NPD Culture Is..

Run by a system with NPD

[narccultureis]

Welcome

More below the cut

This is another “NPD culture is” blog.

All the other ones I’ve seen are either pro or neutral endo/non-traumagenic systems and as a system who is very much anti-endo I couldn’t have that.

About this blog

This blog is a place for pwNPD to submit asks of how having NPD effects their life.

It is ran by one system ( @losbozos-system )

Rules

Start off your ask with “NPD culture is” “narc culture is” etc

You can add additional things as well (“NPD system culture is” “NPD+BPD culture is” etc)

Anon claims are welcome refer to this list before claiming an anon

No asks with NSFW/sex mentions, minors interact with this blog and I don’t want to make them uncomfortable here

No political asks.

Swearing is allowed, no slurs though unless you’re not anon and I can confirm that you can reclaim it. Asks with reclaimed slurs will be tagged as such with “#reclaimed slurs” and “#slur mention” just for those that want to filter out slurs

Please be patient with asks, I am only one person and can get very busy with real life so asks may take a bit to get to.

DNI

• While this blog won’t have syscourse on it, it is still an anti-endo blog. Endos DNI. I’m iffy on supporters interacting, but so long as you don’t bring syscourse into this and respect that I don’t want endos interacting with this blog, we’re all good.

• “narc abuse” believers are definitely not welcome here

• if you believe any PD is inherently abusive

• basic dni (bigots, p*dos, z**s)

Reminder

Not all posts are representative of every pwNPD

Important post (link)

[narccultureis]

questioning npd culture is realizing that sometimes you genuinely just can't see other people as equal to you/sometimes you only see people as a means of praise

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not culture but, anon who posted that ned flanders house ask - I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE

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narc culture is really? yeah! by KYLE

( literally makes me feel like im on a pedestal )

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your blog is literally like in THAT Simpsons episode where they built a new HOUSE for Flanders, he walks in, and the house begins to shrink! AHAHAHAHAHAAH!!! Oops, I caught a laugh

I’m not gonna lie, I am unfamiliar but I hope this is a good thing

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tw sh/ed/sui talk/mention.

questioning npd culture is wanting to get worser than every body else. i need to be covered in scars, to be the thinniest, to have attempted the most. i want the pain, the attention. i want to be special, to be “like not everybody else” but at the same time i hate myself and i only wish to die because if i can’t be the best, not even in my pain, i better give it up because i can’t stand being a loser.

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NPD+BPD+ASD culture is Your EP/FP telling you that its ok to open up and unmask, so you do, by telling him you actually don't really care on an emotional level about him and his sad shit, but caring because 'its the right thing to do' and because logically, as a good friend, you should care and make sure hes ok. Then when he gets all upset later he goes and says "oh but you don't actually care because you dont have feelings" and then trying not to get mad or split on him for that because oh my god 🙂🙂🙃🙃 what did i *just* fucking say??? AAA i love him but i hate him sometimes. I constantly have to mask. I cant even fully unmask around my FP because of this shit. Im so fucking tired bro.

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npd + bpd culture is watching your fp get closer to someone else & just violently hating that person because why would my person like them more than me, im better than them!!!!

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NPD culture is being afraid to call our delusions of grandeur actual delusions.. because we deleted like they aren't as bad or as serious as like other delusions or something and we don't want people to think we're being ableist 😓

- 🐾 of 🦋🐛 system

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npd culture is using the same claim for multiple vent & culture accounts so you can follow your own tag and closely monitor the notes :3

-🍖🌾

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NPD culture is wanting to say "HOW FUCKING DARE YOU INSULT ME, I HOPE YOU KILL YOURSELF YOU LITTLE—" but actually saying "I don't like you *block*"

- 👑 of 🦋🐛

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npd culture is LOVING being the best in class. like YES admire how good my math project is, talk about how good i am at building YES!!!! i am AMAZING!!!! yessss i know you suck :< BUT I AM BETTER!!! look at how ahead i am!!! i don't even have to try!!!!

yes!!! talk about how good my fanfiction is!!!! yea!!!! ik i'm good, keep telling me i am!!!

and that motivates me to work even harder so i look like i can do everything effortlessly. channel the npd into being productive.

--🎪 system

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NPD culture is hating when people make “well I’m [x] and I (don’t) think [y] is okay” statements because it’s almost always about their opinion not a fact because they don’t represent everyone in that group… unless I do it because my opinion is objectively the most correct and everyone should have the opinion as me

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npd culture is being very motivated to do something for someone IF they buy you something for doing it. like mf fuck you what’s in it for me

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npd culture is being fine with other narcs/our fp being the best, we all are!! it’s super relatable!! but the second anyone else is good, BOOOOO!!!!! the only other good ppl r ppl like ME.

— 🎪 system, 🖤

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npd / bpd culture (and slight rant / vent with lots of directing at someone (specific so probably not anyone reading this blog)) is hey I made a joke and asked you to laugh with the /srs tone tag because I need you to laugh right now why aren't you laughing where are you come back why aren't you laughing what are you doing that's more important than me am I not funny to you anymore what did I do wrong why are you not here when I need you what's wrong with you are you an idiot are you doing this on purpose am I that forgettable to you?

it's also feeling a strong need to always clarify what I mean, but simultaneously believing if someone can't just understand me perfectly then what's the point of explaining it to them when they won't understand anyway.

(can I take -💫✨️ as a tag? /genq /nf)

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[narccultureis]

Autistic npd culture is seeing someone we admire like something we like, so we send them helpful advice via ask box, and how much we love the thing they're getting into, and then they respond with

"ok ig..."

Unfollowed, blocked

I should fucking kill you actually wtf is wrong with you

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