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Let me be 100% clear: I'm not pro-murdering babies.

I'm pro-Becky who found out at her 20 week anatomy scan that the infant she had been so excited to bring into this world had developed without life sustaining organs.

I'm pro-Susan who was sexually assaulted on her way home from work, only to come to the horrific realization that her assailant planted his seed in her when she got a positive pregnancy test result a month later.

I'm pro-Theresa who hemorrhaged due to a placental abruption, causing her parents, spouse, and children to have to make the impossible decision on whether to save her or her unborn child.

I'm pro-little Cathy who had her innocence ripped away from her by someone she should have been able to trust and her 11 year old body isn't mature enough to bear the consequence of that betrayal.

I'm pro-Melissa who's working two jobs just to make ends meet and has to choose between bringing another child into poverty or feeding the children she already has because her spouse walked out on her.

I'm pro-Brittany who realizes that she is in no way financially, emotionally, or physically able to raise a child.

I'm pro-Emily who went through IVF, ending up with SIX viable implanted eggs requiring selective reduction in order to ensure the safety of her and a SAFE amount of fetuses.

I'm pro-Jessica who is FINALLY getting the strength to get away from her physically abusive spouse only to find out that she is carrying the monster's child.

I'm pro-Vanessa who went into her confirmation appointment after YEARS of trying to conceive only to hear silence where there should be a heartbeat.

I'm pro-Lindsay who lost her virginity in her sophomore year with a broken condom and now has to choose whether to be a teenage mom or just a teenager.

I'm pro-Courtney who just found out she's already 13 weeks along, but the egg never made it out of her fallopian tube so either she terminates the pregnancy or risks dying from internal bleeding.

You can argue and say that I'm pro-choice all you want, but the truth is:

I'm pro-life. Their lives. Women's lives.

You don't get to pick and choose which scenarios should be accepted.

It's not about which stories you don't agree with. It's about fighting for the women in the stories that you do agree with and the CHOICE that was made.

Women's rights are meant to protect ALL women, regardless of their situation!

mysterious-foxes

Yes!

And I'm also pro James whose body dysphoria would be way too much to handle if he continued pregnancy.

I'm pro Taylor who would be in an extremely unhealthy state because they would have to stop their medications to safely continue pregnancy.

I'm pro Sam who has tolkophobia and would potentially end their own life because they were that afraid.

I'm pro Alex who simply just doesn't want to be pregnant.

I'm pro the lives of all these people and trusting them to know what's best for them.

The members of the void enjoy the moments you come back to yell in the void. You're doing amazing. And hope you know how genuinely you are liked and loved. Always enter the room with your head held high and be unapologetically yourself. People will gravitate towards you because you are the sun ☀️.

Thank you! This is so sweet 😭❤️

I know I only really get on here to say something to the void of the universe anymore, but I have something new to say. For most of my life I’ve wondered if I’m genuinely liked. As much as I wanted to pretend that others opinions didn’t bother me, they did and I wanted to be liked.

I moved to a new state a while back and I haven’t necessarily tried to make friends here, but I somehow found myself feeling genuinely liked by all of my coworkers. There’s two people on another team who always make a big deal out of getting to walk with me if we happen to be walking back from lunch at the same time. My team literally made our team name my name. My team always jokes about me being the one in charge when I am very much not. Other coworkers always invite me to things and ask me to help with their projects. And my VP always asks me to help with special projects.

I go back to my home state pretty often to do freelance work. The last few times I’ve been back and have worked with a particular company, it’s been apparent that I’ve been talked up a lot. People who I have never met know my name and say they’ve heard great things about me. Friends who I used to work with are always soooo excited to see me.

And now, I’ve found myself in a situation where that company wants me to come be a head of department. I never applied or even interviewed for the role, but they like me and my work enough to just straight up offer the position. My current company is putting together a counter offer because they don’t want to lose me. And my partner is okay with either option (moving back or staying). I have never felt this valued and wanted anywhere I’ve been. Even with being so stressed about making such a big decision (one I wasn’t even looking for), it’s nice to feel so wanted in both places.

Thanks void for listening and letting me brag here since I don’t want to brag and rub it in people’s faces in real life. I’m feeling very grateful right now.

Only here to vent to the void for a minute.

4 years ago my mom died from pancreatic cancer. A couple of months ago, just after I moved and started my new job, my aunt passed away unexpectedly. A couple of weeks ago, I found out that my other aunt has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. A few days ago, she was put on hospice.

I don’t even know how to put into words how I feel right now. Lots of painful memories flooding back. Knowing that I don’t have a motherly figure to turn to when I get married is hard. And even worse, my dad’s wife will probably try to assert herself. I miss my mom, I miss my aunts. I feel like I got gypped to not have my mom for most of my adult life. And I feel selfish for feeling this way which just makes me feel worse. And nobody knows how I feel and how much this is affecting me.

I cannot verbalize anything else at the moment…I’m glad to have a place to have been able to verbalize what I did.

#tw death #tw #death

I know this is just going out into the universe and I most likely won’t get any answer from this, but I have a question for my female ADHD / Autistic friends.

Firstly, I have not been diagnosed with either and I try to not diagnose myself, but I do wonder about both of these sometimes. And I don’t know exactly how to explain this, so I’m going to do my best.

I’ve realized that when I meet someone new, sometimes it takes me a while to figure out how to respond to the things that they say. A lot of the time, I just won’t respond because I have no idea how to react. But once I’ve gotten to know them and can figure out how to respond to them, we have pretty seamless conversations. In my revelation about myself, it seems like I am figuring out how they react and then I respond to them however will be the best reaction from them. So it feels like I’m masking and when I don’t know someone, I’m trying to figure out how to mask. I hope I’m making sense here.

This revelation came to me because I was recently told by my new boss that I listen, but I don’t hear what people say. That it feels like I’m trying to figure out what to say next. I’ve talked to a lot of people about this and nobody else has agreed on that. So is it because I can have a conversation with them since I know how to respond to them? Is it me masking with them, but not being able to with her? Or could it be the things that I’m thinking of, but not be related to ADHD or Autism at all?

If you made it through this, thanks for listening! I should really go talk to a therapist 😅

@mennaislost cheerfully Catholic has me blocked so I can’t see your replies further than what’s in this screenshot 🤷🏻‍♀️

reading this makes me realize, if you can be strong I can too.

🖤🥰

#anon #ask

but I will ask again, do you experience bliss constantly in that state?

In the state of ignorance? Definitely

#anon #ask

I’m glad people like you are empathetic enough to understand when someone is hurting and you reach out to them to give them support. Simply reading this comment made me think twice about the same shit

Always!! I’m unsure of which comment you’re referring to, but people deserve to be treated like human beings. And they shouldn’t be bullied just because of their views

#anon #ask

I bet you light up a lot of people’s lives. People like you are rare, I hope you know and cherish that about yourself.

Thank you 🥰 I always hope that I make others happy, but you never know what’s going through someone else’s head

#anon #ask

aletheyass

good morning and happy is it really tuesday tuesday

mysterious-foxes

I live in Oklahoma and I’m honestly glad abortion was banned. I used to be pro-choice but I now I realize it was just an excuse for us women to be careless with our bodies and murder innocent humans. A baby doesn’t just magically appear, looking back I would have wanted an abortion to absolve me from a sexual mistake. I now, no longer hook up and want to wait until I’m married to have intercourse again. Women should value their vaginas and only sleep with men who are dedicated to them for life and have financial resources to take care of a family. Pro-life is pro women. It makes women value their bodies more.

I feel very sorry for you and everyone else in OK who can get pregnant.

When I was anti choice, I thought the same as you. That it was just to escape responsibility. Then I actually researched the subject and realized that it’s so much more than that. So let’s break down your ask.

Abortion is not murder no matter how hard you try to say it is. Murder has very specific criteria that abortion does not meet

Next, saying that ZEFs are innocent is just an emotional buzzword anti choicers use to appeal to emotion. Truth is, ZEFs are incapable of being either innocent or guilty. Unless you are talking about innocence in the religious sense, which if you are, then you don’t get to force your religion onto others.

Nobody is saying a baby magically appears. ZEFs develop into babies if we continue gestation and birth them. That’s not an argument for forcing someone to continue pregnancy.

Cool. You can abstain. That’s your personal choice. But you don’t get to make that choice for others. Not to mention that married people also get abortions. People with kids also get abortions. You’re putting this weird stigma on people that get abortions that they just are having hundreds of one night stands and that’s simply not true.

“Women should value their vaginas” this is a really really creepy sentence. A lot of what you’ve said already makes you sound like an incel posing as a woman, but that sentence right there especially makes you sound like that. And the follow up of thinking that women need to rely on men for financial support also really makes you sound like an incel posing as a woman. That’s also an abusive mindset. Not to mention that people can respect and value their body while having one night stands.

Anti choice is actually anti woman. You guys don’t think we, and others who can get pregnant, are capable of making our own decision. You advocate for torturing and enslaving us. There is nothing about that that is pro woman.

bourbonandcinnamon

I find it interesting that you have to use the legal definition of murder. Kinda like you know that the moral definition (killing a person for your own pleasure/personal gain) would be pretty damning for you.

Absolutely me and my fellow women can make their own choices. But when you choose to kill, expect to be stopped.

mysterious-foxes

Murder is a legal term, not a moral one 😂😂😂 stop trying to twist the narrative so that you don’t have to feel bad about torturing and enslaving people.

Great! So we’ll make our own decisions, including denying use of our body to others (including ZEFs) even if they die as a result. Glad you’re on board!

moon-cricket-chirps

People like this would look at me and say my mother shouldn’t have gotten an abortion to save her life and mine because she didn’t bring another life into a situation where they would have suffered.

They’d rather another baby be born into a situation where the mother’s heart would have given out during birth. The father was an abusive neglectful piece of trash who often SA’d my mother (that’s why both me and the pregnancy she aborted happened).

Three people would have died and they’d rather have that then a fetus being let go peacefully…mind you the fetus doesn’t know pain, fear, suffering. But if it was born like this type of people want it would have known all that and either died young or been shuffled around in a system that desperately needs improvement because the foster/adoption system isn’t great. Especially in America where it’s basically legalized human trafficking.

Force birthers don’t acknowledge any other situation that happens but the ones where women who enjoy sex get pregnant. Because those are the situations that they think helps their claim. Not the situations where a woman has health issues, not the ones where the woman was SA’d, not the ones where the family isn’t safe, not the ones where the fetus is wanted but it dies and an abortion is needed to remove the dead body from the mother (yeah that’s an abortion folks. An abortion, by definition, is stopping a pregnancy. So even if the baby is dead and needs to be removed that’s an abortion. Your bans stop those too.)

Force birthers are not pro women, their laws and bans are putting women at risk. One day it’ll happen to someone close to them and I hope they realize then what kind of shit they’ve been supporting and I hope they change their minds.