Your trauma is valid even if no one else saw it happen.
So many survivors doubt themselves because there were no witnesses. But the lack of an audience does not make your pain fictional. You lived it. You carry the weight of it. That is enough. Your story is real because you are real.
can’t believe tiktok is actually getting banned, twitter is infested with bots and brainworm-infested musk bootlickers, facebook is king of QAnon, instagram caught the plague from facebook and is dying a slow death in real time… and as the dust settles… only Miss Tumblr is left standing… failing upwards once again
I haven't made a post in a while but I'm doing better I got into therapy and was treated for ppd and ppa. I feel more normal right now and things aren't as heavy.
I know i'm just a random person you follow online but I mean it. People (all kinds of marginalised people too!) Have survived all types of horrible times and managed to find happiness eventually. If for no one else, survive for them. And also, try to survive because the people making you despair don't want you to live. Don't give this to them. Don't give your life. The best thing you can do is cling to it with everything you've got. Lay in bed for a day if you have to. but please promise you won't hurt yourself.
Take screen breaks, (now more than ever!!) Meet up, Call your friends, call your family if you're on good terms. Spend time with pets. Text your favourite mutual you never speak to if you've got no one irl. Hell, log on a minecraft server if nothing else. Or rewatch your favourite show.
Make sure you eat enough and sleep enough, and take the meds and vitamins that you need. Don't believe anything you think if you're hungry and tired and have been scrolling too long.
Get a therapy appointment if you think you need it.
You can absolutely not take any shortcuts when it comes to your wellbeing right now.
Part of being sober and being only 23 is never being invited anywhere and if I do it's out to bars where I just feel left out and like I don't belong
Granted most of my "friends" dropped me but even now I just feel like the kid that's invited out of party or left alone at the play ground while everyone else hangs out.
I feel bad for resenting my partner because his friends still invite him out and talk to him regularly but I feel so left out by everyone. I know it's not his fault I don't blame him I just wish I had that also.
Even when I try to plan something they cancel last minute I'm tired of getting my hopes up
All the features I hated and wanted to change for so long I gave to you. I had never seen someone so pretty before my son yet I hear how he looks just like me. I used to look at my face in disgust but now I see the features I gave my child and I see the beauty within myself now because how could I say I hate my face when we share the same one?
I'm Selene, I'm 25 years old and I'm from Venice, Italy. I recently got scammed and lost ALL my money. I'm also indebted to my boyfriend and he needs that money, he's super angry and the last thing I want is to lose him. He's literally the only beautiful thing that has ever happened to my life.
Who am I? Again, I'm Sel, I'm a disabled girl with poor mental health (I tempted suicide three times and lately that's the only thing I can think about), I was diagnosed with MS (multiple sclerosis) when I was 17 (like, the only 10% of the entire population can be this lucky), and I have a sh*tty family situation. I live with my broke mother who can't barely survive on her own and I tried to trust my scammer because I wanted to help her and thank her for everything she does and has done for me till the present day.
But yeah…I lost everything. I owe my boyfriend around € 3.000,00 and he wants it today, and I lost around € 15.000,00. I know, I've been significantly stupid, I was desperate to help my mother and now I have nothing left.
Please, please, please help me! I don't know what to do anymore, I'm job seeking but with my health condition is a little difficult to find something.
My paypal link is the following (please don't mind the nickname, I don't know how to change it) >>> https://paypal.me/darklolitadoll?country.x=IT&locale.x=it_IT
Hope I can have your help and support, guys, I don't want to believe that in the world there are only evil people!
Sel
Hey lovelies!
I'm Selene, I'm 25 years old and I'm from Venice, Italy… Selene Dalla Libera needs your support for I got scammed an
You’re right. It’s not fair that you have to recover and heal because of what someone else did. It’s not fair at all. And you deserve to be able to acknowledge that.
You’re allowed to be bitter but please work on healing because you deserve a better quality life.
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