Nadenan

Noisy.Tiny and 20 (bit of a narcissist sometimes) ...cant believe you are actually reading this, if you are- go drink some water, stay hydrated

[sosuperawesome]

Snake, Cat and Octopus Belts, by Miles Glyn on Etsy

[curlicuecal]

oh my god

[yatzuaka]

source

[jimmyfury]

“It will be full of gays next”

[shinji--moon-deactivated2017123]

We create first impressions based on the smallest of things. A smile. A firm handshake. A friendly demeanor. But, humans are layered. We lift veil after veil, and it’s only when we slip past a smile and meander through our cortex that we find something that we can truly call human. We’re built as natural defense mechanisms. We hide our vulnerabilities and show strength with an upturned chin and a straight gait, but which of us mean it? Which of us can keep our shoulders like level weights without showing the vulnerability in our curves? We create angles in our form. We’ll choose empowerment in the form of redwoods instead of bending ourselves like boughs. We’re strong enough to hold an ocean instead of admitting that we’re fragile enough to be swallowed by the sea, and in that, I find humanity’s greatest flaw. We pretend to be someone we’re not, although fragility is what makes us all beautiful. We don suits and straighten our ties and walk around holding our breaths, knowing that once we step into the safety of our homes, we’d take off our skin and place them side-by-side next to our loafers. We are who we are when we believe that no one’s looking, and in turn we’re losing ourselves to what society is trying to mold us into. We’re told to conform to a monochrome world instead of painting our skies the colors we feel in. First impressions bother me because they’re nothing but well-dressed lies. I’m not interested in who you are at first glance. I’m not interested in the person that you claim to be. I only want to know what color your seas are. I only want to know what you bleed.

(via nadefucker)

[pr1nceshawn]

Tips That Can Save Your Kid’s Life.

[hiddlesherethereeverywhere]

THIS IS IMPORTANT 

When I was a child, from the time I was about four and could understand things, my mom told me and my brother that we should have a secret word. That way, if we were ever in trouble or felt unsafe and we didn’t want the people around us to know we needed her to come get us, we could let her know. So she let us pick the word and my brother and I chose the phrase “peanut butter cups.” (I’m happy to share the phrase now since both my brother and I are adults now). 

I used the phrase twice in my life. Once, I was at a friends house when I eight years old. Her dad got really drunk and was throwing things against the wall. I was really scared and I didn’t want to draw attention to myself on the phone when I called my mom to come get me because I didn’t know if he would get more violent if I asked her to come get me. So I called her and was calm and after a couple minutes I asked “Hey mommy, did you get me those peanut butter cups from the store?” And she said “I’ll be right there.” And she came and got me within minutes. 

Second, I was a teenager spending the night at a friends house. Her brother and dad were drinking and they started talking about things that made me uncomfortable - ie: what they liked to do to women. My friend didn’t seem perturbed and said that was normal for them and that I shouldn’t worry. But I was worried because they were really drunk and I was 15 and the only ‘woman’ around that wasn’t related to them. I went in my friends room, told her I needed to call my mom and say goodnight. Before I hung up with her I asked “Next time we go to the store, can we get some peanut butters cups? I’ve been craving them.” And she came and got me, just like that. 

Two incidents, one as a young child, one years later as a teen. Don’t discredit this stuff, it fucking works. My brother used it a few times too. Let your child pick the word and no never, ever, ever, ever get mad at them for using it no matter what it is. 

[titenoute]

DO NOT SCROLL PAST THAT.

[mothurs]

i have no idea what she’s saying but #mood

(Something along the lines of) Person A: gasp! Person B: ? Person A: your bra strap is showing Person B: [I don’t give a fuck bitch starts playing]

[scissorspider]

my favorite thing is when ur gay and ur friend who is also gay says “thats gay. youre gay” and its such a nice subversion of how thats typically said like its this little affectionate nod btwn gays and i love it

[dubblebubble]

those people who sit with you and help you rationalize all your negative thoughts and never yell or get tired and just stay with you until you feel less sad are the real angels of this world omg

[amb00bs]

Yes

[thingstolovefor]

“A woman was standing calmly, her long dress the only thing moving in the breeze, as two police officers in full riot gear confronted her in the middle of a roadway to arrest her. She had no facial expression at all. She just stood there.” ~ Jonathan Bachman, photographer

[arrest-my-skin]

I only saw that one still before… This progression is so much more powerful. 

[thingstolovefor]

An example of someone acknowledging their white privilege and using it to help. #Love it!

[lamerialove]

THIS IS HOW YOU’RE AN ALLY!!!!

[blackeducatedurbane]

[jaredkeenerphoto]

If we’re dating I will get you sexually frustrated a lot just to amuse myself

[royeah-deactivated20180326]

that is so true not even sorry

[sun-spiral-deactivated20210109]

we actually don’t even need to be dating if i figure out your kinks it’s on like donkey kong

[memewhore]

[professorspork]

#this single photo here validates the existence of the selfie stick I SWEAR TO GOD

[quietcode-deactivated20200903]

[tylerknott]

Typewriter Series #1610 by Tyler Knott Gregson

Chasers of the Light & All The Words Are Yours are Out Now!

[nevver]

Pattern recognition, Fumihiro Kato

[gr8writingtips]

writing tip #1583:

when in doubt, add lesbians

[lucym-aud-blog]

“describe world history in a few words”