, no matter how much you try to follow their advice and shift in the way that they do, you'll always be reminded that you don't know them. their intention is likely to help you pick up some different advice and experiment with what you have, but if your immediate instinct is to try to integrate into their routines and headspace instead of employ yours, you're putting in more unnecessary work to adapt a mindset you don't even know the half of. sounds tedious, right?
doubt
doubt can be rooted into past misinformation, unlikelihood, people doubting you, and more. the thing about doubt is, most shifters do almost anything to try their best to get away from it-- the biggest thing is, suppressing it. DO NOT DO THIS. suppressing your feelings will let them grow in an untouched area of your mind; allowing these feelings to nurture and stick to every new piece of information you have will eventually intoxicate the open-wonder you have to new ideas. instead, begin to find out where this doubt lies. is it in yourself? is it in shifting as a whole? if it's in shifting, then begin looking into not only shifting, but relating topics. multiverse travel in buddhism, the multiverse theory, astral projection, quantum theory, quantum immortality, and more. these are not the exact same as shifting, but fall under the same idea of travel between multiverses. these relating explanations and theories will help you put the dots together. if your doubt lies in yourself and what you are capable of, realize that this isn't a situation of moving houses-- you are able to shift anytime and anywhere. you don't need a comfortable bed and 2L of water to shift your awareness. you don't even need a script. it's a matter of assuming and settling in. you are in your desired reality, just as much as you're in this one.
a need for routine
know- you don't *need* a full blown method, meditation, or routine in order to reality shift. you don't need to know exactly how your room will look, how you will look, how your house will look-- it's nice to know these things, but they aren't completely needed. when you take a nap, you automatically assume that you'll wake up in the same space, same reality. you don't think anything of it. assume you're waking up in your desired reality. as you close your eyes, simply acknowledge and regard your desired reality as the reality you're going to be in. think of when you'll wake up, and where. understand the process, there is no almost. the biggest thing is, this reality won't feel new or unfamiliar. because it isn't. you're just as fond of that reality as this one, because you've grown up in there too. that reality is yours.
do not nurture a mindset of common doubt. it won't help you. you deserve to shift just as much as the next person.
"Escaping 2020 Shifttok" : GETTING YOUR OWN OPINION (And relying on yourself) ۶ৎ
As one was raised to do, people rely on other people. It's not every day that someone just trusts themselves enough to be fully independent, and I have seen that especially in shifting.
"2020 Shifttok" as people call it is apparently an era of TikTok where shifting had a lot of misinformation and ended up being watered down into unbelievable bits.
It ultimately became one of many reasons why a lot of shifters feel blockage.
"Dior, how to escape from my mind of 2020 Shifttok?" First: Understand you didn't follow 202 shifttok because you were dumb, you follow through with it because you are passionate. You did not follow the ideologies for no reason, but because you knew that to shift is what you wanted. It is still what you want, but you are believeing that 2020 shift tok ruined everything for you. It might not have.
1, the belief of "ruin" in shifting is already what holds back a lot of people. With a journey comes mistakes and redemption. If you fell into Shifttok so far you think you can't get out, make use of what you learned. Yes, staying hydrated and cleaning your room before you shift is useful. It helps with stress and helps with organization, it will ultimately help you declutter your space. Maybe it won't immediately make you shift, but it helps in the long run. This is what I mean. The information you took in, you took in for a reason. It will help with anything eventually, you just see it as a blockage which is why you don't think it will do you any good when it will.
Don't absorb any kind of information you find. If you look at a method and a lot of people have shifted with it, it doesn't mean you automatically will too. It is like clothes. If it fits other people, you have to look and see what differences other people's body have with yours in order to see if it will actually fit. If you are a size medium and they are a size extra small, then it won't fit you like it fits them, and you need to find a different size. With your own size, you can even measure yourself and sew your own clothes with the materials you already have. Your materials are your knowledge. You can use your own experience and preferences to begin making your own method.
Remember that you have time. You have time to improve, grow, and learn. Every day your goal is to shift, but make the most out of every lesson. Discover what methods work for you, discover what methods do not. Think about yourself, as no one will prioritize your shifting journey more than they prioritize their own. This can go for anything, but let's stay on the topic of shifting for now. You can only help yourself. Your mind and your heart know eachother, and if you think that anyone else can define you, you are wrong. Ultimately, you know yourself a lot more than you think. With some examination and experience, it'll take a lot less searching and a lot more of-- what do I think? Based on how I do this, how I feel about this, and what I know about this, should I do A or B?
Old advice you dedicate yourself to will always be there, so don't try to get rid of it-- change it up a little to go in your favor. Redecorate it nice and pretty, so it'll be a lot better to be around.
hii zia!! i love your posts! do you mind telling us about your silverharmony dr? its fine if you don’t want to :}
Here's some information!
SOME FUN FACTS ✶ ⋆ .˚
We are all NEPO BABIES! My parents are Lee Hyo-Ri and my father is a pilot. Raynes parents are Rob Zombie and Sheri Moon Zombie, and Bea's parents are Amy Lee and Chester Bennington.
SVH, which stands for SILVERHARMONY, is also a representation of our stage-name initials!
Our fandom name is MELODIES.
The overall theme of SVH is a big mix of all of our aesthetics.
We have a fan website named MEETMELODIES.COM. It is a fan forum website where fans of SilverHarmony can come chat! There is also a pre-sign in quiz, where you choose who your bias in SVH is, and who you choose determines how your website looks.
"MY BIAS IS YUMI SILVER" - Your website will be pink, glittery, and inspired by the Agejo Gyaru style. There will be hearts, ribbons, and cats.
"MY BIAS IS TRIXIE HEARTLY" - Your website will be black, shimmery, and starry. It will be inspired by Trixie's gothic, versatile, ethereal style.
"MY BIAS IS RAY ANGELIC" - Your website will be black, silver, and red. There will be stars, glitter, and crosses, inspired by Rayne's alternative, ethereally grunge-y style.
some songs that take me back to different memories of my desired reality.
Forest - Choi Yu Ree
in Hongdae, which is a trendy area in Korea for shopping, eating, and hanging out-- there's an area for street performances, where there's built in seats for people to watch, and areas for singers to set up and sing to them. i was here with my friends, waiting for my other friend to go inside so she can buy a purse charm she's been wanting. that's when we were talking about how gloomy and melancholy the song was. as i talked, my friend asked me to look at her nails. i was looking at them, complimenting the gradient and the pearls, when suddenly she turned her hand and showed me her new engagement ring.
In My Dreams - Matt Block
me and my band were at a fancy restaurant celebrating an award win. my boyfriend, lead singer of the band, and i kept pointing at different vases, chandeliers, chairs, foods, etc. that we want to have at our future wedding. we were 16.
Piano Man - Billy Joel
i play piano. my boyfriends name is Bill. people call him Billy. one night he got drunk, asked me to play billy joel on the piano, started singing this song with a beer bottle as a microphone. lyrics were incomprehensible, as his first language isn't english, he was drunk, trying to speak german and english at the same time.
Sesame Syrup - Cigarettes After Sex
i was at a cigarettes after sex concert when a guy opened a whole bottle of sesame syrup and started spraying it at everyone around him. mind you. the song playing was literally not even sesame syrup. also how'd he sneak the bottle of sesame syrup through security. so many questions.
Lover, Its Never Over - Jeff Buckley
i was at a halloween party in LA when a guy went up on the small stage dressed as Ryan Gosling when he was in The Notebook, seemingly intoxicated, yelling the lyrics of Lover It's Never Over into the microphone while showing everyone his ex boyfriend (yes, boyfriend) on his lock screen. bring back yearning
"i can't shift" "ive been trying for so long" "i can't do it" "im losing so much hope"
versus.
"i'm educating myself more on shifting" "i had a minishift today" "im journaling and finding more about my preferences" "im using a new method tonight"
which one sounds more appealing to listen to and talk about? if your mind generally harbors negativity, it'll find its safe space in constantly looking for the hopeless things in your journey. stop trying to act like all is doom because "you haven't felt any symptoms." holy shit! didn't know that just because you didn't feel your asscheeks tingling, that means you're never shifting again. what to do? if your entire shifting journey is made up of complaining and complaining and complaining again then maybe stop blaming shifting and start blaming the fact your tongue is rotting from all the dirty words.
