Amoris lingua
A/n: ur scrolling through the far cry tag and u see my skeleton holding onto this post, u take it and my bones turn to dust and blow away in the wind
John
To you: Gifts— John has money, he has a lot of it and he's used to buying love from those around him. He'll revert back to this with you in the beginning and you'll have to sternly or softly remind him he doesn't need to do that with you. He'll accept your wishes and avoid thoughtless, flashy gifts but he will still buy you things, he wants you to know he thinks about you even when you're apart. He also likes to show he can provide for you and that you'll never want for anything while you're with him.
To him: Words of affirmation— John can be very insecure, he tries to hide it but he worries about how you see him and how you feel about him constantly. Hearing you say positive things about him really helps ease his mind, he needs to be reminded you don't think he's a monster. When you tell him you love him or praise him for the work he did that day he'll melt into your awaiting hands and pepper you in appreciative kisses.
Joseph
To you: Acts of service— Joseph loves to do things for you, be it something you asked of him or not. He'll do house work so you won't have to, make you breakfast in bed, have something ready for you to eat when you come home. He's basically a house husband that relishes in taking care of you, if there's anything that can help take some of the weight off of your shoulders he's willing to do it. Having you melt under his hands while he gives you a massage or seeing the bright smile on your face when brings you your favourite drink really makes him feel fulfilled.
To him: Quality time— He enjoys spending time with you so knowing you enjoy spending time with him as well means a lot to him. Invite him on a small stroll by the Henbane and he'll be a very happy man, especially if you two settle down somewhere by the river and just talk for hours, letting time go by as you pick at each other's minds and get lost in whatever topic you’re talking about.
Jacob
To you: Physical touch— Jacob is the type of man to put actions above words, so the way he shows he loves you is through touching you or being physically affectionate with you. He'll kiss your temple or hold you close to his chest before ever saying the words 'I love you', but to him it has the same meaning. He's proud to have you by his side and will indulge you in low-key PDA on good days, even initiating it from time to time.
To him: Words of affirmation— He won't admit it but hearing you be open and proud of how you feel about him brings a warm swell to his chest. When you wrap your arms around his waist and murmur praise and offer respite after a long day he can't help but melt in your hold. It's not often he's the one receiving compliments and encouragement so anytime you give them he's hit with a wave of motivation and even more appreciation for you.
Faith
To you: Quality time— Faith loves having you near, she loves sitting with you in meadows and she loves cuddling you on your couch. She'll be content wherever you are and no matter what you're doing as long as she's with you. She enjoys hearing stories about your past and she'll share her own with you while you two sit by the Henbane or stargaze on top of a hill. Lay your head on her shoulder and hold her hand and she won't stop smiling for hours. Steal her away for a spontaneous picnic or hike and she'll be on cloud nine.
To her: Physical touch— Faith loves to be held by you, she loves the way her hands fit in yours and the way your lips feel against her chapped ones. She feels safest when she's curled up against your chest and your body is curled around hers, the sound of your heartbeat in her ear and soothing her to sleep. Having you grab her hand or wrap your arms around her unprompted will leave her heart fluttering for hours afterwards, and a kiss from you leaves her dizzier than the bliss ever could.











