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"I know, baby," she cooed sympathetically to the man trembling in her arms. "It's so hard to go this long without cumming, isn't it?.... you ache so bad, don't you?"
She smiled softly at the way he nodded his head, as if the thought of voicing his desperation was more than he could bear at the moment.
"Mmm," she purred, making no effort to conceal her own arousal. "It turns me on so much seeing you like this... so desperate... your poor cock, sweetheart... I bet it feels like it's about to burst, doesn't it?... can you imagine how hard you would cum if I let you inside my soft, tight pussy tonight?... how much cum I could milk out of your poor, aching balls?..."
She felt herself quiver with excitement at the sound of his tormented whimper. "Don't worry, honey... relax... I won't do that, I promise. You've got such a long streak going it would be a shame to ruin it now... now that you've gone this long it's so exciting to think about how much longer you might be able to go, don't you think, baby?"
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"You want to know why I love orgasm denial so much, I mean, besides the power and the control? I love watching you go through the different stages. While I'm edging you, your body thinks it's time to perform, to put out sperm. You want nothing more than to blow your load, and I enjoy keeping you from doing that. Then we stop, and there's mental anguish. While I'm edging you there's a chance you'll get to cum, but now that it's over, that chance is gone. I've built you up and up and up and up, but now that we're done there's that look of impossible frustration on your face as you realize that it's not gonna happen. Mentally, you come to terms with it pretty quickly, but physically it takes time. Hours. Slowly, your body begins to realize that it's been tricked. It pumped out all that sperm, and now it has to figure out where to store it. That's when the blue balls set in. Everything you do hurts. Every movement. The slightest touch. They throb even when you don't do anything. Seeing you in pain is delicious enough, but even better is how much easier it is to hurt you when they're blue. A light knee can put you on the floor, a kick can have you absolutely howling. It's so much fun! I'm sorry. I interrupted you. I believe you were in the middle of asking me if you could cum...."
Orgasm Control: A List of Benefits
I get a lot of questions about the benefits for me and for my husband about the benefits of structured orgasm control as part of addressing the issue of “mismatched libidos” in heterosexual relationships. For many people, as soon as they make a start on this journey, a range of benefits become clear pretty quickly. So, in this case, I believe the requests for providing a list benefits are for people who are still in the process of deciding if this approach is for them.
The short answer is - yes, your life (and sex life) will change for the better. Give it a try.
The second short answer - yes, use a chastity cage. While it is possible to practise orgasm control without one, the benefits for you, but especially for him, of using a chastity cage are exponential. Perhaps the list of benefits below will elucidate why:
Control vs Neglect
In most heterosexual, long-term relationships, women have a significantly lower sex drive than their male partners. Men have less sex than they would ideally like. In this sense, marriage means that females control the allocation of sex. Already. However, without a deliberate structure and communication around the element of this control, the mismatched libido is interpreted by the male as ‘neglect’ or the feeling of not being desired. This can drive the male to pornography, masturbation or ‘nagging for sex’, which puts unwanted pressure on you, and is a serious turn-off.
When orgasm control is discussed and structured as part of the couple’s sexual dynamic, the male’s perception moves from being ‘neglected’ to ‘controlled’. The latter is highly arousing, and the sexual dynamics flips on its head. By controlling his sexual release, you as a couple are indicating that it has a ‘value’ far greater than when he is simply free to masturbate at will. His greatest physical reward, and the oxytocin, bonding, dopamine rush that follows becomes linked to you, not to Pornhub.
More Sex, More Orgasms (For YOU)
Orgasm control is about controlling the MALE orgasm, not yours. The worst thing you can do is be objective between release windows. Rather just call the whole thing off now - it will not work.
Rather, you can and should have frequent orgasms - and he will love giving them to you. My partner and I have sex frequently outside of his release window. I unlock him and we have standard sex - the only difference is that he is not allowed to cum. He goes slower, uses toys, users his hands and tongue - whatever he needs to do to follow the rules - and I can deliciously and *selfishly* enjoy it. Once we're done, he is locked back up until next time.
This is what he expects and desires - don't feel bad for one second. Stop thinking in the old school "Sex is about the male being satisfied" mindset. It is mindblowing for him in every way - both mentally and physically.
Reigniting the Desire
As has been said on this blog before, males are programmed to ‘move on’ emotionally after ejaculating. Orgasm leads to a spike in prolactin which is a ‘shut off valve’ for intimacy and sexual desire. Frequent masturbation is therefore a total intimacy killer. Controlling the male orgasm leads to increases in oxytocin focused on you as his key objects of desire. He is heavily sexually aroused and his desire for you will skyrocket. Now, he is fully aware that he can’t do anything about it until his scheduled release, so it translates as increased intimacy, and increased energy for other things.
No Pressure for Sex
Modern marriages are defined by women ‘feeling bad’ every time they are not up for sex. The perception of old-world society is that it is the women’s duty to provide sex whenever the male desires. With chastity and orgasm control, this is completely reversed. Sex is not the goal, and the ongoing sexual rush of the denial is what the male will savor the most.
We have PIV (penis in vagina) sex frequently. Most often this is outside of his release window, so he knows that he is not allowed to orgasm, and after I am finished, he is re-locked. It's a mind-screw and a challenge for him, but he absolutely LOVES it!
Chastity is Effortless
With him in chastity, I can do all of this without really having to do much. A bit of attention here and there, a bit of teasing and he is at a constant, positive simmer. It is about communication, structure and commitment.
Release Days are Effortless
When I do allow him an orgasm, this too can be as effortless as you could possibly imagine. On release days, his excitement is so high that bringing him to climax can take as little as a few seconds. I personally encourage him to orgasm as fast as possible. Some days I take off the cage, provide a few gentle strokes, wait until he cums and then re-lock the cage. This can take 2-3 minutes in total! To save time, simply placing a vibrating massages on the cage’s base-ring for a few minutes will bring him to orgasm without even need to take of the cage. He will LOVE this, and again, hardly any effort on your part. That is how it should be.
If you do unlock him for release, always relock directly after he orgasms. This significantly reduces the "drop" he will experience after orgasm and will push him through the 2-3 grouchiness period much smoother. He loves it if I put the cage on him, but if you prefer he locks himself, straight after his release, firmly tell him that it's time to go back in the cage.
Cages Look Sexy
I think of chastity cages as jewellery which is very aesthetically pleasing. Unlocked penises flop about, lean to one side, grow and shrink unpredictably and are often pretty badly manicured. When locked in a cage, everything is so neat. Males will need to do a bit of gardening down there to make it as comfortable as possible. Everything is held in place. His nub is encased and immobilized. His balls are held tight and presented forward. He will want to wear tight underwear or swimwear for comfort purposes, which presents such a neat little package. Every time I see the cage I am reminded that he is doing this for me, and I get a little shiver down my spine. It just looks better, and I love it!
Arousal on Demand
Males think about sex all the time. The vast majority of sexual thoughts and corresponding erections go completely ignored. When locked in chastity, these sexual thoughts (and erections) are contained, and are linked to you as the keyholder. This is highly arousing for the male, and will feel like direct attention from you - even though you may not even be in the same postcode. The cage works for you full-time, and is there whenever the male is aroused. Extremely powerful!
Discipline
The chastity cage helps males to stick to the rules. Most males masturbate significantly more than you will ever imagine. For the vast majority, they will NEVER have gone 21 days or more without masturbating since they first discovered it in their teens. With a cage, masturbation is simply off the table. They must direct this energy elsewhere. Which leads to :
Weight Loss and Conditioning
All of this extra energy must go somewhere, and in most cases, this is directed to physical exercise and conditioning. Many women report that time in chastity has lead to significant weight loss and body sculpting in their males. Motivation and drive are seriously tangible chastity benefits that you will notice as little as 7 days in.
Service
Oxytocin is the courting hormone. Increases in this wonder drug caused by orgasm control will often lead to a far more focused, attentive and service-oriented mentality. Whether conscious on his part or not, I notice a happier, more helpful male, with a higher attention-to-detail and eagerness to please. Use this as you see fit!
A Better Sex Life
Most importantly, chastity and orgasm denial will improve your sex life. Sex does not equate to penetration anymore, although it certainly can if you wish. Unlock him at any point in the schedule for sex of you're keen for it - it's just that outside of the release window, he will have to find a way not to orgasm. You are the focus until his release date!
Most importantly, "sex" in long-term marriages is about sexual interaction - intimacy, honesty, communication and care. This is why you are doing this in the first place. Rewire your thinking as a couple, and become a highly engaged, balanced and aligned sexual partnership.
Conclusions
These are just some of the many benefits that are associated with the exciting journey of male orgasm control. Drop some more in the comments and I can add to this ever-growing list.
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Kelly and her boyfriend are professional tennis players despite their young age. They also love to humiliate newcomers on and off the tennis court. How could I have fallen for such an obvious divorce?
How competently they have thought of everything. They took me tightly by the balls and now I will do whatever they ask and even more. I guess after I suck it off to her boyfriend and get some painful blows in the balls with a metal racket, they won't be able to stop. Maybe her boyfriend wants to fuck me in the ass afterwards?
Redhead therapist says she forgot to eat lunch, and asks if she can chew on my meat while I tell her about my day. She also asks if she can have the balls too, if I'm not planning on having kids anyways.
It felt really weird, but you rubbed the penis-shaped brass lamp. Smoke jizzed out the tip of the penis and coalesced into this beauty.
"Well, hello there, Master. You rubbed my lamp; are you ready to make a wish? You're cute, so I'll give you some advice. Please be careful how you word your wishes. The magic WILL go wrong if you give it a chance. For instance, many men have wished to fuck me. The first one turned into that lamp you're holding. Now I can only get back inside by putting IT inside ME, which is kinda funny, if you think about it. One man turned into a cucumber (which is my FAVORITE vegetable, if you know what I mean). One man even turned into a donkey, because the next man to get my lamp wished to watch me have sex with an animal. Now, you can have your three wishes and, inevitably, something is going to go terribly, terribly wrong.....OR.....you can have more than just three, but I get to make the wishes. Don't worry, I'll make it so you get more sex than you could ever dream of. You like blowjobs, right? Plus, my wishes never get screwed up. What do you say?...... Yeah? Alright! Let's have some fun!"
"Ok. Let's see. First up..." *snap* "Your jizz now tastes like chocolate."
"Oh!" *snap* "And just the taste of it will make a woman cum harder than she's ever cum before. Oh, they'll be lining UP to suck your dick now. And the repeat customers will get blown away! Every time will be better than the last. Eventually they'll start cumming so hard they'll pass out."
*snap* "Your dick will always be ready for another blowjob."
*snap* "Your balls will never run out of cum. Now, they're going to produce it so fast that you'll have to get sucked off at least a few times a day or you'll get the worst blue balls you can possibly imagine. So now we've got to make sure you've always got someone ready to help you out. I GOT IT!!!"
*snap* "Now, any woman that you are sexually attracted to will instantly know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, exactly what will happen if she sucks you off. That should keep you entertained for a few decades....."
"Now, I'm sorry, but all magic comes with a price...." *snap* "From now on, every orgasm you have will feel like you are being kicked in the balls by a horse. Good luck with that one. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'd like to get in on that action...."
*snap* You felt invisible hands grab your arms and legs, pulling you spread-eagle and lifting you into the air. You didn't realize you were naked until she leaned in and put your dick in her mouth. It was literally magical. The pleasure was phenomenal and you came in less than 30 seconds. The effects were immediate. Your screams of pain were drowned out by her otherworldly howls of ecstacy. She threw back her head and her entire body convulsed in the wracking waves of an orgasm that started out unrealistically powerful and only seemed to grow stronger. At the very peak, she thrust her phallic brass lamp up between her legs and exploded into a flash of light. You were suddenly released and fell to the ground with a thud. When you sat up, both she and her lamp were nowhere to be found. Your head was furiously trying to make sense out of what had just happened. Your first clear thought was <How did this go so horribly wrong?> and it was immediately followed by <What, the FUCK, kind of situation did you just get stuck in?!>.....
Old Story: Strip Snap
I posted this story to another site many years ago. Some of you have probably come across it already: to those who haven’t, I can only apologize for the truly ghastly degree of verbiage. I could edit it, but honestly I’m just too lazy. Hope you enjoy.
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Have you ever really kicked a guy in the balls?
Let me tell you a story…
"You want to know why I love orgasm denial so much, I mean, besides the power and the control? I love watching you go through the different stages. While I'm edging you, your body thinks it's time to perform, to put out sperm. You want nothing more than to blow your load, and I enjoy keeping you from doing that. Then we stop, and there's mental anguish. While I'm edging you there's a chance you'll get to cum, but now that it's over, that chance is gone. I've built you up and up and up and up, but now that we're done there's that look of impossible frustration on your face as you realize that it's not gonna happen. Mentally, you come to terms with it pretty quickly, but physically it takes time. Hours. Slowly, your body begins to realize that it's been tricked. It pumped out all that sperm, and now it has to figure out where to store it. That's when the blue balls set in. Everything you do hurts. Every movement. The slightest touch. They throb even when you don't do anything. Seeing you in pain is delicious enough, but even better is how much easier it is to hurt you when they're blue. A light knee can put you on the floor, a kick can have you absolutely howling. It's so much fun! I'm sorry. I interrupted you. I believe you were in the middle of asking me if you could cum...."