Honestly, Fuck Asian Parents.
I think that’s why our generation is messed up or disturbed or have some of mental issues or trauma. It all stems from the environment we come from. If you don’t understand our passion, try to educate yourself on it. If you don’t believe in our dreams or support us, you’re better off not saying anything than saying something disgusting. If you can’t contribute to the table, don’t give your two cents. If you can’t stop being a hypocrite, don’t bother even opening your mouth to express your feelings. If you can’t be there for us, don’t expect us to be there for you. If your love is conditional, so will ours be in return.
Don’t get me wrong, I know there are some Asian parents who are amazing. but that's probably just 1/10 for every family I've ever come across.
I’m repulsed. I’m upset. I’m frustrated. Because now even as an adult, I feel that i can’t fully function “normally” because of these things. Relationships, Self Care, Mental Health, Environment, are all the things I cannot grasp healthily.
Honestly, how does one overcome all this and heal?
