MY PRECIOUS V

我是波妞！ I'm Vivi. I was born in the sunny California. I'm THE precious of Mom. I'm a #breastfeed baby. I #co-sleep!!! Grow with me.

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When your little one kicks your other part out of the master bedroom…

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10.26.2015 

One day that worth to write down - baby V can walk straight from one end to the other of the living room. The first day when she suddenly walked a lot more steps than just a couple! So excited to witness this big milestone for her💚💚💚

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对面住着美国邻居

As a first-time mom, it’s important to learn what and how to feed my little one.  And I realize, how to educate her is equally important and sometimes more. How to raise a good kid is not an easy job.

周末，见对面邻居家的儿子又从寄宿学校回来了，邻居妈妈正在打扫儿子车子的后备箱。有感而发。

美国家长一向以独立精神著称，尤其在养育子女方面，小孩能独立的就让他样样自己做。邻居妈妈应该是个上班族，年纪不轻了，一儿一女都是十来岁的中学生了。她一个人不紧不慢地帮儿子整理后备箱的杂物，书本、脏衣服、臭球鞋、球棍、游泳衣、挨个分类。儿子应该在房间里打着电动游戏吧，哈哈。我想说，其实，美国妈妈也很有爱，也有”中国式“溺爱的时候。

邻居爸爸和邻居妈妈各自开着”别摸我“，邻居儿子自己有一辆奔驰开。美国人也喜欢买奔驰宝马，但是，邻居儿子不会因为开奔驰就把自己贴个”富二代“的标签，不会因为开奔驰就可以泡到妞，不会因为开奔驰就能上常青藤。和他做邻居一年多，印象最深的不是他开奔驰上学，而是经常见他穿梭于各种体育运动间－游泳、足球、曲棍球、等等。

小孩的成长有很多，智商、情商、人生阅历……但价值观的形成也很重要，有时候往往和整个社会的价值观也密切相连。

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French style mom

Have been purchasing and feeding Vivi grocery-store purees for already a few months and feel bad about it. I should’ve been more involving and hard working on making her food. I know this investment might be late since most babies don’t eat purees anymore after 12mo+. However, I want to be a better mom by taking this step first.

Bye bye ready-to-eat purees! Welcome to mom cook, Viv!

非常好用的宝宝辅食机💯集steam, chop, blend, defrost于一身！从现在开始努力做个勤快的麻麻！

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Where’s my good night sleep?

很久没更新，因为一丁点闲工夫都找不着。

当别人玩的时候，我在看娃；当别人睡觉时，我在看娃；当别人享受生活时，我还在看娃。波妞最稀罕的姥姥回国已经一个星期了，除了头两天波妞一见视频里的姥姥哭不停、恼人的保姆没搞定、波妞辅食有些单一、妈咪睡眠彻底被摧残以外，其他一切还在正常的轨道上，算是些许欣慰吧。

更欣慰的是，小精豆11个月大了，没有她不会的，没有她不能的。加速爬，扶着走，自己下床，上下爬楼梯，再见，谢谢，hug hug，耍贱，讨好你，看人下菜碟😅……

给妈咪鼓鼓劲、加加油！用棒子的话说，fighting fighting fighting 💪

It’s been long. It’s just impossible to have time of my own doing things of my own and enjoying life of my own. Even not to mention staring at ceilings and getting stuck in a daze. I know baby is lighting my life  and she completes me. However, sometimes I have to admit raising a child is happy but not easy. Be strong and hang in there.

记得以前一到长周末肯定找个地方旅旅游散散心吃吃玩玩，今年的Labor Day就是窝家陪大小姐，给大小姐买买衣服、蔬菜水果。顺便，顺便，让妈咪补补觉可以吗😴

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Big girl turns TEN MONTHS YOUNG

A new skill V learns lately is climbing up stairs. Incredible is she learned herself.

波妞走进10月啦！时间你再走慢些❤️

p.s.今天麻麻疏忽害我脑门儿撞了个包✨ 妈咪，你认真点好不好？

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Is baby V going to start walking next month?

I absolutely believe that she may start walking pretty soon when I see how she pushes herself up and stays standing for minutes. Kaka

现在听到最多的话是，波妞下个月可能就会走了。

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First no-feeding nights😚

No night feedings for two nights already since Sunday. HUGE even though still a couple of waking-ups. So proud!!! Big girl! 

On the way of raising a child, you just need to explore, learn and find ways. And most import, trust my baby. Trust she can do it. It’s just a matter of time. 

波妞断夜奶两晚了，🙏精明能干的姥姥。方法是，午睡醒来小玩一会后，4点一顿下午“茶”（奶），6点加米粉糊糊，7－8点睡前奶。米粉糊糊起了决定性作用。下午到晚上这段吃的有些集中，但是能睡整觉就不苛求其他了，摸索着成长吧，呵呵。

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Feel old when she stands in front of youღ

用心人生ღ

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Spirit of free crawl!

Baby V has been a free crawler for a couple of months! And, likes pushing herself up ALL THE TIME, whenever she finds a support or even just a wall. Good job baby V!

波妞的新里程，满世界爬，随时随地站，交流越来越多

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Rainy, muddy and greeny. Love it.

波妞最早从下午五点睡觉，到六点，再到后来七点，现在八点。原来幸福就是看着你一天天长大💚

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Yes, she can!

Haven’t slept in her crib for mooooonths. Tried tonight. 0.5-1 hour later than usual to fall asleep, but it went great until 1 minute ago she woke up crying hard. Am I overoptimistic? Yes. She’s in the “bed” now. 

PS As a first time mom, I don’t like sleep training. I’d probably never do sleep training to my baby girl. My rule is no rules. Sleep however you want, babe.

今晚试了试重新放波妞进她自己的婴儿床睡，睡了一个多小时被麻咪意外吵醒后——注定失败了。

美国人民特别崇尚睡眠训练，有很多种训练方法，有的温和些，有的残忍些。波妞的儿科医生自己的经历，她的三个孩子之一经历过残酷的睡眠训练，每晚扔进小床后离开，听他哭2小时，哭累睡着了，连续三晚训练成功。There’s a saying that it takes 3 days for a baby to break a habit and form a new one. 我想说，爱咋咋地！只想做一个随性又溺爱的妈妈。

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9 months well check✅

Grow big, feed great, develop awesome, both mentally and physically!

99% weight 25 lbs💯

95% head💯

88% length 19 inches💯

What’s more important, no shots this time! Kaka Kaka

9个月的健康检查：体重99%，头围95%，身长88%。波妞加油！Love ya❥❥❥

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Mommy, I'm not a pet!

New toy but NOT LIKE😤

小丫头越来越机灵，不喜欢被圈圈围起来。悟空快来救我出去～

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First taxi ride🚕🚕🚕🚕

I had a fun ride with Mom shopping at her fav furniture store today. BEEP BEEP!

第一次开大笛笛，竟然坐下刚刚好，爱不释手呢。波妞已经是大号北鼻啦，么么哒😘

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First blood draw through arm😱

Turned 9 months old. Scheduled blood test. It’s obviously the worst way to celebrate 9 months. So hard to meet a nurse with the best blood draw skill, no pain, no rash, no feeling of needle coming in and out. 😈

人生第一次胳膊静脉抽血，可怜的，无助的，从头哭到尾。遇到手潮的护士怎木办？

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Vivi’s first typewriting

瞧，波妞第一次用电脑写了什么？