Hi!! I’m back to talk about something that matters a lot to me on this website. FRIENDSHIP. Now I’m not talking about irl friendships, though they should be treated the same online as offline. I’m talking about friendships between people, more specifically roleplayers, and their partners. Now, this is specifically happening to me, so my apologies if it sounds vague (it is, I know. That’s why I’m not posting it on my main rp). So, first of all, self harm and suicide baiting? Ain’t okay. No matter what, no matter where or who or why. Baiting with the destruction of yourself because of things that your friends have done or will do is absolutely 100% not okay. If someone decides to drop contact because of this, they will. Do not make yourself the victim. This person is breaking off this communication for themselves. If they have expressed intent to not talk to you, if they have explained, give them fucking space. Don’t expect these people to immediately come back because you did a shitty thing. Furthermore, do not go to that friend’s friend and talk to them about the original friend. Because that person will end up finding out, and you will be very upset to know that you’re being two-faced. You will end up losing not one of your friends, but both of them if this continues.
And, please. For the love of God, don’t talk about me putting you on “friendship probation”, because that’s the most condescending bullshit I think I’ve ever heard.