Epekto ng "How to be Yours"
Sounds like tama naman yung thought that there are two types of personality when it comes to love. Choice A yung mas priority ang love kesa career while B will choose career over love. Hirap / next to impossible naman kasi sya e-juggle (duh, di ko pa din naman na try)! Di ba nga kadalasan pag gandang ganda ang career mo, bogs ka din sa lovelife? Works the other way around too. Pansin ko lang na most of the time, kung si choice a na broken hearted nagiging choice b sya. At kung si choice b has reached the peak of his career, satisfied na sya at na meet nya yung right person, nagiging choice a sya. It's like a freaking merry-go-round! I suppose at some point you have to get off that horse and compromise if you want to make it work. I said it's next to impossible, so it's still possible! But it's freaking hard work. Eh kailangan mo nga mag-excel dun sa dalawa (pede din you don't have to excel but just do really well) so hard work talaga. Amazingly may mga tao na nakaya nila! So tayo na we're not even close to achieving it, motivation natin sila na yes, may forever naman pala. Pero wait, forever is not chill chill lang ha. Yung tipong coffee coffee lang kayo dyan and forever will work out on it's own magic. Asa ka pa. Wake up coz it is so not like that! (Galing ko no, di ko pa naman naranasan ang gagong forever na yan!) So as I was saying, hard work sya. Ako I think I'm kind of stuck at being choice b for now. Somehow I feel content and a different kind of peace where I'm sitting at. However, ikaw ano ka ba ngayon? If you're b and you met someone right, wag agad mag-choice a ha. Try mo juggle - ano ba meron between a and b? Wala naman sa alphabet pero kung sa exam may choice c usually for all of the above! Kailangan lang gawan ng paraan to make it work! So yes, push mo lang yan. Kaya mo, kaya nyo! Samantala ako, I'll just cheer for you from my comfy good old choice b chair.