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“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”

— Oscar Wilde

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“Sometimes the best revenge is to smile, move on, and do nothing.”

— @PeacefulMindPeacefulLife

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How to Create a Winning Relationship

1. Don’t rush things. Take the time to really get to know each other.

2. Focus on positivity rather than negativity. Getting angry quickly or being harsh and critical will undermine and ruin even strong relationships. In contrast, being kind and gentle will help develop love.

3. Appreciate the little things the other person does. Don’t overlook their efforts; don’t just expect their help.

4. Enjoy the ways you’re different – and not clones of one another. It makes things interesting (and creates healthy space).

5. Don’t get into a rut so that you’re bored when you’re together. Keeping doing something different, or keep trying something new.

6. Learn how to be listener, someone who’s understanding, and helps their partner open up and share what’s bothering them.

7. Be loyal and committed, so trust can be established - that helps you both feel safe, and it will grow a strong, deep love.

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“Everything you want is on the other side of fear”

— Unknown

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“My last relationship taught me one thing: I never want to feel like I’m begging for someone’s love - ever.”

— wordology

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“If you don’t love yourself you will always be chasing after people who don’t love you either.”

— Mandy Hale (via thoughtkick)

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“My only relief is to sleep. When I’m sleeping I’m not sad, I’m not angry, I’m not lonely, I’m nothing.”

— Jillian Medoff

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“Things will happen in your life that you can’t stop. But that’s no reason to shut out the world.”

— Unknown (via thoughtkick)

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“Let them judge you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you. Their opinions aren’t your problems. You stay kind, committed to love and free in your authenticity. No matter what they do or say, don’t you doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth. Just keep shining like you always do.”

— Scott Stabile