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Needs..
Doms are supposed to know exactly how to handle a sub. I honestly think a lot of subs dont consider what a dom may need or more importantly that they need it just as much as what a sub needs or how they need to be handled. Late night ramble...
Haven't done this in a while...
I haven't been on tumblr much lately. I got sick of seeing what was expected of me as a "Dom" and nothing about the other side. The post I just reblogged is ONE of very few I see like it on here. I see a lot of "Daddys should be..." and they always include lists of all the amazing things Daddys should do for their little. Then I see memes about how being a brat or a spoiled princess is supposed to be encouraged because thats "part of it". Not exactly ideal to me. Not sure whats going to happen with this blog, maybe ill rename or whatever, probably just going to sit and collect dust at this point. Hope you enjoyed the ride, take care of those that take care of you, regardless of a dynamic or label...
What I don't get
I don’t get why people like punishments.
To me they are a failure. Of her and me. I read the blogs. Some subs say “I like to be sassy.”. OK. Be sassy. I love M’s and my banter. I want her to keep me on my toes. There’s no rule against verbal repartee. As long as it doesn’t cross into defiance and broken rules.
But I see some subs saying they enjoy pushing until they are punished, so that they get a spanking. I’m fine with wanting a spanking. But why is breaking a rule necessary? I spank M every time we are alone. The spankings we do then (which we call relationship spankings) are intense. Often harder than in punishment. The whole purpose is to give her and me what we need. To help us and the dynamic. I don’t need an infraction to be firm enough to fulfill her needs. And mine.
And then she never has a reason to be anything but the wonderful submissive she is.
I guess from my perspective, if you’re not getting the number or severity of spankings you want or need, say so. Talk about it. And then you can get them without breaking rules. And wouldn’t that be better? J
I missed this important post during the last spank week. I appreciate the message; thank you for sharing it with us.
Pubic Shaming
As promised, here is my post about last night’s punishment.
Before I start talking about that I would like to explain why this post will be quite long and detailed. It’s a perfect example of the way mastersubverter leads and teaches me. His punishments, as well as His tasks, are always tailored to suit the situation and whatever need I might have – whether that’s correction, encouragement or affection and closeness. He isn’t a “textbook” Dom and that’s why I have the biggest respect for Him not just as my Dominant, but as a Dominant in general. He shows amazing creativity, thoughtfulness and care with every command He gives me. His way of finding a punishment that truly fits the crime has proven to be incredibly effective with me. The fact that He believes in correcting me immediately after I overstepped my boundaries and comes up with these great ideas on the spot makes the whole thing even more amazing to me.
So let’s begin with the way things started last night:
Disrespect
Last night Daddy told me that He wanted to see His tiger so I sent Him a couple of pictures, this was one of them. We had talked about me getting laser hair removal (His idea but I had wanted to do it for a while) and due to another punishment I hadn’t been allowed to shave until a few days before that picture was taken. He knows I hate having any hair on my body and that it makes me very self-conscious, so naturally He responded to the pictures with a text saying “are you hairy? ;)”. I got very embarrassed and told Him “Yes, I couldn’t shave because of the stupid laser thing”. This was one of those “uh-oh” moments where you immediately realise that you just messed up with no possibility of taking it back. As you can guess, He wasn’t pleased with me calling His idea stupid. Of course I didn’t mean it like that but it has been one of several times that my mouth, or more specifically my inability to think before I open it, has gotten me in trouble, so He decided that it was in need of some punishment.
Public Shaming
Firstly He ordered me to take a picture of my unshaven cunt, because He (rightfully) believed that posting it on Tumblr would teach me a lesson. I asked Him if I could wear nipple clamps during my punishment and He approved.
Pubic Shaming
After He had assured Himself that I took a good picture of my hairy cunt and that I understood why I was being punished He told me what the second part would be. I was ordered to trim/shave off as much of my pubic hair as I could and to eat it. I don’t know if you’ve ever had a bunch of shaved pubes in your mouth but it’s the most irritating thing in the world. Not only is it kinda gross to eat hair, they also stick to the whole inside of your mouth. I had to cough and kinda gagged when I swallowed them and no matter how hard I tried to get them all down they were everywhere. On my tongue, my lips, my gums, the inside of my cheeks, my nose (I had to lick them up), my, chin, EVERYWHERE. Tickling, irritating, making me feel like an idiot for eating my own pubic hair and an even bigger idiot for disrespecting the man who spends so much of His valuable time on finding ways to improve me. As you can guess, I learned my lesson.
Conclusion
I will think before I talk.
I will not disrespect my Owner.
I will show gratitude for His efforts.
I don’t think there’s a chance I could ever forget who I belong to. After all, it’s written all over me.
Yes sir…!
The question isn’t “what are we going to do,” the question is “what aren’t we going to do?”
This applies to all playdates😉
I like clingy people. I'd rather have someone who blows up my phone and shows that they care than someone who texts back 10 hours later.
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Daddy always makes sure I learn my lesson. mywhoreisnotperfectyet 💕
“You have to be an artist. A madman, full of shame and melancholy, and despair in order to recognize the little deadly demon among the others. She stands unrecognized by them, unconscious herself of her fantastic power.”
mastersdummy Remember what I've told you?What I saw in you, why I saw it and why you never did before I found you.
Daddy knew what a tough week I’ve been having (having to be a big girl sucks) and had been really patient and understanding with me. I was already feeling so lucky to have such an amazing Daddy… And then I came home to this a few days ago!! A new Grumpy stuffy to cuddle and be sad with, a new sippy, and SO. MANY. CRAYONS.
Seriously. This man is amazing.
I know its been tough lately and life gets crazy but sometimes you just need a little reminder who you belong to. Things could always be worse, pretty. You've been kicking serious butt and Daddys proud of you. 💏👶
Took time to post something yesterday and it got no reaction. I tried....
