My Housewife Dreams

22yo || vintage homemaking and femininity 🎀🪞

[myhousewifedreams]

Introduction

🧺 I felt it was time for an updated pinned post.

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🍁 I am 22 years old and from Ontario, Canada.

🧸 I am studying Early Childhood Education

🏡 As you may have assumed, my ultimate goal is to be a SAHM/homemaker. I have a loving and caring boyfriend who shares my life vision.

🪶 I am Norse Pagan. I do respect the faith of Christians and others who embrace traditional values.

🐴 I love equestrian sport, but currently do not ride regularly.

🥘 I spend much of my days developing homemaking skills: learning new recipes, housekeeping, sewing, gardening and home decor, and simply overseeing the family/home economy.

[sadieejanee]

[sweetfemininegirl]

[sweetfemininegirl]

My 5 year plan❤️

[wandermaid09]

You don't have to wear skin revealing clothes to be pretty

[daisies-christian-corner]

I work towards this every day ♡♡

[myhousewifedreams]

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[myhousewifedreams]

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[thatgentlewife]

[likeasummer]

[blushcoloreddreams]

Why do men value female sweetness?

He already deals with testosterone all the time, with stress and tension... they are biologically prepared for conflict... The masculine man is dominant, strong and a provider...

He takes the lead because that's how he feels useful. He likes to provide and protect because it makes him feel needed. But no man feels like doing that for someone equal or stronger... Therefore, men look for something in women that they lack.

He is looking for a woman capable of bringing order, beauty and peace to his life. And when a man finds a woman like that... he goes to great lengths to win her over. And to live this there is no other way than to become more feminine...

The woman's sweetness nourishes the man. It is cultivated on a daily basis, it is not a technique that you use for convenience. People can tell when you're pretending, especially because it becomes that thing that's forced and not at all natural... no one can keep that mask on for long.

A sweet way only enchants when accompanied by loving gestures, a warm look and kind attitudes, what you do for others... That's why sweetness must come from within... it's the outside that reflects the inside - never the other way around.

If a woman only feeds on negative thoughts, it becomes much more difficult to be sweet, because that's not what she has within herself... there's no way to give someone else something that she doesn't even have within herself... you know? It's a natural process...

A woman can only be feminine and sweet when she dedicates herself to seeking the truth in her life, when she makes an effort to cultivate the virtues she needs and is able to authentically express all the beauty she has cultivated within herself.

[windsdaughter]

if you are a woman who wants to be a wife and a mother its actually important that the man you say yes to date, be in a relationship with, and marry actually has skills, resources, and drive. its important that he is honorable and his actions show it. its important he is *actually,* not just conceptually, capable of making a life for you both and any children. him just wanting to be with you, or worse - simply agreeing to be with you....is not enough. that is the ground level. please do better!

[nostalgicamerica]

[blueberrymuffin-005]

𝓕𝓮𝓫𝓻𝓾𝓪𝓻𝔂 𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮 -`♡´-

[clawedandcute]

I have come to a conclusion. I hate the term "reduced to motherhood" or "only a mother" when applied to a character. There is nothing reductive about motherhood. There's nothing "only" about being a mother. Or a father, for that matter.

If motherhood is written as reductive or flat, then you know what? That's bad writing, cuz motherhood is anything but.

[sweetrosegirl33]

i love men. i think men are the coolest

[traditionallygirly-deactivated2]

𝓘𝓽𝓼 𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓹𝓵𝓮𝓽𝓮𝓵𝔂 𝓪𝓬𝓬𝓮𝓹𝓽𝓪𝓫𝓵𝓮 ଓ