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Hello everyone and welcome!I wish for people to understand the struggles of what it's like to be different in any way shape or form. I am here to support all of you!Ask a question about anything, don't be shy! -Genderfluid, Bisexual-

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$3 Headshot commissions!

Hello there lovely people! I’m currently doing some headshot commissions for only $3! If you have any questions please feel free to message me!

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(If you would like colour, please ask!)

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Support Group at my school

I have been talking to the student council of my school about running a support group about gender diversity, they all have agreed that it is a wonderful idea and has talked to the teachers about it. The teachers have also agreed that it will be a good thing to have,  so now it's just a matter of talking to the teachers myself about when and where I can run my support group. I have great hopes that people will show up maybe because they have questions about the genders we have in our community, maybe they don't identify with their birth gender or are questioning. I am hoping it will be successful but is there anything I should focus on for the first session? Any questions you would ask in a support group like this? What would you want to get out of a support group?

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Binders and the heat

Guys, gal, non binary pals, please be careful when wearing a binder in hot weather (or layers) you are at risk of heat exhaustion! Drink lots of water, stay cool and if you do experience heat exhaustion go to the hospital (extreme cases) or sit in front of a fan me use a wet cloth to wet your skin and drink cool water no ice.

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Binding

DO NOT use bandages! DO NOT USE ANY KIND OF TAPE (this includes medical) Instead use sports bras, doubling up is okay,(with the bra, NOT the binder, DONT double up on a binder!) just don’t do it for too long. Suggested time to bind is 8hours, even if it’s with a sports bra . Don’t exercise while binding, your breathing is restricted and you’ll have a more likely chance to pass out. Don’t sleep in a binder/double sports bra Some people swim while wear their binder or doubling, this is okay but it will be hard to get the binder off (depending on what kind of binder you are wearing)

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Is is wrong that I've given up on my gender? Like I know it's there, and I know I'm not cis. I'd even go as far as to say that I know parts of my gender (I know I'm part boy/man. I know I'm part girl. I know I'm part agender.) But nothing fits. And I have no way to explain it to people.

No there is nothing wrong with that! Maybe you could say you are trigender or you don’t always recognise yourself with your birth gender?

I hope this helps and if you have any other questions please ask!

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You wanna dress how you want to?

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(Cis girl anon from before) Thanks for answering my question, that does help! Um, in regards to what you said, what does it feel like to not identify as male or female, or to identify as both? I know that I seem to flip between m and f, but I'm not sure if I've also felt both or neither? Also, I know clothes don't define gender, but are clothes related? I often find myself putting on 'guy clothes' and feeling very masculine, or feeling masculine and wanting to wear 'guy clothes'. Thanks! - A.N.

[For me] Identifying as both is confusing and frustrating asI would like my mind to decide, clothing is difficult to choose and it dose interferewith my daily life.  With neither, I justfeel comfortable in anything and don’t care what pronouns are used, but it isn’toften that I identify as neutral. [with being Genderfluid there is no pattern,but that is not the same for everyone]

Clothes can be related, if wearing masculine clothing makesyou feel comfortable and closer to being male, then wear them! [I do wear feminieand masculine clothing to feel closer to the gender I identify with at thetime]

Sometimes even doing ‘masculine’ or ‘feminie’ stereotypes isseen when someone feels a certain gender

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Hi, I'm a bigender girl. I've been hearing that bigender means somedays you feel masculine and others feminine. But for me I feel masculine and feminine everyday. Do you think you could help me understan this?

Bigender is a gender identity which can be literally translated as'two genders' or 'double gender’. You are not limited two just male and femalewith Bigender. It is okay to be unsure about it [don’t let others tell you whoyou have to be] just ask yourself some questions like:

What gender do I feel like more? What can I do to make myself feel morecomfortable?

Write them down and see if there is a trend. It can take time to find outwho you are and why you feel like this. Maybe try different clothing andsuch. 

[I hope this cleared something’s up ^^” if you have anymore questions pleaseask, I want to help out as best I can!]

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Hey um I've always identified as a cis girl, but recently I've been questioning that and I think I might be genderfluid. I find that when I wear girls clothes, and do traditional girly things I'm happy thinking of myself as a girl, but I'm noticing when I wear guy's clothes and do 'guy' things, I find myself thinking of myself as a guy. Does that qualify as genderfluid? Bigender? Sorry I don't know a lot about genders but I wanna learn and figure this out. Thank you!

Bigender is agender identity which can be literally translated as ‘two genders’ or 'doublegender’. This just means your aren’t limited to just male and female, but alsoneutral and both. Genderfluid iswhen you feel all four. It all depends on how you feel and what you want toidentify as. There is also Trigendermeaning ‘three genders’. It is really up to you and how you feel [actives, theway you dress, etc.] and what you want to identify as. It’s okay to be unsure sometimes,you just have to find out what you are comfortable with!

I am glad you want to learn about genders and have someunderstanding about it, just remember your biological sex doesn’t define whatgender you are!

[I hope this cleared something’s up, if not, feel free tomessage me or ask another question!]

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I'm confused on when people say they are neither girl or boy? Could you explain this? Is this on an emotional level? Does this affect sexuality? I'm sorry every time I try asking my friends they get mad. Thank you!

It can’t also be called agender, meaning no gender, the person doesn’t identify with either (pronouns could be they,them,theirs). This does not effect sexuality in any way, shape or form. A person would be (for example) pansexual and still not identify as any gender.

I hope this cleared some things up! ^.^

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So as a gender fluid person do you also have different personalities? When you say you are neither does that mean their is a third type of gender? And when you are both is that troubling emotionally?

When I am neutral I feel as tho I could do anything and not be angry with my self. It is troubling emotionally when I am both, I get confused and angry since my mind can’t make itself up, I do (in a way) feel trapped and try to get on with my day

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When you identify as let's say a male, would you typically do "masculine" things and vise versa for a female? Or can you(for example) paint your nails and be fine with it either way? Because typically that would be "girly" in societies eyes.

I would typically do "masculine" things when I feel female. Sometimes I don't mind it after when I paint my nails, sometimes (after an hour of painting nails) I'll be angry and start to scrap it off. But I typically do "stereotypical" things when feeling a certain gender

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Do you dress a certain way or do something to notify people around you what you are that day? Or do you have to constantly update people?

I generally wear different coloured bands for each gender I feel, so pink for female, blue for male, grey for neutral and purple for when I am both (I do dress in feminine clothes when I am female and masculine clothes when I am male, both or neutral is generally a mix.)

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Taking care of homophobic people

If someone says something homophobic around you just say: “We are called HOMOsapians, not HETROsapians”

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(3/3) > Should I keep that neutral and have a complete different name as a boy or just chose a neutral that fits both my girl and boy name? Btw my girl name (given at birth) are: Laura Yolanda. So if you have any suggestions for both neutral and boys name, I'm totally open to hear them. -Thanks! :)

Hi hi! I am sorry it took so long to answer! I recon you could go with a gender neutral name, like as you said before “Ollie” could work or “Yoli”. It really depends on if you are comfortable being call by gender neutral names but if you want a male name then maybe Otto or Yuma? I hope this was helpful but if you want me to give different names then please tell me! (I find that changing from a name it is easy to use the same first letter of your nickname or given name)

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What do you want to know?

Have any questions or topics you want me to cover about gender or being genderqueer? Just ask! Message me about it and what you would like to know and I will cover it on my blog! (Questions can be anything from transgender to non-binary!)

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Pronouns?

What should you use? Which ever ones you want!